Let Prerna talk - Page 3

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Manisha, since you pointed out about Bajaj and Prerna, let me reply to that

@Bold - she always spoke upfront with him, right from her demand to not invite basus and sharmas to wedding to simple wedding, she always put her foot down with Bajaj , she talked to him, fought with him , accused him, blamed him (yes out of misunderstanding in veena's case and in the jail track) she judged him, she passed judgements (sent him to jail), understood him, for once when Bajaj was aloof and stopped talking to her she was restless and broke down saying you all have easy ways of letting out while she didn't, she poured her heart out about not be able to talk abt her feelings ..

countless times she told Bajaj that she loved and cared for Anurag and she cannot live without him and took multiple promises from him that he wouldn't harm Anurag... what was all that ?? isn't that communication and talking freely .. wonder if any wife will have this open communication with her husband where she can proclaim and claim her love for someone else and reiterate time and again .
Each time she met Anurag she talked or tried to talk to him,.. that's a diff point that Bajaj was uncomfortable with this subject... I wonder if Anurag can take this open communication from Prerna when she says something about Bajaj ... or if Prerna will be able to speak about Bajaj to Anurag with such frankness and openness ...

Bajaj on the other hand , never ever stopped her from talking except the instances where she wanted to talk about Anurag ...but that to he heard , he never judged her always heard her out to the extent .. "aap jaise chaahti waise hi hoga"

lack of Anurag and prerna's communication cannot be equated with communication between prerish , specially when both relations are not on same level

Momentary happiness and peace is nice, but life is not rosy tainted and glossy , the moment a storm hits, communication or lack of it comes in to play !

very well said Munnijan 🤗

even , in accepting Kukku , he dint give pressure on her. He subtly asked her permission i f she would be her mom or not. Later prerna without saying left and started to spend her time with the kid. he dint order her about taking this responsibility. If prerna would deny to accept kuki , i am sure bajaj would let her go without any doubt. even whatever he dint fulfill, he asked sorry for that . bajaj is whatever with basus, but for his wife he was completely different person .

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Long run ki baat na to Mata sochti hai na uske writers na hum. 🤣

Yahan to daily basis pe tracks change hote hain but yes agar koi aur show hota to communication is important. But then any normal show will not be such a crapfest jahan leads communicate hi nahi karte. So no point in thinking about long run. Take it as it comes and tday I'm happy for AnuPre.

Chalo when you have no issues as their fan, why should I?

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Yeah that's what Prerna wanted when she was forced into marriage... when she was told about kuki after marriage and was handed over the responsibility of a special child .... when they shifted to BB... when he tried to kill Anurag knowing how she feels for him... .. yeah Prerna wanted all these things that he did. Thankfully i didnt watch these scenes. I'm so glad 😃

The thing here is that there should not have been a room for PreRish, IF AnuPre are as good or PreRish are limited to Bajaj's evil nature, then they would not have established a relationship like this, they would have ended the role with him in prison or evil like Komolika and Naveen

Prerna was forced or blackmailed or trapped in marriage with Bajaj that's the starting point of their story, in every theory work starts from 0, point 0 is important to see how far one has come along, 0 is not everything. It starts when you plot growth against time, the line will go through up and down to give you an estimation of what transpired between these two, a peak was observed where Bajaj, who forced Prerna in this relationship, divorced her for her happiness and Prerna, who was forced didn't try once to get out of it, do you see how the their relationship dynamics reversed from beginning to a halt? We'll call it their Half time

Prerna accepted Cookie, in fact she loved Cookie and she was the reason why Prerna forgave Mr Bajaj for trying to kill Anurag.

Bajaj tried to kill Anurag, knowing what Prerna feels for Anurag, same Prerna didn't retaliate in anyway or punish Bajaj in anyway for trying to hurt someone she has feelings for, strange? Maybe Anurag isn't the most important, or Bajaj is significantly important in her life and she can't see him crying, even though he tried to kill someone she loves.

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Manisha, as you pointed out about Bajaj and Prerna, let me reply to that

@Bold - she always spoke upfront with him, right from her demand to not invite basus and sharmas to wedding to simple wedding, she always put her foot down with Bajaj , she talked to him, fought with him , accused him, blamed him (yes out of misunderstanding in veena's case and in the jail track) she judged him, she passed judgements (sent him to jail), understood him, for once when Bajaj was aloof and stopped talking to her she was restless and broke down saying you all have easy ways of letting out while she didn't, she poured her heart out about not be able to talk abt her feelings ..

countless times she told Bajaj that she loved and cared for Anurag and she cannot live without him and took multiple promises from him that he wouldn't harm Anurag... what was all that ?? isn't that communication and talking freely .. wonder if any wife will have this open communication with her husband where she can proclaim and claim her love for someone else and reiterate time and again .
Each time she met Anurag she talked or tried to talk to him,.. that's a diff point that Bajaj was uncomfortable with this subject... I wonder if Anurag can take this open communication from Prerna when she says something about Bajaj ... or if Prerna will be able to speak about Bajaj to Anurag with such frankness and openness ...

Bajaj on the other hand , never ever stopped her from talking except the instances where she wanted to talk about Anurag ...but that to he heard , he never judged her always heard her out to the extent .. "aap jaise chaahti waise hi hoga"

lack of Anurag and prerna's communication cannot be equated with communication between prerish , specially when both relations are not on same level

Momentary happiness and peace is nice, but life is not rosy tainted and glossy , the moment a storm hits, communication or lack of it comes in to play !

Fab munni ji as usual.

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Wasn't this the same situation when she was with Bajaj? She never spoke what she wanted that's how her character has been written.

But here the difference was that today she was smiling... she was happy... she felt complete in his arms... he completes her. She can express those small desires of hers to him... mujhe shaadi chahiye poore reeti riwaazon ke saath, mehendi haldi... it was blissful to see her beaming with happiness today. Her eyes spoke volumes today... as if they had done nothing but hold back their tears all these months.

Sometimes it's not about spoken words but the feeling of being with someone you love deeply ... that's what matters the most. I just loved the scene today.

But I think I'm the only one with an opposite opinion and that's understandable when you know how the situation is here daily.

Pregnancy revelation even I wanted but the topic was more about communication not only pregnancy revelation so this is my pov about this.

why this masochist trait is being defended so much? In normal cases if any lover says what anurag said "you are lucky etc etc" , he will either get a slap or break up In return...she can't see beyond haldi mehendi shadi soulmate anurag, she doesn't bother to remember her own parents in her second or third wedding! Even they don't care about her weddings anymore...I am not comparing bajaj and anurag at all..but what is it in anupre that's remotely normal, this I fail to see...they had a brilliant chance with bajaj prerna anurag triangle but all the three characters just..went to the dogs ...they were better before this track started..and the Cvs didn't learn their lesson either.

How is communicating not important in a relationship ? This is what they talk after bajaj fiasco? You are lucky I didn't give up on you ? 😲 Anurag was nothing but a petulant child in the entire track who only japo mala or prerna meri hai and got prerna In the end coz it irritated the hell out of the audience and the villain bajaj...🤣 whatever that was..they still have nothing to talk ?

Pre expressing her emotions khulke means serial ka THE END!!

Ekku doesn't want that So we have to make do with what we get.

I mean it is so in-your-face that this show CVs always try to forward the male narrative by keeping the female neutral, especially so in the last track. Man, the way Pre was made to confuse people! Track janha, FL ke emotions wanha. 😡

I have stopped expecting anything practical from Ekta's show! Anu saying the same "Ab hum hamesha saath rahenge". Pre saying the same, "Mujhe rituals wale shaadi chahiye" added nothing to the story. They could have put more meaningful conversations like the beautiful "Have I ever told you..." one they had earlier.

I so wanted them to communicate properly and probably give each other space before jumping into the next nearest marriage and make more promises 😵, but from show point-of-view, they cannot afford it right now, literally. Looking at the condition of the show in the last few months, they need to show high drama to make up for lost ratings and hook TRP viewers. Subtle scenes won't get them that. Cue in AnuPreShaadi lollipop with Komolika as the mirchi 😆

Originally posted by: lunagoodlove

Pre expressing her emotions khulke means serial ka THE END!!

Ekku doesn't want that So we have to make do with what we get.

I mean it is so in-your-face that this show CVs always try to forward the male narrative by keeping the female neutral, especially so in the last track. Man, the way Pre was made to confuse people! Track janha, FL ke emotions wanha. 😡

I have stopped expecting anything practical from Ekta's show! Anu saying the same "Ab hum hamesha saath rahenge". Pre saying the same, "Mujhe rituals wale shaadi chahiye" added nothing to the story. They could have put more meaningful conversations like the beautiful "Have I ever told you..." one they had earlier.

I so wanted them to communicate properly and probably give each other space before jumping into the next nearest marriage and make more promises 😵, but from show point-of-view, they cannot afford it right now, literally. Looking at the condition of the show in the last few months, they need to show high drama to make up for lost ratings and hook TRP viewers. Subtle scenes won't get them that. Cue in AnuPreShaadi lollipop with Komolika as the mirchi 😆

Now this time if they don't get married they will certainly have sade hue ande from the audience..but marriage is done and anurag has an accident and memory loss , well..in kzk land..jahan se chale the wahin par khade hain..in short..moving in circles.

Trust me komo will.be a bigger flop than bajaj. And anupre dumber than bajajs time.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Now this time if they don't get married they will certainly have sade hue ande from the audience..but marriage is done and anurag has an accident and memory loss , well..in kzk land..jahan se chale the wahin par khade hain..in short..moving in circles.

Trust me komo will.be a bigger flop than bajaj. And anupre dumber than bajajs time.

bold- I am not putting anything past these writers. Especially, after seeing Bajju's hashr in the last week, they can do anything!😆 That is why only interested in taking the small small joys and entertainment.

They do have a good possible entertainer track here if they go for memory loss, but only if they focus on moving the story forward every episode and stop playing merry-go-round.

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Manisha, as you pointed out about Bajaj and Prerna, let me reply to that

@Bold - she always spoke upfront with him, right from her demand to not invite basus and sharmas to wedding to simple wedding, she always put her foot down with Bajaj , she talked to him, fought with him , accused him, blamed him (yes out of misunderstanding in veena's case and in the jail track) she judged him, she passed judgements (sent him to jail), understood him, for once when Bajaj was aloof and stopped talking to her she was restless and broke down saying you all have easy ways of letting out while she didn't, she poured her heart out about not be able to talk abt her feelings ..

countless times she told Bajaj that she loved and cared for Anurag and she cannot live without him and took multiple promises from him that he wouldn't harm Anurag... what was all that ?? isn't that communication and talking freely .. wonder if any wife will have this open communication with her husband where she can proclaim and claim her love for someone else and reiterate time and again .
Each time she met Anurag she talked or tried to talk to him,.. that's a diff point that Bajaj was uncomfortable with this subject... I wonder if Anurag can take this open communication from Prerna when she says something about Bajaj ... or if Prerna will be able to speak about Bajaj to Anurag with such frankness and openness ...

Bajaj on the other hand , never ever stopped her from talking except the instances where she wanted to talk about Anurag ...but that to he heard , he never judged her always heard her out to the extent .. "aap jaise chaahti waise hi hoga"

lack of Anurag and prerna's communication cannot be equated with communication between prerish , specially when both relations are not on same level

Momentary happiness and peace is nice, but life is not rosy tainted and glossy , the moment a storm hits, communication or lack of it comes in to play !

I'm sorry, but what constitutes communication here exactly? Does it only mean hiding everything else about oneself and letting your life partner know what you deem relevant only? Only give her the bits that suits his agenda and leave the rest? Did Bajaj tell Pre before she married him that she had to be a mom to a pre teen mute kid? Did he ask her when he decided to shifto BB and live right in front of Anurag who happened to be her ex lover/husband and thus now has to live with her former inlaws too? Did he tell her when he tried to make that accident a serious one in an attempt to get rid of Anu? Did he tell her anything about his past? Did he tell her about the things he told Anu about his past, about his father? Does Pre literally know ANYTHING about Kuki's past, why she is mute, who her mom is , why she left....where she is?

I saw him communicate nothing of relevance about himself to Pre. Pre is only shown the front he deems she needs to see and nothing further than that. And the most important decisions that affects both of them has been taken by him unilaterally only.

Communication does not only mean being a hearing board to the 2 decades younger girl that you practically blackmailed into marriage with you, who has literally no one that knows about the truth about her marriage and what she had to do for her love. So she had a couple of dialogues of ranting and showing anger and talking about her love for Anurag? And since the truth about the marriage is a secret who else is she going to rant about all these to under the circumstances except the one who manipulated her into the situation she is in currently? That's communication?

The marriage truths of Anukom and Prejaj are plot devices so ofcourse the leads won't let the other know about these truths. And however much people want to believe that Anupre never talk about their lives and their wishes and what they want from life, the truth is they already HAVE talked about all those important things with each other and THEY DO KNOW EACH OTHER and their families very well.

And most importantly, they love each other and they are in their early 20s only. I certainly DON"T expect them to be so mature and well versed in life experiences right now at this stage in life. So they act like young adults in love....isn't that what they are?....young?...So they are allowed to be foolish and immature and grow into their relationship along the way. And did you guys really not see her happiness and relief on her face during these last two episodes? Where was that during the last 4 months or so? They love each other...Let them love each other....IF they decide to leave each other on their own then so be it. But its their life and their choice and what makes THEM happy is to be with each other for now.

100% THIS! It’s like the writers have decided Prerna the woman doesn’t exists. She is an extension of the men around her. I have spoken at length about lack of monologues or even a friend who is staunchly team Prerna.

Even a couple of episodes ago, she said, thanks mr.bajaj for letting me go back to anurag. I was like HUH! Lady what!!!! No matter what, a woman saying that dialogue shows any lack of self esteem, self awareness. Does she constantly feel gratitude The men around her for loving her/giving a shit about her finally when their egos have cooled a bit? If this was any other show, I’d be like Prerna needs intense therapy or something for portraying she feels less than the folks around her. Her lack of self worth is so so alarming.