New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 38

Originally posted by: inlieu

Ok, frankly, I don't want this marriage to be reduced to just sex. It cheapens their emotions for me.

Same... but I see many comments saying that no idea why he got married to her other than sex so I wrote in context of that ..

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

For them to walk away? But woh toh hone se raha because they will never do that to her. If they try to make her understand, then she just won't get it. If by some miracle she does, then it'll last for a few days top and then we'll be right back at it again.

Forward Spiral theory.

When HS was explaining this to her, she eventually got it that she had to keeping moving ahead in life, keep learning from her mistakes, etc. I hope she didn't take it to mean that she would keep making the same mistakes over and over. That would debunk this theory.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Ok, if you are going to focus on literal wording I don't know what to say.

Why do you think he got married?

@bold — then where should I focus? what should I focus on? I would discuss show based on character and what they say.

Babita is also being written by someone. She isn’t real. Same is Hanuman. And Babita gets criticized for the wording and behavior. so does he.

I am not a mind reader. I go by what is presented to me through this character. There is no way these character exist beyond how someone is writing them.

@as for why he got married — he loves Her and coz he knows she loves him too. He told her — mana mat karna. Mein janta hoon.. aap bhi manne utna Hi chahte ho.

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

If HS wants to carry the load of this marriage & suffer willingly why only Babes get bashes..he knew what he is getting into ...HS got to know about her true personality before marriage only...(which KK tweeted too) so he is also responsible along with Babes ..

Who's bashing only Babes?

A lot of us are also pointing out HS' mistakes over and over - no one seems to call that bashing.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Even if they got married quickly, they have all the time in the world to talk about things. No one's stopping them.

Suppose it had been an arranged marriage with no pre-marital courtship. They would have still needed to talk to each other and learn about each other, right? It's never too late to start.

This is true and it's what we had all expected but yaha toh woh bhi ni dikhaye jaa ra. Unless it's all being swished away under the implied romance? 😕

Originally posted by: inlieu

Who's bashing only Babes?

A lot of us are also pointing out HS' mistakes over and over - no one seems to call that bashing.

Word😆.......HS ki bhi toh itni saari mistakes I point out almost daily.....tab koi kyun nahin bolta kuch?😆.....main toh itne dino se bol rahi hoon he's in joru ka ghulam artificial mode.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL....there's a unique promise Babita holds for him....he didn't even DESIRE another woman all these years.....so how would he choose a simpler route? Aur koi achhi hi nahin lagi na ise after Imarti.....bas Babita hi achhi lagi😆

Desire only arose for Babita....that is why he pursued her only.....despite the tough work. He isn't really one to shy away from a challenge even if he prefers things to be simple and straightforward otherwise😆

He's a typical man in that he wants sex obviously.....but where he's not typical in is that koi bhi nahin chalegi......he's choosy😆

Well, he didn't have any other kirayedaarni ji in all this time, did he?

Which makes me wonder if they had met under any other circumstance, would they have fallen for each other? He saw her in her day to day, in domestic settings and it was easy for him to visualize them living under the same roof as one family, I guess.

Yes, he may be a typical man in that. But who says women don't want that as well? It's often a taboo subject but the fact is that women want it just as much but often don't talk about it or admit it because they are expected not to. There is shame associated with women having such desires, even though it's the most natural thing in the world.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Forward Spiral theory.

When HS was explaining this to her, she eventually got it that she had to keeping moving ahead in life, keep learning from her mistakes, etc. I hope she didn't take it to mean that she would keep making the same mistakes over and over. That would debunk this theory.

I wonder if it's time for Babita to get another dose of her nightly talks. She's been getting out of whack ever since he stopped giving his gyaan to her. 🤔

Originally posted by: inlieu

Who's bashing only Babes?

A lot of us are also pointing out HS' mistakes over and over - no one seems to call that bashing.

Because HS get called out for being extra good & Mahaan that's why it doesn't count under bashing...

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

^^ THIS!

What amazes me the most is this thread since we're at 40+ pages and yet only the TM has watched the promo. 🤣

I was just thinking that!

Hum bhi na... nahin sudharne waale.