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Posted: 5 years ago

Needless to say, after marriage one's priorities changes.

For Babita, Minnie has always been her top priority and she always will be. However, since her marriage, she has started to make HS and his wishes a priority too. Whatever you want to say about her state of mind right now, the fact is, that this is the first time in life that she is receiving a husband's love without any kind of conditions or restrictions. Yes, she may be caught up in all the external factors like surnames, and all the different kind of poojas, but she's doing it out of what she considers to be love. She's doing it partially because she herself wants to do it for him, but also because she thinks it'll make him happy.

We know that what HS really desires is an emotional companionship. He may not care much for all these rituals and customs, but he'll happily go along with it because it'll make Babita happy. It's not a secret that as of right now, his top priority is Babita's happiness. He has seen firsthand how her first marriage got disintegrated and all the scars it left on her psyche. He may not ever completely understand how deep those wounds go, but he will do whatever he can to heal them. As of now, he understands that Babita needs to be eased into this marriage and the role of being not just a new wife, but his wife. She will stumble and fall, and make a whole lot of mistakes that will pain and anger him, but he's willing to bear with it in the hopes that one day, she will truly understand him. That one day, she will look past the surface and see what he truly desires from her.

For Minnie, Babita's independence is everything and their catering service is a symbol of that independence. It's a testament to all the hardships they had to face and how together, they were able to overcome all their obstacles and stand firmly on their own two feet. Minnie doesn't have a problem with Babita taking care of Chachiji or her doing poojas for HS. Her problem is that she doesn't want Babita to do anything at the risk of her own identity. She doesn't want her to fall back into that same vicious trap that she had broken out of. Marital artifacts like sindoor and mangalsutra are fine but they shouldn't define her. There's more to Babita than just her surname, or her marital status. She's also a mother, a sister, an entrepreneur, an ex-divorcee, a woman who survived multiple sexual assaults, a woman who fought her own divorce case in court, a woman who gave inspiration to other women around her to take up jobs themselves. She's all of this and still, so much more. This is all that Minnie wants from her Babes - to realize her own worth and not be tied down by just one thing.

As life progresses, priorities change. Those that remain stagnant may change in their degree but it doesn't mean that their value has been completely erased.

Let's see what today's episode has in store for us.

Hope you all enjoy. <3

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HS tells Babita that he doesn't ask anything from Babes. All he's asking right now is that his Chachi be well cared for so that when she leaves, she does so by giving them all a whole lot of blessings.
If she can manage between serving her and the shop, then do so. All he can do is make a request from her.
Minnie tries to encourage Babes to go the shop saying that she'll help her manage both at home and at work. Babita tells her that HS has asked something from her for the first time, she can't deny him. Their happiness is the one and the same. Minnie agrees saying she's not refuting her from keeping him happy. She just wants her to pay a little bit of attention to her career too. Babita still isn't ready. Minnie gets frustrated and tells her that if HS is so attached to his Chachi then why doesn't he take a day off and help out? Why should Babita do everything alone?
Babita tries to make her understand that his work is really important, he can't just take a day off like that. Minnie questions her if her work isn't important. Babita refutes her saying has she ever seen a man do any of the house work? She's the DIL of the Haveli, it's her responsibility to take care of everything.
Saroj reminds Babita how this is her second marriage and that she'll have to be very careful with it. She tells her not to disobey him.
Minnie once again asks Babes if she won't be coming to the shop. Babes asks her how can she when Chachiji is arriving tomorrow.
Minnie writes out her complaints about Chachiji in her diary.
HS arrives with Minnie's gift. It's a comic about Chachi.
Chachiji comes home, calling out for HS. He comes running in a hurry as he was still brushing his teeth. Chachiji complains about how he said he was going to send someone for her and yet no one came. Lala comes home by then and tells her how he had gone to the station to receive her. He had even checked the compartment himself but he didn't see her there. She then tells them how someone had upgraded her and she came in the A.C. compartment.
She tells HS how she's not able to travel on her own anymore and it's best if she dies. HS quiets her morbid talks. He calls out for Babita who arrives with some refreshments. HS indicates for her to cover her head and she does. Chachiji admires Babita and she gives her blessings. Chachiji asks HS if he's feeding her properly since she'll need a healthy body to birth his babies.
She tells Babita that she heard about her having a daughter as well and that she wishes to see her. HS calls her by Veer Balika and Chachiji inquires about the name. He tells her that she'll understand when she meets her.
Minnie comes downstairs and greets Chachiji, however she's not impressed with the kind of clothes she's wearing. She tells the same to HS who finds nothing wrong with it. He tells her that these are fashionable these days and there's nothing to it. Babita however, asks Minnie to go upstairs and change. Minnie tells her that Babes can do whatever she wants to impress Chachiji but she won't. Babes tells her that she has never objected to Minnie's clothes before but she's asking her now. Minnie tells her that she'll do it but only for her.
Before going, she tells Babes that once she's done serving Chachiji, then come to the shop since there's a lot of work that needs to be done. Babes tells her that she won't be able to make it. Minnie asks her how will she be able to complete the order on her own?
Babes tells her that she had told her the other day that she won't be able to do it. She suggests that she cancel the order. Minnie surprised, tells her that they'll lose business this way and the shop could shut down. Babes tells her to let it, she doesn't care. Right now, Chachiji is the most important thing for her and she won't be able to give it attention. She urges her to go change again.
HS asks Chachiji what she'll like to it. She tells him that she'll eat whatever Babita gives her. The only thing she'll be strict on is traditions and customs.
Minnie tries to give everyone a motivational speech but fails to do so. Naeem Bi takes over and after a lot of cussing, gets them all working.
HS is busy fanning Chachiji when Babita reminds him that he's getting late for work.
There's a small montage wherein they show Babita serving Chachiji while Minnie and the others prepare the order.
Kammo comes around and asks where all the boxes are going. Naeem Bi tells her the same place where she didn't allow a hundred to go yesterday. She comments on how Kammo had made an excuse to not come to work so that she could steal their clients.
Kammo tells her to stop accusing her falsely. Minnie tells her to stop lying and that the client himself had told her how Khatri had called him. Kammo argues how there are so many people named Khatri in Patiala. She further tells her that she has packed the boxes but where is she going to get the taste from? Besides, apart from her and Babita who's there to take care of the catering service?
Chachiji calls out for Babita to bring something sweet to eat. Seeing Minnie come home, she calls out to her and admonishes her for coming home so late. Minnie, seeing how it's only 7:30 p.m., tells her the same. Chachiji calls out for Babita again and says how in her village it's not considered a good thing for girls to come home after sunset. She asks Minnie what her age is.
Babita motions for Minnie not to say anything. Chachiji asks her again and Minnie answers 18. Chachiji says how she should get married before she does something to disgrace HS. Minnie is about to answer back but Babita stops her.
Instead, Babita tells her how Minnie is still too young and women these days don't get married so early. Chachiji tells her how at Minnie's age she was not only married, but was also the mother of two kids. And Minnie here is flying around without a care in the world. Minnie asks her if she's jealous of her. If she wants to fly around like her then she can.
Babita admonishes her and asks her to apologize. Minnie does so. Chachiji tells Minnie that she may be a Punjaban, but her behavior is just like a Haryanvi's. She's mighty impressed by Minnie as one needs a courageous heart to deal with her. She asks Minnie from where did she learn how to speak so sharply? Babita tries to defend Minnie by saying that she's clean at heart but Chachiji dismisses her asking to her make some paranthas.
She continues to make small talk with Minnie by asking her how far she has studied. Minnie tells her she has completed her first year at college. Chachiji asks her if she knows to speak in English. Minnie corrects her pronunciation of the word. Chachiji tells her that in today's time, if one can't speak the language, then they have no value. Minnie tells her she speaks just fine in English, once again correcting Chachiji's pronunciation of the word.
Precap: Minnie tells Chachiji how they have a catering service shop. Chachiji encourages Babita to go to her store. Chachiji was boiling some hot water when she gets some pain in her knees. Her hand accidentally knocks over the pot and some of the hot water hits her hand. Babita is catering to her while HS tells her that if she had such an important task to take care of, then she should have told him. He would have left work and took care of Chachiji himself. All he had asked for was for two days but it seems like he expected too much from her. Babita is upset.