New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 32

Originally posted by: inlieu

The fact is, Babita is a mother, and no amount of insecurity or lack of awareness can absolve her of the responsibility for her child, whether Minnie is 18 or 28. I also think thy are pushing the limits to show all the different things that women like Babita can do wrong with no one to blame but themselves. As Poonam and NB both have said in different ways, relationships take work and the second time is not easy by default. Here, a kid is involved.

@bold: I completely agree.....no excuses or personality flaws can justify that lack of responsibility towards her own child no matter how old that kid is.

The writers are definitely pushing the limits with Babita....I suppose what frustrates us from time to time is that we don't know if there is really a light at the end of the tunnel with Babita.....her flaws have been more than established....but without evolution, it feels pointless.

I wish the writing did a better job of balancing the plusses and minuses with her.....and no, her plus can't just be that she cooks good food *rolls eyes*

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold nope, but realizing he might got compatibility doesn't mean he walks out of this marriage. I don't think he ever thought of quitting at this stage, and he's going to do what a lot of spouses do: keep the peace.

We may agree or disagree with this approach, but there are loads of marriages like this.

They are still young so the physical aspect is there but after a while it won't be enough and definitely not the basis of growing old together.

You give him lot of credit. I don’t.

He has some great qualities. But he is not some special kinda who is above others. He is typical in lot of sense.

If he is not getting what he wants. Then being the great that he is, he should come clean and not lead Babita into thinking that he loves her. He can be at least honest with her.

Originally posted by: Openminded

Although there are things I am complaining, I can't stop this serial. There is something that pulls me to this series.

Same goes for us.

I just have to switch on to another serial for 2 mins and I come running back to this show. It's still leagues ahead of everything out there, even in this state.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

YO hai Jeevan ka SABSE BADA SACH🤣.....aisi special aurat jo na kabhi dekhi, na kabhi suni.....lol

Pyar toh baad ki baat hai....conservative women conflate shaadi with pyar....shaadi ho gayi toh pyar mil gaya types....so don't apply modern/independent parameters to it. For small town log, shaadi = pyar....dono intertwined hain.

Babita toh definitely equates it like that only.....HS might have more awareness than her about love before marriage....but yeah, with him, I still think he's also in love with the idea of her more than the actual woman.

As for Babita being so obtuse about her own daughter....lol ab kya bolein...special levels of comprehension problems these are.

Mujhe please baksh do kyunki mujhe aisi aurat ab kabhi ni dekhni. 🙏🏼

I don't know if that's necessarily a bad thing. Agar shaadi mein pyaar hi na ho toh woh shaadi hi kya? And given how Babita was brought up, this would have been ingrained within her.

But it's her second chance at life. I had hoped ki she would have taken things a little more into consideration. Given her and HS a little more time to figure things out or at least TALK about things before getting married but inhe pata ni kis baat ki jaldi thi. 🤔

Originally posted by: inlieu

If sex was all he wanted, he could have found a much simpler gentler girl without complications. He didn't need to go marry Babita and do such hard work.

Then why did he get married?

According to him, he said he married her coz woh use chahne laga tha. And he is mard after all.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

And his "main toh thera mard" comment isn't helping either.

I really don't want him to be this though. This isn't the HS that I became so attached to. 🥺

He isn't, don't worry.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Babita doesn't need to divorce. If this is all she wants from the marriage after being deprived for 17 years, that's her wish. Kaunsa uski shaadi buddhe se hui hai. HS to abhi bhi baanka naujawan hai, dashing, fit bhi hai. Jab tak uss mein energy hai tab tak enjoy karti rahe Babita. Uska haq hai bhai!

No I was talking about HS.

NimbuMirchk said..iF HS will get married again he will get sex and this is all he wants so in response of it I said..If all he wants sex to Babes se kya problem.hai..☢️

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Thats true. Lets put Mini and her excitement for this marriage aside.

Babita and HS didn't have to go through with it. Why did he compromise though? He didn't have to.. it didn't look to me like Babita mari jarahi thi HS se shaadi karne ke liye either. She would have left the haveli.

He made the compromise after making the commitment, and especially after the wedding was already done. The full weight of it hit him after the proposal, and especially after the jhumka incident.

It was his decision and now he has to live with the consequences.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Yup, Minnie is first for him for so many reasons. Woh ainvayi ni kehta.

Honestly, that's what I had hoped too but now I don't think it'll ever come to pass. I had assumed that Babita held herself back a lot because they were constantly skirting around this idea of haq and the boundaries of a tenant and landlord. But shaadi ke baad toh yeh bakri ki tara mein mein karne lag gayi.

@bold 🤣

What will it take for her to notice the two most important people in her life suffering, I wonder?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly.....one can LEARN.....there was once that beautiful scene in the show where HS talks to Daadu about how one can learn at any age....from anyone....there is no perfect age or perfect medium to learn something from......you can learn at anytime from anyone ....if you are CAPABLE of learning.

So even if Babita had a setback and a bad experience before of whatever she presumed love was, she can learn now through the new people in her life, right? HS bhi toh learnt things later in life from Imarti.

Sadly, right now, Babita doesn't seem CAPABLE of learning....that is the problem.

Yes! One of my favorite pearls of wisdom from HS. <3

In some regards, Babita did learn a lot but her recent behavior is making it seem like she just washed it all away. After all the hardships she had to face in the last year, what did she learn?

The thing with HS is that yes, he learnt a lot from Imarti but he continued to learn in life too. Whether it was via Lala, Naeem Bi or even Hoshiarpur ka Hoshiar, he opens himself up to learning. He doesn't close himself off. If Babita isn't going to shut down everything toh phir koi kya kar sake?