Baby talk - Page 5

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think HS has noticed this in the past and on some level sees this happening even now. This might be what drives him to truly becomes Minnie's father and the day it happens, he won't stand for all this. He won't let his daughter suffocate.

I'm not so sure about that.....his need to coddle Babita is greater than anything....so is Mini's need to coddle Babita.....so where will they both think of each other in all this?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm not so sure about that.....his need to coddle Babita is greater than anything....so is Mini's need to coddle Babita.....so where will they both think of each other in all this?

He will, something's gotta give. Something has to remind him of what he endured in childhood and see the parallels with Minnie's situation one day. Otherwise, there really is no hope for all three of them.

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

Bingo.

How can she repeat the same mistake again ? Financial and emotional independence is very necessary. She just wants to show off that see i am a marriage material and i too can be a good wife .

Unfortunately, that is exactly what she is fixated on nowadays and how people will see her in the current role.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

WHERE deep down though, Jean? DO tell me....please do.....lol I have tried long and hard....I have rooted for, connected with her character.....greys included.....but where is this deeeeeep down ability that she has that I'm totally being unable to see now?

She's been given PLENTY of opportunities to show if there is more to her.....every single opportunity culminates in the same childish, self-absorbed, emotionally stunted behavior.....so tell me where deep down I can find this in her.....my mind is exhausted.

That's what I'm saying. The raw materials are they but they never get assembled or used for manufacturing anything substantial. The last major thing I saw from her was interpreting Imarti's letter. After that....

Originally posted by: inlieu

That's what I'm saying. The raw materials are they but they never get assembled or used for manufacturing anything substantial. The last major thing I saw from her was interpreting Imarti's letter. After that....

Objectively speaking, what was Imarti's letter about? It was also all interpreted to show to Imarti's dad how much HS loves Imarti, right? I haven't seen the scene in a while so I don't remember the rest of the details......

And now Babita is also all about how much HS loves HER....lol so itna hi samajh aata hai isko....pati ka pyar😆......iske aage ke rishton ke complications either she doesn't want to or she can't comprehend.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Objectively speaking, what was Imarti's letter about? It was also all interpreted to show to Imarti's dad how much HS loves Imarti, right? I haven't seen the scene in a while so I don't remember the rest of the details......

And now Babita is also all about how much HS loves HER....lol so itna hi samajh aata hai isko....pati ka pyar😆......iske aage ke rishton ke complications either she doesn't want to or she can't comprehend.

I don't want to compare, and I know people will hate me for saying this, but in the current state, I don't think Babita can even understand what pati ka pyaar actually means and the fact that she has to work on this relationship to keep it going. Otherwise, it will go down the drain too. I know HS has to stop walking on eggshells around her and stop being so protective of her, but he isn't the only one to blame here.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't want to compare, and I know people will hate me for saying this, but in the current state, I don't think Babita can even understand what pati ka pyaar actually means and the fact that she has to work on this relationship to keep it going. Otherwise, it will go down the drain too. I know HS has to stop walking on eggshells around her and stop being so protective of her, but he isn't the only one to blame here.

Ofcourse she doesn't understand what pati ka pyar actually means.....koi doubt hai ismein? 😕😆.....she's like a delusional kid, man.....so duhhh she doesn't know what the hell pati ka pyar actually is.....she's in her fantasy land.....basic sex and companionship mil raha hai so she's flying.....

Soulful connection toh bahut door ki baat hai....par ek basic understanding bhi missing hai which you could have in a marriage of comfortable, amiable companionship.

I don't want to compare either.....cuz frankly HS-Imarti ki marriage is just a story concept to me....I don't hold it as some epic benchmark for Babita to live up to.....I'm talking on a basic level only what's missing in her ability to grasp things. HS-Imarti hote ya na hote.....what's missing in HS-Babita's marriage is fundamentally obvious on it's own level.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ofcourse she doesn't understand what pati ka pyar actually means.....koi doubt hai ismein? 😕😆.....she's like a delusional kid, man.....so duhhh she doesn't know what the hell pati ka pyar actually is.....she's in her fantasy land.....basic sex and companionship mil raha hai so she's flying.....

Soulful connection toh bahut door ki baat hai....par ek basic understanding bhi missing hai which you could have in a marriage of comfortable, amiable companionship.

I don't want to compare either.....cuz frankly HS-Imarti ki marriage is just a story concept to me....I don't hold it as some epic benchmark for Babita to live up to.....I'm talking on a basic level only what's missing in her ability to grasp things. HS-Imarti hote ya na hote.....what's missing in HS-Babita's marriage is fundamentally obvious on it's own level.

It is obvious but apparently to everyone except Babita. You know, I think she must have been like this all those years at the Khuranas' - living in her own bubble. She doesn't need to live up to HS-Imarti or anyone else, just fix her own relationship for goodness sake!

I am now concerned about something else. She had told HS that Ashok did indeed love her, and HS had dismissed it as her misconception. What if she in future feels the same about HS, that the love she gets from him which she's ecstatic about is also a mirage?

I feel really bad that she's getting this second chance but not seeing that she may indeed end up ruining this.

Originally posted by: inlieu

It is obvious but apparently to everyone except Babita. You know, I think she must have been like this all those years at the Khuranas' - living in her own bubble. She doesn't need to live up to HS-Imarti or anyone else, just fix her own relationship for goodness sake!

I am now concerned about something else. She had told HS that Ashok did indeed love her, and HS had dismissed it as her misconception. What if she in future feels the same about HS, that the love she gets from him which she's ecstatic about is also a mirage?

I feel really bad that she's getting this second chance but not seeing that she may indeed end up ruining this.

This is ABSOLUTELY going to happen.....I don't even doubt it anymore.....it was obvious from that conversation only that she didn't fully grasp what HS was telling her about her relationship with Ashok.....all she got was that she should jataao haq for it to be pyar....she didn't grasp the full picture of what HS was trying to explain to her.

The moment conflict invariably crops up in her and HS's equation, she will twist his own words and claim that the whole love was a mirage.

Instead of understanding the full picture, she will fixate on selective points and twist them.....this is how she always does things. She is anyways quick to throw Ashok comparisons in HS's face in almost every argument.....so I fully expect her to do this at some point too.

HS will be hurt but I wonder if his hurt will even then be enough for her to feel regret and understand what she's doing wrong.....lol or just one more repeat of lame feather romance and apology done *rolls eyes*

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm not so sure about that.....his need to coddle Babita is greater than anything....so is Mini's need to coddle Babita.....so where will they both think of each other in all this?

ive been telling about it since the marriage rituals started that HS Mini need to let go of this thing to molly coddle babita. she has been empowered enough she now needs to behave like an adult and take responsibility

In a way both have forced each other or convinced each other to do it even when the other wasnt willing. Its not only mini even HS has done it with convincing mini when she was upset with babita. They are doing the same now too and in all this its their relation which has taken the worse hit