New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 24

Originally posted by: inlieu

I have never ever seen her think about HS' situation. You know, I don't need her to be a deep thinker, philosopher, etc. Just show that she cares about what's raging inside him, see the pain in his eyes, at least ask him to talk about himself, on topics that have nothing to do with her. Forget wife, even friends do that for each other. It's so frustrating to think that at this rate he may never open up to her about his past.

This......word. Jab ek connect hota hai toh you just FEEL someone's emotions....you don't need to sit and have deep analysis over it all the time.....but Babita doesn't even have that much basic processing power in her it seems. Eyes can communicate everything.....sigh, once I used to think their eyes DID communicate all that they weren't being able to verbalize and express.

But now I think it was all cuz that situation was better suited for them to communicate and connect that much....Babita was in a more obviously darker place....the reason for her pain and trauma was obvious vis a vis a husband who cheated on her and left her. Now whatever is twisted up inside her, whatever is driving this excessive self-absorption and obtuseness.....it's harder to comprehend. Childish toh she always was.....but now her traits are standing out more in contrast because even though she now has happiness and a family that loves her, she seems to have no ability to look outwards and empathize with others beyond herself.

And the showing off aspect has gotten worse.....cuz now she actually has more things to show off than she did before.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I'm telling you, Babita did it for a lot of selfish reasons, and largely because she saw Minnie & HS' omelette wala scene. If it weren't for that, yeh toh chali jaati. HS toh emotions mein aa ke kar gaya. He was still reeling from everything that went down with Imarti's case and was very emotionally vulnerable when the proposal happened. He just grasped onto whatever lifelines he was able to get.

Do you remember what she was thinking when she saw the omelette scene? It was NB's advice playing in her head....about opening up her hatheli and letting the sunlight rest there for a bit....about atleast trying to grab at one chance of happiness and not closing herself off.

So she made the decision in THAT impulse....Babita is impulsive and reactive....she makes many decisions based on whatever "realization" she reaches in the moment. So she made the decision more for that reason.....I really don't think she made it to get Mini a father.....she did it for the general attempt at finding happiness in the form of this family with HS.

Mini was just an excuse......Babita purely made this decision to get married for HERSELF.....if this was about Mini, we wouldn't have seen the zillion tantrums in the lead up to the wedding. Faltu mein Mini pe bill phaadte hain sab😆

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I'm telling you, Babita did it for a lot of selfish reasons, and largely because she saw Minnie & HS' omelette wala scene. If it weren't for that, yeh toh chali jaati. HS toh emotions mein aa ke kar gaya. He was still reeling from everything that went down with Imarti's case and was very emotionally vulnerable when the proposal happened. He just grasped onto whatever lifelines he was able to get.

So she never loved Hanuman? What was the Dheere Jalna scene, those 3-4 episodes of her contemplating on her feelings, and all that she expressed to NB? 🤔

She essentially did decide after HS-Mini omelette scene but how does that make her selfish? Seeing their bond kinda forced her to make the final decision. Isn’t that what HS wanted from her though? He was upset that she was gonna leave the haveli. He didn’t want her to leave, he wanted her to stay and he wanted her to propose too.

Originally posted by: Roopb

Well I feel for Hs situation... even he mentioned that to minni to he wants things to go slowly... remember when he mentioned live’n for the first time... but everything got destroyed 🤬in hurry... I don’t know but I have little hope for the show... that’s why I’m still watching it... with skipping some MM scenes though😉🤭... And to tell you the truth... I made a record for watching any indian show for that long... as I don’t have patience to watch the show which goes out of the track and has no sense... but this show I’ve invested a lot... that’s why it’s hurting 😭while watching nowadays....😞

I totally understand you! Usually, I stop watching ITV shows at the 100 episode mark, but here I am, 230 episodes later. 😳 I really want it to be good because it has all the potential to be so but yeh writers ko kya hogaya samaj hi ni aara. 😒

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Do you remember what she was thinking when she saw the omelette scene? It was NB's advice playing in her head....about opening up her hatheli and letting the sunlight rest there for a bit....about atleast trying to grab at one chance of happiness and not closing herself off.

So she made the decision in THAT impulse....Babita is impulsive and reactive....she makes many decisions based on whatever "realization" she reaches in the moment. So she made the decision more for that reason.....I really don't think she made it to get Mini a father.....she did it for the general attempt at finding happiness in the form of this family with HS.

Mini was just an excuse......Babita purely made this decision to get married for HERSELF.....if this was about Mini, we wouldn't have seen the zillion tantrums in the lead up to the wedding. Faltu mein Mini pe bill phaadte hain sab😆

Loll, I doubt Naeem Bi meant to straight up propose the guy. 😆 Even though it wouldn't be possible given it's Babita we're talking about, but I would have loved to see them date a bit. Heck, even just get engaged would have been enough. Actual shaadi baad mein kar lete but yaha sab kuch itni tezi se hua jaise koi maara jaara tha.

I don't think even Babita knows what she wants anymore. Kehti kuch aur hai, karti kuch aur, aur soch iski? Woh toh out of this world hai. Isse samaj na deewar se sar takrane ke barabar hai.

I really Feel.they should introduce divorce track..This show was never about 2nd marriage ...Now Babita characters has gone beyond repair so no amount of redemptiom can get back it on track ..Divorce is best possible option in this case and it will satisfy all section of fans too ..Minnie should live with HS post divorce so that they won't suffer anymore & can heal each other past traumas which Babes gave them & Babita punishment would be living sperately from them but makers should make her independent too so that people who root for her can be satisfied too..in this way Hannie fans will be happy too , Anti Babita fans will be Happy too and Babes fans will be happy too

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, I doubt Naeem Bi meant to straight up propose the guy. 😆 Even though it wouldn't be possible given it's Babita we're talking about, but I would have loved to see them date a bit. Heck, even just get engaged would have been enough. Actual shaadi baad mein kar lete but yaha sab kuch itni tezi se hua jaise koi maara jaara tha.

I don't think even Babita knows what she wants anymore. Kehti kuch aur hai, karti kuch aur, aur soch iski? Woh toh out of this world hai. Isse samaj na deewar se sar takrane ke barabar hai.

Dating and a conservative woman in small town India? Haha come on yaar....yeh ITV ka show hai.....expectations adjust karo.

They could have had an engagement period to get to know each other but again, nobody really was thinking clearly in approaching this marriage....sab rush mein hua and even now they are too friggin scared to ask themselves or each other ki WHY did they get married😳😆.

NB had just asked her to give happiness a chance....but obviously Babita ka interpretation alag level pe hi hota hai......lol....even recently when NB tried to explain to her, Babita kya samjhi usse? Kuch aur hi track pe chali gayi.....LOL

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I totally understand you! Usually, I stop watching ITV shows at the 100 episode mark, but here I am, 230 episodes later. 😳 I really want it to be good because it has all the potential to be so but yeh writers ko kya hogaya samaj hi ni aara. 😒

This is just my thinking... I could be wrong....

It could be me... but I have theory... there was twitter war during imarti track... when they were showing mini doing everything for Hs case... Babita SS became minimum... n twitteratti got so angry and started bashing mini (Ashnoor) after that KK added more space for mini and show turned into something else... I felt there is ego in kk... look at the tweets they post... so arrogant... n can not take criticism...

But to be honest.. it’s form of art.. and they are doing it for public view... so when it is public show one needs to have guts to take criticism...

I paint... n when ever I did exhibition... it is for public and they have right to judge my work...people gave opinion on my work... they may like it or they may have some question or issues over something... we always take the criticism in positive way... yes when ever I make painting for myself... it always reflects my feeling and emotions... as it is mine...I hope I explained...

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

I really Feel.they should introduce divorce track..This show was never about 2nd marriage ...Now Babita characters has gone beyond repair so no amount of redemptiom can get back it on track ..Divorce is best possible option in this case and it will satisfy all section of fans too ..Minnie should live with HS post divorce so that they won't suffer anymore & can heal each other past traumas which Babes gave them & Babita punishment would be living sperately from them but makers should make her independent too so that people who root for her can be satisfied too..in this way Hannie fans will be happy too , Anti Babita fans will be Happy too and Babes fans will be happy too

😆 I like what you did there.

After omelette scene, she should have just asked Hanuman to take care of Mini since you 2 can’t stay away from each other and I don’t want to be cruel to separate you guys.

I am leaving and have fun you two.

Ho gaya women emancipation and HS-Mini happily forever. Mini can then have a new project to find new Aunty for her Hanuman uncle. Find her and next to next project is empower her Too. 🥳

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I'm telling you, Babita did it for a lot of selfish reasons, and largely because she saw Minnie & HS' omelette wala scene. If it weren't for that, yeh toh chali jaati. HS toh emotions mein aa ke kar gaya. He was still reeling from everything that went down with Imarti's case and was very emotionally vulnerable when the proposal happened. He just grasped onto whatever lifelines he was able to get.

This is exactly what happened. Babita's proposal came out of the blue and the shift in his eyes as he realized what she was asking for said it all. He didn't want to lose this opportunity. Don't forget, he raced to Minnie first and did not propose directly to Babita.

You remember the number of times he had said he did not want to make a move? It's because he knew Babita was not there, and potentially the timing wasn't right or marriage wasn't the right option, but as you said, he was vulnerable after the Imarti track and Id on't care what anyone says he was heartbroken about potentially losing Minnie and not having the right to keep her in his life. The writers may have amnesia but we don't.

Also, HS must have hoped that it was fine if Babita did not love him with that depth initially, that she would grow towards it, and in doing so he pushed away the nagging doubts. He saw all this surface time and again during the pre-wedding ceremonies but he chose to be optimistic, to give Babita the time and space to come to him. On the wedding night he realized that she had a completely different idea in mind, and that she did not think about him at all.