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Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Channel that in your writing. Like you always say 🤗

That's what I'm trying to do but start hi ni hora. Emotions hi kuch zyaada hore hai.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

That's what I'm trying to do but start hi ni hora. Emotions hi kuch zyaada hore hai.

Maybe take a break for a few days?

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Exactly!!! I don't know why people fault Babita for this to be honest. It seems like she did make an effort, but her efforts were always destroyed by Beeji or Lovely or Ashok himself. During her outburst she did mention that she thought Ashok will understand her, she thought she would complain to him about her situation, but he never cared for her. That must have really made her not open up to him. And how many times did he really come to India before being in a relationship with Meeta, once or twice maybe. How do you connect with someone in such a short span of time, and also how do you do it when the other person doesn't show any interest. I don't think it was a matter of not making an effort on her end. I really don't fault her for this.

The only thing I fault her for is being delusional that he loved her or whatever when the signs were all there. It also seems because her parents were no more, she must have not had the himmat to leave Ashok.

Also Ashok never used social media or contacted family a lot- most probably to hide truth about meeta.

Also, if she had tried for divorce- ugliest thing would be custody battle for Minnie- that too only if Khuranas and her own family didn't block her way to divorce. Alimony offered in Indian Courts are peanuts and she literally had no one to support, Minnie was too young. Often people don't realize that one of the reason women don't opt for divorce is because living on their own (with negligible alimony) isn't only financially hard, it's not physically safe either- here we had HS, but there could be a Khatri too. But why would writers show that when they have option to show that babita has obsession with log Kya kahenge , after all 2nd option is more realistic.

If HS get to know about Babita's so called obsession He can tell her exact same words again he told during Imarti's Case opening ..but this time Using "apna" instead of "paraya mard" 😆

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

Also Ashok never used social media or contacted family a lot- most probably to hide truth about meeta.

Also, if she had tried for divorce- ugliest thing would be custody battle for Minnie- that too only if Khuranas and her own family didn't block her way to divorce. Alimony offered in Indian Courts are peanuts and she literally had no one to support, Minnie was too young. Often people don't realize that one of the reason women don't opt for divorce is because living on their own (with negligible alimony) isn't only financially hard, it's not physically safe either- here we had HS, but there could be a Khatri too. But why would writers show that when they have option to show that babita has obsession with log Kya kahenge , after all 2nd option is more realistic.

Exactly! Ashok-Babita got married in 2001, Mini was born in 2002. Ashok left for London in 2001. Back then there was no social media. My Dad tells me back then how expensive it was for them to contact back home because calls per minute were so expensive so they would just write letters, instead of calling. They did tell us that Ashok used to write letters, but Ashok said he wrote those to the entire family, not just for Babita. Maybe Babita did send him letters, but maybe he never responded back just to her, but instead wrote letters for the entire family. And by 2009, he was already with Meeta, that’s when SM became more prevalent, and by then Ashok didn’t care even a bit, because Meeta was already in his life. Point is we are overlooking Babita’s efforts in making that relationship work, instead we victim blame her for not leaving Ashok sooner. It’s not that easy.

Sometimes we as an audience fail to see it from Babita’s POV. I also have moments where I think, how can someone live like this for 17 years. Sometimes, I fail to understand her, but the reality is there are so many women like her. I have known them myself personally too.

Writers have lost their plot. Why don’t they explore some of these themes instead of log kya kahenge? 🤔. No one thinks about log that much to be honest, to the point of it affecting your life.

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

If HS get to know about Babita's so called obsession He can tell her exact same words again he told during Imarti's Case opening ..but this time Using "apna" instead of "paraya mard" 😆

OMG! 🤣

I don't know... I just can't imagine him telling Babita not to be so obsessed in her love for him.

Hanuman wouldn't care about Babita's obsession... He too seems equally obsessed with her as of now.. though I don't see that as a problem.. you are allowed to be obsessed with your spouse you have gotten after years of loneliness for a few weeks post marriage

And as of now, she cannot be held accountable for how her marriage with Hanuman turns out to be. Good or bad... because she is not being allowed to be how she is.. people are literally "guiding" her on every step..

When to work, when to have kids, whether to keep husband's name, how to handle daughter, how to handle ex in laws nothing is her decision, every decision she has been coerced into taking.. and then there is the clear web of deception that Hanuman and Mini are weaving around her.. she will never be one responsible and grow as a person till she is allowed to take decisions on her own and face their actions even if they are bad

Originally posted by: inlieu

OMG! 🤣

I don't know... I just can't imagine him telling Babita not to be so obsessed in her love for him.

But he told her once so now its not difficult to imagine 😆those words he said fits perfecty now...Chori par dhyan do , business par dhyaan do etc etc

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Hanuman wouldn't care about Babita's obsession... He too seems equally obsessed with her as of now.. though I don't see that as a problem.. you are allowed to be obsessed with your spouse you have gotten after years of loneliness for a few weeks post marriage

And as of now, she cannot be held accountable for how her marriage with Hanuman turns out to be. Good or bad... because she is not being allowed to be how she is.. people are literally "guiding" her on every step..

When to work, when to have kids, whether to keep husband's name, how to handle daughter, how to handle ex in laws nothing is her decision, every decision she has been coerced into taking.. and then there is the clear web of deception that Hanuman and Mini are weaving around her.. she will never be one responsible and grow as a person till she is allowed to take decisions on her own and face their actions even if they are bad

Yes, they need to leave her to make her decisions but of course be there to support her if she falters.

I don't see anything wrong with her being obsessed as long as she doesn't hurt herself or anyone else in the process. Let's see. If it lasts more than a few weeks and is the general tendency she develops that would be unhealthy for her.

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

But he told her once so now its not difficult to imagine 😆those words he said fits perfecty now...Chori par dhyan do , business par dhyaan do etc etc

This is hilarious!

This time she can answer back saying apne hi mard mein mann laga rahi hoon, maryada ki baat hi nahin hai.

Chhori aap ki bhi hai, aur business NB dekh lengi. 🤣