New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 31

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

He will get sex. So it’s fine. Coz that’s what he wanted. 😆

That's part of it, and I don't see anything wrong with expecting that from your wife if you love each other and she's up for it (which she CLEARLY is). 😆

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I didn't really pay a lot of attention to what was going on Twitter during that time since I was fairly new to the forum itself. But looking at what happened to the story, then I felt like something was amiss when we weren't getting Babita's POV. This was an incredibly important track and we didn't get even one introspective scene from her? It felt so off. And then the rest was history I guess. 🤔

I agree with you on KK not being able to take criticism though. Whatever form of art it is, it's no longer yours once you share it with someone else. It becomes the public's and they have the full right to comment however they want on it even though you as the artist, may not agree with it.

You've explained it beautifully! I would dare to call myself a creative person as well since I write, make vids, and dabble a bit in making sigs. I know which areas I'm stronger at but it doesn't stop me from trying. Writing is my strongest suit since I practice that a lot and I'm more comfortable with words, but it doesn't shake away that fear of being judged or having my piece not be treated positively. It's your baby, something that you put a lot of efforts into creating. It's only natural to feel so protective over it. But you need to put it out there in the world so that it (and you) can learn how to grow. Take the positive and negative criticisms and grow. Be better and do better. That's all we can aim for. No one's ever going to be perfect since there will always be someone to say something mean about your creation. But you need to learn how to take in strides and let the negativity go.

Thanks... and I really love your writing...

Same thing with me... during imarati track I started reading things on Twitter... but found it soo negative... then I found out about India forum and started reading all the comments while being silent reader only... to tell you the truth... here I feel the positive criticism... in a way everybody is concerned for the show and have good opinion about it... then I made account here... and to be honest I love being here🥰.....

Originally posted by: inlieu

I want the CVs to show her light bulb going on one day, where she realizes these are flaws she needs to work on, albeit slowly. Only then can she find solutions. The whole world might encourage her and support her, coach her, but she is the player and has to navigate the field herself.

Exactly.....the coach-player analogy badly needs to make a comeback PROPERLY again....with a feedback loop to VERIFY that Babita is comprehending the coaching instructions CORRECTLY😳

You can take the horse to the water, but you can't MAKE it drink the water.....that has to be done on its own......what's confounding all of us is WHAT that lightbulb moment can be.....after all this mess, so much advice from NB also, no lightbulb is going off. 🤔

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LOLL, mere expectations toh kuch bhi ni hai when it comes to ITV. Jo milta hai ussi mein khushian dhoond thi hoon. 😆

Not even marriage, my million dollar question is ki PYAAR kyun hua? Kaisa pyaar hai yeh aur kiske ke liye? Were they trying to empty some voids in their lives or were they trying to hold onto some ghosts of the past? It's all just so messed up.

Babita ko kabhi kuch samaj ni aaye ga. Aisi aurat meine apni zindagi pehle kabhi ni dekhi. The level of interest she had on her face when Naeem Bi was talking to her was just absolute zero and the woman was talking about HER DAUGHTER. Vaise toh bohot zyaada Minnie Minnie karti rehti hai but jab Minnie ki baat aati hai tab iska dimaag khaali ho jaata hai. I mean, kya hai yeh? Duniya daari ki fikar hai lekin samaj nahi. Family chahiye par uski koi responsibility nahi. Pyaar aur pati chahiye lekin sirf dikhane ke liye. Yeh cheez kya hai??

Koi please isse scientists ke paas bhejo taaki mujhe koi jawab mil sake. 🙏🏼

@bold frankly, of all the things she's done since day 1 this one shocked me the most. I just don't get it.

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

Arey koi baby nhi bhai..😒 1 Minnie inse sambhalti nhi...costody of small child will be too much ...Why to ruin another life in this mess..

& HS wont marry again..He can live his life with Imarti' memory & Minnie

& Story is about Babita getting wings na...It was never about second marriage

Koi na... lambi line lagi hui hai HS se byaah karne ke liye.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think she's enjoyed the idea of love and romance and being wanted by a man. I can understand that. She expected that if the emotions were there then the relationship would work automagically. It doesn't, it needs work. I hope she realizes that.

Look, a lot of women marry for security, material comforts, a "wife" status, etc. and I think Babita too did think about such things as well as the fact that HS and Minnie got along so well.

Whether or not she really loves him, only she knows. In all this, I don't see HS as mahaan. He's just being tolerant but if it goes on for longer, then he'll just be stupid to let it carry on. It's unhealthy for everyone.

Maybe, I think of the jhumka scene in this instant. She's way too caught up in herself right now to be able to properly even see HS. I don't know if he's mahaan or not and I don't even know what it will take for him to reach this status at this point. He's not a mahaan person to me and never will be. He has his own faults and he has made his own mistakes that he didn't quite rectify in a proper manner. But HS has been presented as a guy who will let things slide but there's a limit to him. He won't let himself be treated as a doormat and definitely won't let his self-respect and dignity be tarnished in any way. The way Babita keeps belittling him by comparing him to Ashok, I don't know how he just lets it go. He has to say enough at some point or another. I know that the comparisons are bound to happen but ek hadh hoti hai yaar aur Babita ke samaj toh yeh aayi gi nahi. At least HS toh kuch keh de.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Because he knew about he amrit manthan and walked into this marriage knowing this sort of thing might happen and it would be up to him to do the heavy lifting. He is an optimist and still has some hope that things might get better. Because he doesn't want Babita, and especially Minnie, to lose that sense of security, or for his own life to become dark and meaningless again.

He would rather suffer and have these two around him than not at all. They literally are his jeene ki aakhri umeed and he would die if they left.

I think if Babita and he split, Minnie might not stay in touch with him anymore. During the omelette scene I was thinking they would still remain in each other's lives, but today the situation is very different. Even if Minnie were to move out with Babita, I don't think she would be able to handle her mother this time. Babita would be a total mess and so would Minnie.

But why not? HS has been a great influence in Mini's life. She should stay in touch with HS. Of course, she will always love her mother and always support her, but doesn't mean she needs to break her relationship with HS. I didn't say they need to live together, they can live separately and still be involved in each other's life. And anyway it seems Mini wants to go abroad, she should and fulfill her dream.

Shayad after Babita separates with HS, usko akaal aajaye and then she can finally learn her potential? She should focus on her business and take it to great heights. Yeh saab shaadi ke bandhan mein ulajh ke she is loosing perspective. Again, they shouldn't have gotten married.

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

To fir Babes ko divorce q krna ..Itna attraction develop kia 200 episode tak to uske sath hi rehlo if it is just about sex 🤡

Babita doesn't need to divorce. If this is all she wants from the marriage after being deprived for 17 years, that's her wish. Kaunsa uski shaadi buddhe se hui hai. HS to abhi bhi baanka naujawan hai, dashing, fit bhi hai. Jab tak uss mein energy hai tab tak enjoy karti rahe Babita. Uska haq hai bhai!

Originally posted by: inlieu

Koi na... lambi line lagi hui hai HS se byaah karne ke liye.

But he won't repeat same mistake again 😆 complicated jananiyon se hath jode

Originally posted by: AreYaar

YO hai Jeevan ka SABSE BADA SACH🤣.....aisi special aurat jo na kabhi dekhi, na kabhi suni.....lol

Pyar toh baad ki baat hai....conservative women conflate shaadi with pyar....shaadi ho gayi toh pyar mil gaya types....so don't apply modern/independent parameters to it. For small town log, shaadi = pyar....dono intertwined hain.

Babita toh definitely equates it like that only.....HS might have more awareness than her about love before marriage....but yeah, with him, I still think he's also in love with the idea of her more than the actual woman.

As for Babita being so obtuse about her own daughter....lol ab kya bolein...special levels of comprehension problems these are.

@bold you hit the nail on the head. I bet this is what it is. Shaadi ho gayi, zimmedari poori ho gayi. Bas, khatam. Koi taane nahin dega.