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Originally posted by: Paytonlee101

Babita will never learn. She is giving HS the liberty to treat her as he likes. Sooner or later he is going to take her for granted and it will be her fault. Im glad Mini would start focusing on her career and future because her mother isnt. She should leave for college in a different city. Seperation will be better for both of them. Babita can focus on her married duties and mini can focus on her future.

No it will be Hs fault for not giving her the phal of her love dedication and seva

i want mini to leave ASAP and get a life. Is babita ko pankh nahi de sakti woh. she is not capable of flying

I don't know why everyone's being so harsh on HS. It seemed in character for him to behave this way.

Remember, Chachiji holds a very special place in his heart considering what she did for his mother. Seeing her burn herself would surely have hurt him a lot. Just like he can't see Naeem Bi in pain, it's the same with Chachiji. The reason behind it at that point becomes irrelevant. What remains on his mind is the fact that they got hurt in the first place when they shouldn't have.

As for him yelling at Babita, I feel like he just vented his anger on her because he was angry over the fact that his Chachiji got hurt in the first place. It also goes back to what he explained to Lala and Naeem Bi in Episode 51. Every man has a beast inside of him that needs to be kept on a tight leash. The berating of the woman in front of others was also cited by him as an example of what this beast could do to make itself feel better.

HS isn't different from all the other men and he never tried to present himself as one. He has actively tried to be good but there are days when he will slip up.

I hope the shop closes down and or Kammo takes it over

Babita is useless as useless gets

Originally posted by: Meghna_IshRa

I am sure it is not that bad... anyways it's just my opinion... everyone has a temper and no one is perfect...saying one of the either is not perfect for the other by seeing just one scene or episode is overreacting according to me..HS cannot suddenly become undeserving of Babita just coz he has temper/ego issues or vice versa...no offence to others who do not agree

I am with ya.

No couple evolves without these fights. Part and parcel. Sometimes it’s wife’s ego toh sometimes it’s husband’s.

Neither of them is undeserving of each other coz of this.

Originally posted by: tantal

HS told babita that he pretended to be close to Minnie to impress Babita. I am thinking that he pretended to be this magnanimous, forward-thinking, progressive man too to impress her.

Because right now he is behaving just like a typical small-town, chauvinistic, egotistical Indain male. He shouts and berates at ladies in presence of others. Hits them at their sore points because he is soooo angry. And he never says sorry even when he is clearly wrong and when he does he makes this into this big dramatic meltdown.. mera sab kuch khatam ho gaya type. He probably thinks any job woman has outside home is trivial and can be shelved at the drop of a hat. Chachi was there for one day and he couldn't tkae a casual half day off when he is supposed to be so close to her? and he comes home and throws a fit, in front his revered guest.

I didn't think I would say this but I feel sorry for Babita.

And this Saroj has nothing elses to do than instigate Babita? She is asking her ' Is mInnie going to stay with her for long in this house?' What the hell

looks like it now

Babita : Mohabbat bade kaam cheez hai

Mini : Yeh bekaar bedaam ki cheez hai

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Originally posted by: naq5

dont worry she used to smile exactly the same way in first 3-4 episodes while talking about ashok and her love to mini whenever mini questioned it. no difference. difference sirf humko malum hai. babita both times did not know the difference when she was talking about it. tab bhi woh aise hi pyar me pagal thi. seva pati ka pyar and sacrifice an all. its just that tab seva ka phal nhi mila so she was disappointed. is baar bhi nahi milega to she will be equally

Worst will be If they equate the two marriages .In first marriage she got mad in love dharam Seva and didn get anything and in second marriage she is going to have same experience .What will be the difference between Ashok and HS then .I hope they execute it well without making HS negative .

Originally posted by: Paytonlee101

HS character has taken a turn for the worst after marriage. Before it I had an admiration for who he is and the bond he had with both babita and mini. But after he said that he got close to mini to impress babita i dont get the same feeling i used to get when they bond. Even with their emotional talk on her bday did not have the same feeling. Feels like he is just playing fake and just trying to smooth things up because of the guilt that he didnt allow mini on that night. Wont be surprised if they take a leap with mini going away for studies and when mini comes HS has turned full villian on babita and she will again build her up

no please i dont want mini to leave everything and keep herself stuck with babes. tomorrow she will marry another man and behave same way

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I am with ya.

No couple evolves without these fights. Part and parcel. Sometimes it’s wife’s ego toh sometimes it’s husband’s.

Neither of them is undeserving of each other coz of this.

Exactly my point...I hate this bashing going on...one day its Mini, Babita or HS...all of them are flawed but that doesn't make them full fledged villains..

Originally posted by: naq5

No it will be Hs fault for not giving her the phal of her love dedication and seva

So what’s wrong with that? Everyone deserves the credit and phal for their seva.

If she toiled for Khuranas and they didn’t appreciate her, Khuranas are at fault much more than anyone.

Babita is wrong here to immerse herself in Husband and grihasthi but still if she tools herself for HS, she deserves love and appreciation for that.