New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 45

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Exactly. According to the three characters, their intentions are right in their own way.

Mini has her own intentions for lying about her true feelings to Babes and HS. Or not telling Babes about her and HS's relationship status.

HS has his own intentions about lying to Babita about him and Mini not wanting a father-daughter label.

Babita has her own intentions about stopping Mini from getting close to Mickey, or wanting HS to act as Mini's father, or concentrating on being a housewife instead of a career-woman.

Sabke intentions unke hisaab se sahi hai. Lekin only Babes gets called out. Whereas HS flaws are easily ignored or intention bolke thik hai kehte hain.

Lol they have already whitewashed Khuranas as if Babita was the one who tortured them for 17 years. Or justified Lovely's action saying "dil ki buri nahi hai". 🤔

EXACTLY!!!!

Yeh kahan kya nyaay hai?😡

It's not a small gesture.....Babita is anyways showing since many days that she wants to lose her identity in just being a wife and nothing more........the change in surname is just the capping of that sentiment.

So there is no turn towards guilt here.....they are building up what's been shown since many days anyways.....Babita has gotten carried away in wanting to "drown in love" as she calls it....to the extent where she is losing her identity.

That is all Mini is cautioning her against.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL once again, this promo is being completely misinterpreted and everyone is blindly blaming Mini for supposedly not wanting Babita to tie herself in relationships. 🤔

What Mini is talking about is not losing your identity in relationships.....yeh kab bola ki rishta hi mat rakho? 😕

A name is part of your identity....it's your choice how you want to keep it.....but you shouldn't be adding a surname to erase your own identity completely and lose yourself in that of your husband or in-laws. That's all Mini is trying to say. Uske liye bhi Mini ko gyaani aur pata nahin kya kya ka label mil raha hai.....LOL

Arey hum kahan bol rahein hain ki usne bola ki rishta tod do?

Bold - exactly my point. I don't think names and specially surnames define your identity. Babita will be the same as Babita Hanuman Singh too.

Haan Mini's trying to say that but all I want is the final call should be Babita's. Usko agar surname rakhna hai toh rakhe. Nothing like she'll lose her identity.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

EXACTLY!!!!

Yeh kahan kya nyaay hai?😡

Its not fair. Matlab haven't we seen all the freaking flaws there could be in a person in Babita? Abb kya flaws dekhna baki reh gaya hai??? 🤔.. If writers were to point out any more flaws in Babita's character, I will just laugh at them because it just seem unrealistic at this point. Shouldn't there be redemption of some sort now? Even Lovely got her redemption of some sorts. 🤪

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Arey hum kahan bol rahein hain ki usne bola ki rishta tod do?

Bold - exactly my point. I don't think names and specially surnames define your identity. Babita will be the same as Babita Hanuman Singh too.

Haan Mini's trying to say that but all I want is the final call should be Babita's. Usko agar surname rakhna hai toh rakhe. Nothing like she'll lose her identity.

Others in previous pages have said that Mini asking Babita to not lose herself in rishte means she shouldn't have jodoed any rishte only.

As for surname....they define your identity if you choose to let them....if it doesn't matter either way, why is she changing her surname at all? She is Babita first....period....surname toh baad mein aata hai.....does she know herself as Babita yet that she wants to add another surname to it again?

Final call lene ke liye you should be INFORMED as well....Babita doesn't appear to be the kind of woman who even realizes when she's losing her identity....or she wouldn't have spent 17 years losing it the first time around.

Nobody is trying to take Babita's choice away from her.....Mini is trying to inform her....she's worried for her....and frankly, seeing Babita ki harkatein, I can't blame Mini if she is worried for her.....even NB has noticed that Babita is losing her identity in getting carried away.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

This forum is also gonna turn into a fan war one day if the show continues like this 😆

When I talk about being frustrated with no growth in Babita's character or Mini being shown Mahaan and giving gyaan to Babita all the time, or HS acting out of character, I am faulting the writers and no one else. These are not real characters, they are being written by someone so obviously the main fault is the writing, not the characters, or the actors.

I feel that has already happened.

It's so frustrating that there's not a single good thing shown about babita since the wedding. How do writers expect us to like a show when one of the protagonist (I hope she's a protagonist) shows no signs of growth. And damage done so far is so bad that I don't see a redemption arc without 360° changes in personality.

And from what we saw in last 2 months or so, it feels like maybe writers didn't want babita's character to grow the way we expected. Maybe they're going to get her divorced for the second time (to prove the point that Ashok was not completely responsible for 1st divorce and then she'll understand about her own flaws). In any case, I didn't sign up for this. For me, PB is already down in the drain.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Its not fair. Matlab haven't we seen all the freaking flaws there could be in a person in Babita? Abb kya flaws dekhna baki reh gaya hai??? 🤔.. If writers were to point out any more flaws in Babita's character, I will just laugh at them because it just seem unrealistic at this point. Shouldn't there be redemption of some sort now? Even Lovely got her redemption of some sorts. 🤪

LOLLLL.

Babita bhi dil ki buri nahi hai!

I'm fed up of everyone in the world telling her what's right and what's wrong. I'd rather let her make mistakes and figure out on her own what's right and what's not.

Agar surname se identity hoti hai then let her figure it out. Let her realise that.

Honestly, I don't see anything wrong here. She's proud of Hanuman toh kyun na rakhe uska naam?

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

LOLLLL.

Babita bhi dil ki buri nahi hai!

I'm fed up of everyone in the world telling her what's right and what's wrong. I'd rather let her make mistakes and figure out on her own what's right and what's not.

Agar surname se identity hoti hai then let her figure it out. Let her realise that.

Honestly, I don't see anything wrong here. She's proud of Hanuman toh kyun na rakhe uska naam?

Originally posted by: inlieu

Ok, so did he say he married her only for sex? I don't remember hearing that anywhere. So that should answer your question.

He didn’t say that. And I don’t believe it.

I was just making a joke about it. 😆

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I feel that has already happened.

It's so frustrating that there's not a single good thing shown about babita since the wedding. How do writers expect us to like a show when one of the protagonist (I hope she's a protagonist) shows no signs of growth. And damage done so far is so bad that I don't see a redemption arc without 360° changes in personality.

And from what we saw in last 2 months or so, it feels like maybe writers didn't want babita's character to grow the way we expected. Maybe they're going to get her divorced for the second time (to prove the point that Ashok was not completely responsible for 1st divorce and then she'll understand about her own flaws). In any case, I didn't sign up for this. For me, PB is already down in the drain.

Trust me its so frustrating to see Babita's character ruined like this. The only thing thats left to show is whitewashing Ashok and Babita apologizing to Ashok, which seeing the way story is progressing, I won't be surprised if Babita ends up apologizing to Ashok 🤪.

I didn't sign up for this either. Maybe I never understood this show or Babita's basic characteristics in 200 episodes after all.