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Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

No offense but aren't you guys kind of looking down on housewives?😆

You know, It has been a matter of conflict for me for a really long time. For a long time "it's her choice after all " was what I used to follow. But lately I pay more attention to factors that lead to women into making that choice. And no offense but I think limiting one's self to household work and children means waste of lots of opportunity and potential. Children don't need mother 24*7 either.

I read one story in sudha Murthy's book wise and otherwise, where she narrated stories of two different women. One was her college friend, a housewife, who was full of self doubt and lacked confidence despite having a post graduate degree and other lady was a woman she met in a bus- who learned how to grow vegetables and started some backyard farming and her husband started asking for her opinions for his own farm.

Dealing with world and strangers gives a confidence and experience that staying at home can never bring on the table. Being a housewife does not challenge one enough to push boundaries, that's what I feel.

It's a choice at the end of the day, but I personally don't understand why someone would go back to a small pond again after swimming in the ocean.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

not only that. You will also go back in reverse order. And aapka koi progression nahi hoga.😆😆

Yeah. After marrying a feminist mard she became more patriarchal than before. Ironic.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

Yeah. After marrying a feminist mard she became more patriarchal than before. Ironic.

It's because social conditioning from childhood often prevents women from opening up even after marrying into an open family. I've seen tons of examples.

Sometimes such women fall back to known traditions because they feel it is their comfort zone. Not all women can make the best of newfound freedom.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

@bold — that’s quite hypocritical to be honest.

You like to be served by Babitas coz they are docile and will serve you without a word against. But you respect Minis who by the way are headstrong and you know are not gonna serve you. That’s like taking advantage of the meek one. Respect whoever you wanna but then expecting to be served by the docile person is extremely hypocritical. I have also seen such people. Jo bahu seva karegi, she will never be appreciated but jo nahi karti.. stays far away and comes once a week to just maska maaro is your favorite. These type of people are double faced, selfish lots.

Agree. Sometimes even meekness comes across as weakness, although it is often not the case.

From the precap it seems once again babita is showing her inability to handle/think about more than one thing at a time. I mean, she could have taken the aunt to the shop and shown her around right and maybe have her sit down with a cup of tea whilst babita helps out a bit? Then the whole burning incident wouldn’t have happened. I thought she looked funny as hs was scolding her... like a kid

If chachi is indeed like all of you think, she is gonna be no different than Khuranas.. she too will like the Seva like them but not the person.. and Babita is far from docile.. she has resilience and strength.. she surely has the fire too.. however her traits are more subtle than Mini's because they are shadowed by her people pleasing nature

As far as working woman/ housewife, I am a working woman.. actually all the woman in my sasural work.. my mother taught me and my sister to be independent.. so staying home for a long time without any career is not something I can find relatable

However, what I do understand is that for some people, work is merely a means of fulfilling basic neccesities.. they don't really like to expand beyond their horizons.. they would rather handle their house/travel/invest in hobbies and that in my poing of view is fine

For me, what's important is that the person should be allowed to do what he or she wants.. no one should have to be ambitious in terms of career because others would make them feel regressive if they don't pursue their careers.. similarly no one should be forced to give up on work if that's what they wanna do

Babita found success with PB because she loved cooking and Excelled in it.. if your heart is not something, you wouldn't be good at it.. that's why I want that returning to PB should be Babita's own choice.. not a decision she takes on someone's saying

Originally posted by: deefy89

From the precap it seems once again babita is showing her inability to handle/think about more than one thing at a time. I mean, she could have taken the aunt to the shop and shown her around right and maybe have her sit down with a cup of tea whilst babita helps out a bit? Then the whole burning incident wouldn’t have happened. I thought she looked funny as hs was scolding her... like a kid

And what if something had happened to her in shop?😆 it was an accident that could even have happened even in Babita's presence.. I don't think it had anything to do with Babita's inability to handle more than one things..

Originally posted by: inlieu

You want the show to end? LOL!

It will eventually.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Who knows? Ab aur kya dark shade dekhna hai?

Evil stepdad to ban gaya, aaj MCP bante huey bhi dikhega.

Sirf auraton par haath uthaana baaqi hai.

😳

Originally posted by: deefy89

From the precap it seems once again babita is showing her inability to handle/think about more than one thing at a time. I mean, she could have taken the aunt to the shop and shown her around right and maybe have her sit down with a cup of tea whilst babita helps out a bit? Then the whole burning incident wouldn’t have happened. I thought she looked funny as hs was scolding her... like a kid

Why is ensuring her safety on Babes? 😆 Is chachi a kid or unable to take care of herself? Its just a accident that can happen to anyone. How is it even babes fault that chachi ne apne aap pe paani giraliya?

Women are praised as multitasking masters and expect them to do multiple things perfectly. This is other kind of modern exploitation. 😆