Originally posted by: AreYaar
Finally watched today's epi.
LOL I really wonder these days if I'm watching a whole other show rather than the one people twist so much in reacting to.
Subah se I'm seeing reactions of how HS was butchered today, how much he was "glaring" at Babita.....lol YEH glaring hai? He's shown 10 times more anger than this to her in other scenes....today he just looked upset for a bit.
In fact I'm surprised that no one noted how he kinda backed off once Babita started her usual tear parade....he was still upset with her but was giving her somewhat resigned looks.
The other discussion I find funny is the presumption that HS didn't contribute at all to the wedding expenses.....all Mini mentioned today was that they used money from the business to pay for the wedding.....where did she say that it was ONLY that money that funded the wedding? She didn't say that only WE paid for the wedding and no one else contributed.....they could have and likely did share the expenses.....Matlab itna sweeping presumption kar daala ki HS is a freeloader who was content with PB paying for the wedding......tauba.....lol....is cheez ke liye subah se apology ke liye halla hai? haha
Baaki the story is essentially building up towards Babita making a big blunder in losing everything that she has earned in the course of independence since leaving Ashok. She clearly stated today that she never really wanted that independence....she clearly stated today that she is one of those women who's world begins and ends with husband/ghar manage karna....and she also clearly stated that she felt that Mini forced her into doing all these things like running a business.
So it won't be a surprise if after this point, Mini will choose to move away.....Babita is now making Mini feel that she forced her dreams onto her Babes.....whether she is saying this in her usual impulsive childishness or she really means it.....only time will tell.
But it's clear that Babita is too trapped in her social conditioning of "Mera pati hi sansaar hai".....all she wanted was a good, loving husband....only goal in life....lol mahaan hain aisi ladies....pranaam.
Mini is a modern, educated child so her views were different.....but Babita is one of those people who doesn't want to rise above her social conditioning and is quite content living in that bubble.
Mini did put her life on hold for what she thought were shared dreams with her Babes....this business represented that taste of independent identity for both of them.....and Babita is quite happy to kick it all away.......let's see if the writers take it to the brink and pull it back in making Babita realize her blunders or this sets things up for a proper breaking point.
All signs point to Mini atleast trying to step away on her own path now.....Babita as usual has made an abrupt choice of whatever thing seems immediately important to her.....lol right after the shaadi, she claimed it was Mini so she made abrupt declarations of Mini meri priority hai.....ab after a couple of weeks of "marital bliss", pati hi meri priority hai......LOL
She's a hilarious cartoon to watch.