18th October - Discussion - Page 4

Originally posted by: nushy1995

Okay 😊

My first In course will start from 24th October. So I'll be busy preparing for my exams. But I'll visit the forum from time to time. How about you?

:)

Good luck. Am planning to do some art, try making few creations..

Thanks 😊 and good luck to you too! 👍🏼

Originally posted by: nushy1995

@Madhura & Joypallavi

Even I loved Nishant’s character because he was the only balanced character here. But even though they used the term RESEARCH, the base of it, is utterly foolish and that’s why I am not being able to let go off it.

As Pallavi has pointed out, he has never been biased. He chose Ansh over Saavi because he didn't have enough proof. So it might seem, I am blasting him because it's Piya in the question. But it's not. The proofs Saavi had gathered had a lot more authenticity than this. She personally talked with everyone, collected photos of Ansh where his eyes were glowing, they found multiple dead bodies in the jungle - yet Nishant didn't aim Ansh because he thought they weren't still 100% sure and they didn't have any right to hurt Ansh.

Here, none of the things that Dev has said has a valid point. But since he is a Daivik, Nishant believed him. Piya raised all the valid questions here - why did he come to their house if he knew another Daivik was there? Specially he is supposedly Ruchi's fiance. So he would try to avoid that sort of connection if he truly loved Ruchi. And he had already lied while trying to pick up the Devi Chakra. So there could be a hidden agenda there. But Nishant of all people took the KSs' reaction as the determining factor. It's not sound reasoning in any way that him choosing Dev over Piya would be termed justified like it was earlier.

As for a helpless father, yes, he is not double faced like Gathods and he truly cares for Ansh. But whatever relationship it is, one must know when you have to be supportive and when you have to be authoritative. I want to trust you but can't as a Daivik can't be wrong - is not the way. If he truly was supportive of Piya, he would have tried to see from Piya's perspective too while she was specifically logical in her argument. This is not about a Reeavanshi but a father. Here if he does a mistake, that would endanger Piya's whole life. So this can't definitely be compared with Saavi-Ansh scenario. Because if not anything else, Piya is the least violent Reevaanshi. She joined PY at the last moment since she didn't want to kill anyone unlike Saavi who was super enthusiastic to kill off any KS who might come across her path. So he of all people should understand, that there must be some reason behind Piya's action. He could understand Naman's dilemma during PY but can't see from Piya's POV - that makes him a failed father in my eyes.

We can agree to disagree. But I had to write it because I am not judging or bashing Nishant only because he is against Piya. It's because the way he is handling the situation. I would have said the same thing if anyone else was in question.

Kabhi kabhi parents bhi kisi situation mein helpless hokar apne children ko properly nahi samaj pate par sirf iss baat se ki support nahi kiya ye apne baccho ki baat nahi suni we cant call them Failed as a parent that will be too harsh to say. Kabhi kabhi parents baccho ko angry situation mein slap bhi karte hai to is it right to say u failed as a parent. Sorry but i disagree on this point Nishant failed as a parent. And even in this situation we cant blamed Ved and Rathores because Dev had clearly hypnotise them isme unki kya galti. Even Nishant doubted their behaviour today. Kabhi kabhi hota hai life mein aise situation aati hai ki usme a person cant think logically . Well we all can agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: magicalM

Kabhi kabhi parents bhi kisi situation mein helpless hokar apne children ko properly nahi samaj pate par sirf iss baat se ki support nahi kiya ye apne baccho ki baat nahi suni we cant call them Failed as a parent that will be too harsh to say. Kabhi kabhi parents baccho ko angry situation mein slap bhi karte hai to is it right to say u failed as a parent. Sorry but i disagree on this point Nishant failed as a parent. And even in this situation we cant blamed Ved and Rathores because Dev had clearly hypnotise them isme unki kya galti. Even Nishant doubted their behaviour today. Kabhi kabhi hota hai life mein aise situation aati hai ki usme a person cant think logically . Well we all can agree to disagree.

I agree with you.

I might have gone overboard with the Failed Parent tag and I apologize for that.

But then again, some situations are so big that if you take a wrong step, that can destroy everything. Mind it, Ansh had always been a strong support system for Piya; he endangered his own life along with his family's to save Piya and stood by her like a rock. But he did one mistake. And that mistake cost him 6 good years of his life and separation from his wife and daughter.

Same goes for Piya. She wasn't firm in her stand and didn't demand Ansh to listen to her and she spent her life alone for a considerable amount of time, away from her son and also deprived RiAd of both their parents' love.

Do I love PiyAnsh as individual characters? Yes. But do I agree with them on their idiotic decisions? No. I have specifically roasted Ansh enough.

The same goes for Nishant. He is a good human being and I have always loved him as a character. But in that particular situation, unintentionally he did much damage and I can't seem to overlook that. He is a human, he did a mistake and it's understandable. But it's aftermath is way too great to give him a lease and if we didn't know that PiyAnsh would emerge as victorious and this marriage to Dev led to another situation, everybody would point to his direction. Because Gathods are under compulsion but he picked a side without any influence.

Ansh failed Piya when he didn't believe her six years ago and Nishant has failed her now. Failed parent might have been an exaggeration but definitely he has failed to give Piya the support she needs right now. Unintentionally and indirectly she made Piya feel guilty and question her stand. If Ansh hadn't reassured her, by now Piya might have taken a wrong decision to save his life owing to the pressure from everyone. That's what I meant.

Slapping your children do not make you a bad parent. You can't always get your kids - even that is natural. But if you take a wrong decision at a crucial moment which could alter everything and brings destruction for your kid, I won't have to call you names, you will blame yourself for failing your child at the most vulnerable moment in their lives.

That's the whole point of my argument.

Originally posted by: nushy1995

I agree with you.

I might have gone overboard with the Failed Parent tag and I apologize for that.

But then again, some situations are so big that if you take a wrong step, that can destroy everything. Mind it, Ansh had always been a strong support system for Piya; he endangered his own life along with his family's to save Piya and stood by her like a rock. But he did one mistake. And that mistake cost him 6 good years of his life and separation from his wife and daughter.

Same goes for Piya. She wasn't firm in her stand and didn't demand Ansh to listen to her and she spent her life alone for a considerable amount of time, away from her son and also deprived RiAd of both their parents' love.

Do I love PiyAnsh as individual characters? Yes. But do I agree with them on their idiotic decisions? No. I have specifically roasted Ansh enough.

The same goes for Nishant. He is a good human being and I have always loved him as a character. But in that particular situation, unintentionally he did much damage and I can't seem to overlook that. He is a human, he did a mistake and it's understandable. But it's aftermath is way too great to give him a lease and if we didn't know that PiyAnsh would emerge as victorious and this marriage to Dev led to another situation, everybody would point to his direction. Because Gathods are under compulsion but he picked a side without any influence.

Ansh failed Piya when he didn't believe her six years ago and Nishant has failed her now. Failed parent might have been an exaggeration but definitely he has failed to give Piya the support she needs right now. Unintentionally and indirectly she made Piya feel guilty and question her stand. If Ansh hadn't reassured her, by now Piya might have taken a wrong decision to save his life owing to the pressure from everyone. That's what I meant.

Slapping your children do not make you a bad parent. You can't always get your kids - even that is natural. But if you take a wrong decision at a crucial moment which could alter everything and brings destruction for your kid, I won't have to call you names, you will blame yourself for failing your child at the most vulnerable moment in their lives.

That's the whole point of my argument.

This i completely agree taking right decsion at right time is must. 😊one wrong step can destroy whole life of urs.

Originally posted by: magicalM

This i completely agree taking right decsion at right time is must. 😊one wrong step can destroy whole life of urs.

Exactly! 😊

Just interrupting but where's Alisha?

Originally posted by: magicalM

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Originally posted by: Madhura..

Just interrupting but where's Alisha?

I don't know. 🙁 I had PMed her yesterday but still no reply. May be she is busy with something?

Originally posted by: nushy1995

I don't know. 🙁 I had PMed her yesterday but still no reply. May be she is busy with something?

Thanks for updating. Yeah, maybe she's busy. Been quite a while since she is around.