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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I personally am not trying to claim he's mahaan.....I think he's made and is currently making plenty of mistakes.....but his intentions are good....that's all. Not sure if that's what you're interpreting as his "mahaanta"....lol...

But he gets lots of leeways coz of his intentions.

If we go deep into intentions, none of the characters have bad intentions. That’s how Lovely also got justified. That doesn’t make taunting someone and scarring them acceptable!

I am sure when Babita pushes Hanuman and Mini and wants them to father and daughter, she has good intentions. But her approach is wrong and her actions too.

Hanuman if knows and understands all this and yet not confronting Babita, then I don’t give him much credit for understanding it all.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Nahi. Hanuman bechara and Babes atyachari.

Plus Hanuman is also mahaan. 😃

That’s what it seems like. Hanuman is the victim in this.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: inlieu

To karwa dijiye na! Mujhe koi problem nahin hai. Aur suna hai woh mind bhi nahin karta agar ladki jaake usse pehle propose karey.

To aap jake direct propose kro bhai ..Manne na padna in sab chakkaro me 🙏

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Mujhe please baksh do kyunki mujhe aisi aurat ab kabhi ni dekhni. 🙏🏼

I don't know if that's necessarily a bad thing. Agar shaadi mein pyaar hi na ho toh woh shaadi hi kya? And given how Babita was brought up, this would have been ingrained within her.

But it's her second chance at life. I had hoped ki she would have taken things a little more into consideration. Given her and HS a little more time to figure things out or at least TALK about things before getting married but inhe pata ni kis baat ki jaldi thi. 🤔

Even if they got married quickly, they have all the time in the world to talk about things. No one's stopping them.

Suppose it had been an arranged marriage with no pre-marital courtship. They would have still needed to talk to each other and learn about each other, right? It's never too late to start.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Then why did he get married?

According to him, he said he married her coz woh use chahne laga tha. And he is mard after all.


Ok, if you are going to focus on literal wording I don't know what to say.

Why do you think he got married?

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii


No I was talking about HS.

NimbuMirchk said..iF HS will get married again he will get sex and this is all he wants so in response of it I said..If all he wants sex to Babes se kya problem.hai..☢️

Ok, frankly, I don't want this marriage to be reduced to just sex. It cheapens their emotions for me.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Yes! One of my favorite pearls of wisdom from HS. <3

In some regards, Babita did learn a lot but her recent behavior is making it seem like she just washed it all away. After all the hardships she had to face in the last year, what did she learn?

The thing with HS is that yes, he learnt a lot from Imarti but he continued to learn in life too. Whether it was via Lala, Naeem Bi or even Hoshiarpur ka Hoshiar, he opens himself up to learning. He doesn't close himself off. If Babita isn't going to shut down everything toh phir koi kya kar sake?

He even learned from Minnie.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

That's not what I meant.....obviously shaadi should have pyar....but the way small town people approach it is that shaadi ke baad wala affection means pyar......they conflate attraction and desire with love.

Love itself is far beyond all that...has so much more to it.....that is what they don't get.....Shaadi gives them a sanction to call it "love"....because people are brought up with the mentality that pyar is paap unless you have shaadi ka sanction. So they twist it all up.....that is how Babita also seems to be approaching it.....Ashok gave her some affection after marriage so she thinks he loved her....that's not what love is.

HS also either doesn't realize that love is more than just shaadi wala pyaar or he's too scared to discuss the topic with Babita since she seems to have a mental block about it.....given the dopey looks she was giving him when he told her they had an awareness between them since way back, I doubt she will comprehend if he tells her about love before marriage.....lol....it's easier for her to pretend she was a "responsible" mother who just married him to give her daughter a father.....lol

He does realize it but knows he can't get her to understand, not so soon anyway.... Sigh.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But he gets lots of leeways coz of his intentions.

If we go deep into intentions, none of the characters have bad intentions. That’s how Lovely also got justified. That doesn’t make taunting someone and scarring them acceptable!

I am sure when Babita pushes Hanuman and Mini and wants them to father and daughter, she has good intentions. But her approach is wrong and her actions too.

Hanuman if knows and understands all this and yet not confronting Babita, then I don’t give him much credit for understanding it all.

Her approach is about forcing things, it's about lack of awareness, selfishness and self-absorption....that is why it creates a bigger mess.

HS's approach is about trying to give someone happiness....not FORCING them to be happy....just giving into their wishes.....even if it's a facade

Both approaches have something wrong with them....but I don't think it's hard to see why the first approach is way worse than the second one.....that is why leeway is given accordingly.

How you behave factors into how you're viewed.....Babita's behavior in general is way worse than that of HS's.....she creates tamashas almost constantly.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

You know why we all still watch this show? LOL cuz after ALL our frustrations, this show still makes us THINK.....which literally ZERO other shows on ITV make us do right now......that is what we keep coming back for.

So many pages of discussion despite the fact that the story is kinda stuck these days.....loll cuz we are SO invested in these characters and this journey that we can't help but think about them even if we just want to chuck it all and walk away from the bheja fry😆

EXACTLY!! 🤗

Our frustrations are real, and so are the emotions we and the characters feel.

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