New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 26

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This......word. Jab ek connect hota hai toh you just FEEL someone's emotions....you don't need to sit and have deep analysis over it all the time.....but Babita doesn't even have that much basic processing power in her it seems. Eyes can communicate everything.....sigh, once I used to think their eyes DID communicate all that they weren't being able to verbalize and express.

But now I think it was all cuz that situation was better suited for them to communicate and connect that much....Babita was in a more obviously darker place....the reason for her pain and trauma was obvious vis a vis a husband who cheated on her and left her. Now whatever is twisted up inside her, whatever is driving this excessive self-absorption and obtuseness.....it's harder to comprehend. Childish toh she always was.....but now her traits are standing out more in contrast because even though she now has happiness and a family that loves her, she seems to have no ability to look outwards and empathize with others beyond herself.

And the showing off aspect has gotten worse.....cuz now she actually has more things to show off than she did before.

It was also easier because it was all about her troubles, her struggles, her pain, her dignity. He was helping and guiding her the whole time, literally losing sleep over it.

As for the showing off... well, nazar lagte der nahin lagti, aur iss family par to waise bhi sabki nazar hai.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

How sad that HS-Mini's love for each other is being reduced to this. As if Mini would ever want to live with HS at the cost of her mother🤔

In all the resentments that fans of individual actors have developed in this forum, some forget that we root for an equation because of the depth it has.....not to bring down other equations.

If Babita is a mess, why does that mean that Mini needs to abandon her to go live with HS? Is that what HS-Mini fans ever asked for? Kuch bhi *rolls eyes*

Mandir banvaa lein woh log jinko Babita ki pooja karni hai.

Who does Babita ki Pooja though? If it’s directed at me. Let me clear this.

I have been blasting her daily since she said she wants to forget herself in Hs love. I blasted her coz she wants to let go of her Shop.

In this very thread I am with Mini about not losing yourself.

I like 3 equally. I just don’t get the biased approach that Hanuman married her and he is the mahaan guy here. That’s what irritates me.

He married her knowing fully her limitations. Toh basically he wanted sex. That makes him tharki.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Do you remember what she was thinking when she saw the omelette scene? It was NB's advice playing in her head....about opening up her hatheli and letting the sunlight rest there for a bit....about atleast trying to grab at one chance of happiness and not closing herself off.

So she made the decision in THAT impulse....Babita is impulsive and reactive....she makes many decisions based on whatever "realization" she reaches in the moment. So she made the decision more for that reason.....I really don't think she made it to get Mini a father.....she did it for the general attempt at finding happiness in the form of this family with HS.

Mini was just an excuse......Babita purely made this decision to get married for HERSELF.....if this was about Mini, we wouldn't have seen the zillion tantrums in the lead up to the wedding. Faltu mein Mini pe bill phaadte hain sab😆

Completely agree. It was impulsive and she didn't think through the implications.

I also think that HS had expected she'd overcome her concerns and then proposed to him, otherwise why would she make such a big move. Little did he know.

Yeah, let's not blame Minnie for everything, please.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't think she truly loved him. Dheere Jalna awoke some physical desires in her and she may yearned for him for but it wasn't love in a very deep manner. There was the potential for it to be but then he made the paraya mard comment and messed things up. 🤔

If you read one of my previous comments, then I elaborated on all of the things that she benefited from this relationship versus HS. When you weigh the two together, then she ended up getting a lot versus HS. And what was HS even asking for? Some understanding? A companion to whom he can share his past with and perhaps get a little bit of emotional healing? But ever since they got married, she has never thought about HS or his feelings. She didn't want to spend the night with him so she cited Minnie as a problem. She didn't want to go on the honeymoon, so she cited him making Minnie feel like a teesra as being an issue. She didn't want Mickey to stay over, so she blamed HS failing to be Minnie's father. In everything, she has found a way to blame HS, or put him down in some way or another. AreYaar was completely right in saying that Babita's emotionally abusing HS right now. Or yeh pyaar ka maara, bas tolerate karta jaa ra hai.

Honestly bolun, Babita doesn't even know what it means to be IN LOVE.....so it's not about ultimatums of whether she ever loved him or didn't love him......I frankly don't even think she KNOWS how🤔

She's too emotionally stunted an individual to even know what the hell she thinks or really feels.

HS kinda hinted at this when he was talking to her during the scene when she claimed Ashok loved her.

She hides behind Mini as an excuse for things she can't cope with and lashes out if people call her out on it. Bas.

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

What if new dulhan turns out be Babes jesi 😆

He will get sex. So it’s fine. Coz that’s what he wanted. 😆

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

So she never loved Hanuman? What was the Dheere Jalna scene, those 3-4 episodes of her contemplating on her feelings, and all that she expressed to NB? 🤔

She essentially did decide after HS-Mini omelette scene but how does that make her selfish? Seeing their bond kinda forced her to make the final decision. Isn’t that what HS wanted from her though? He was upset that she was gonna leave the haveli. He didn’t want her to leave, he wanted her to stay and he wanted her to propose too.

I think she loves the idea of being in love, than being in love itself. It restores her sense of pride and confidence in herself as a woman to see that HS loves her so much, that there's nothing lacking in her, etc. The fact that HS loves Minnie made it easier for her to decide because she knew her daughter would accept him too.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, I doubt Naeem Bi meant to straight up propose the guy. 😆 Even though it wouldn't be possible given it's Babita we're talking about, but I would have loved to see them date a bit. Heck, even just get engaged would have been enough. Actual shaadi baad mein kar lete but yaha sab kuch itni tezi se hua jaise koi maara jaara tha.

I don't think even Babita knows what she wants anymore. Kehti kuch aur hai, karti kuch aur, aur soch iski? Woh toh out of this world hai. Isse samaj na deewar se sar takrane ke barabar hai.

@bold matha phodi

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Who does Babita ki Pooja though? If it’s directed at me. Let me clear this.

I have been blasting her daily since she said she wants to forget herself in Hs love. I blasted her coz she wants to let go of her Shop.

In this very thread I am with Mini about not losing yourself.

I like 3 equally. I just don’t get the biased approach that Hanuman married her and he is the mahaan guy here. That’s what irritates me.

He married her knowing fully her limitations. Toh basically he wanted sex. That makes him tharki.

Nope, wasn't directed at you. Please don't take it on yourself.

I take issue with the original post that claimed that Mini should leave Babita and go live with HS. You didn't make that post.

There are fans of the lead actress in this forum who's bias is quite obvious as they try to run down other characters. That is what I responded to.

I give my take on all three characters as I see them too.

P.S.....yes he got sex....yehi toh JEEVAN KA SATYA hai😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Dating and a conservative woman in small town India? Haha come on yaar....yeh ITV ka show hai.....expectations adjust karo.

They could have had an engagement period to get to know each other but again, nobody really was thinking clearly in approaching this marriage....sab rush mein hua and even now they are too friggin scared to ask themselves or each other ki WHY did they get married😳😆.

NB had just asked her to give happiness a chance....but obviously Babita ka interpretation alag level pe hi hota hai......lol....even recently when NB tried to explain to her, Babita kya samjhi usse? Kuch aur hi track pe chali gayi.....LOL

LOLL, mere expectations toh kuch bhi ni hai when it comes to ITV. Jo milta hai ussi mein khushian dhoond thi hoon. 😆

Not even marriage, my million dollar question is ki PYAAR kyun hua? Kaisa pyaar hai yeh aur kiske ke liye? Were they trying to empty some voids in their lives or were they trying to hold onto some ghosts of the past? It's all just so messed up.

Babita ko kabhi kuch samaj ni aaye ga. Aisi aurat meine apni zindagi pehle kabhi ni dekhi. The level of interest she had on her face when Naeem Bi was talking to her was just absolute zero and the woman was talking about HER DAUGHTER. Vaise toh bohot zyaada Minnie Minnie karti rehti hai but jab Minnie ki baat aati hai tab iska dimaag khaali ho jaata hai. I mean, kya hai yeh? Duniya daari ki fikar hai lekin samaj nahi. Family chahiye par uski koi responsibility nahi. Pyaar aur pati chahiye lekin sirf dikhane ke liye. Yeh cheez kya hai??

Koi please isse scientists ke paas bhejo taaki mujhe koi jawab mil sake. 🙏🏼

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Dating and a conservative woman in small town India? Haha come on yaar....yeh ITV ka show hai.....expectations adjust karo.

They could have had an engagement period to get to know each other but again, nobody really was thinking clearly in approaching this marriage....sab rush mein hua and even now they are too friggin scared to ask themselves or each other ki WHY did they get married😳😆.

NB had just asked her to give happiness a chance....but obviously Babita ka interpretation alag level pe hi hota hai......lol....even recently when NB tried to explain to her, Babita kya samjhi usse? Kuch aur hi track pe chali gayi.....LOL

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