YRHPK live update/discussion (14 oct 2019) episode 152 - Page 30

Originally posted by: CanadaMonsoon

😆😆 hahaha Aanch.. true.. Kash RV family lambi chhuti pe jaye.. 😆 and dont come back until kuku matter is solved.. because without that MishBir wont be happy

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Cheli 🤗🤗🤗🤗

Epi dekhna baaki hai mera 😛

So I write Highlights here aisa? I want to keep it separate but 😳 😃

sure sure watch epi.. and also ur comments on mishti's words today...

are are even i want you to make separate thread only.. i said i'll add ur post link here.... 😃

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Hi everyone! Interesting to see a range of idea and discussion happening…the story is really taking some mysterious and intriguing twists and turns

Before I watch the episode today..just wanted to voice out a few things:

BOTH Abir and Mishti today are equally right in their own perspectives, yet they are both equally incorrect in hiding information from one another, each had their own reasons.

One important thing to note is the differences in severity of consequences of hiding their secrets. Abir’s secret of - Kunal running away on the wedding day is an ultimate gamechanger, if Mishti knew about it earlier; she would have definitely questioned Kunal’s commitment and genuinity of his ‘love’ for Kuhu. Remember Meenu had told Kunal that if Mishti gets the slightest hint that Kunal doesn’t love Kuhu, Mishti herself would stop the marriage. Meenu was exactly right, Mishti is very strong in her idea that marriage is firstly about the two individuals (100% correct). That’s why the fact that Kunal ran away from the mandap on the wedding day, is such a huge deal!It completely overrides the other events that Mishti suffered prior to that. Because according to her, Mishti only obliged to Meenu aunty’s threats and covered upher love confession, because she wanted the wedding to run smoothly. WHY? Just because she trusted kunal and believed him to LOVE KUHU just like Kuhu loves him. Despite Meenu aunty’s threat to Mishti that Kunal will not marry on her say, Mishti still gave Kunal the benefit of her doubt, as she trusted him to choose his pyar over Meenu. Now that Mishti knows the truth of Kunal wanting to divorce Kuhu and running away on the wedding day – Mishti realises allof her and Abir’s efforts have gone down the drain.

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Whereas for Abir, Kunal running away only raised doubts on Kunal’sweak-mind against Meenu’s manipulation. Kunal’s letter to Abir upon running off, only explained his actions as a result of his hatred for Mishti, not because Kunal didn’t love Kuhu/or was against getting married. That’s why, Abir could not understand that for someone who claimed he will elope with Kuhu if the family doesn’t agree, he himself has now run away from the shaadi. With the evidence Abir has seen and heard his only valid explanation is Meenu has convinced/manipulated Kunal to run on the basis of Mishti’s hatred (which ispartly true). So he is quite right in trying to hide this info from Mishti, who he thinks will once again blame herself. But, Abir blindly trusts Kunal's words and behaviour so much, that when he confronted Meenu and Munna - firmly asks Kunal “Tu apne pyar keliye stand lega ya nahi?" rather than questioning whether he actually loves Kuhu or wants to get married. Kunal gave him numerous reasons to believe that Kunal agreed to marry Kuhu because he does actually loves her. This right here is Abir’s weakness. His ‘Nanko’ is his blind spot.

THIS is precisely why Mishti’s blunt honesty today, was necessary!

Right now, the most important thing for Abir to realise is his Nanko is no more a ‘nanko’, and just like Mishti is clearly trying to make him understand, that Kunal needs to learn to take responsibility for his own actions and mistakes. Yes, these mistakes may be as result of his upbringing with Meenu, but ultimately, he is now an adult who has the ability to differentiate between right and wrong, and yet Kunal has evidently chosen to comply with his mother’s orders to act and deceive Kuhu, which in turn has deceived both Abir and Mishti. THIS is what Mishti is trying to get Abir to open his eyes to and pop out of his bubble = that Kunal is equally responsible for all that has happened, not just his mum.

Ofcourse not to forget; Yes, Mishti has also hid info about Kuhu’s email fiasco,and Meenu’s blackmail…but…

I’ll continue to explain in my next post….

😊

xx

Wow.. You have put it beautifully yaar👍🏼......

I can see why Mishti was so upset with Abhir.....

He's still protecting his Nanko.. Not blaming him completely.

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Cheli 🤗🤗🤗🤗

Epi dekhna baaki hai mera 😛

So I write Highlights here aisa? I want to keep it separate but 😳 😃

Gurujiiiiiiiiiii🤗🤗...

Are.. Diyuuu will put the link of your highlights thread in the main post 😳

Even in yet to watch Full episode. But looks like a nice emotional roller coaster.....

I have a few points to share which I'll share soon😃

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Aanch ekdum mast yaara 🤗🤗

..bohot late ho gaya uthne mein aaj😛 so haven't seen the epi yet

But I read the updates, looks like a sad one and a mysterious one as well 😎 Loving the dynamics !!

It’s okay .. sleep when you can , look at us , want to but can’t 😆

Yes, episode is mixed ., have to watch it too ..

Time to turn on the detective mode to try and unravel mysteries ., 😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Hi everyone! Interesting to see a range of idea and discussion happening…the story is really taking some mysterious and intriguing twists and turns

Before I watch the episode today..just wanted to voice out a few things:

BOTH Abir and Mishti today are equally right in their own perspectives, yet they are both equally incorrect in hiding information from one another, each had their own reasons.

One important thing to note is the differences in severity of consequences of hiding their secrets. Abir’s secret of - Kunal running away on the wedding day is an ultimate gamechanger, if Mishti knew about it earlier; she would have definitely questioned Kunal’s commitment and genuinity of his ‘love’ for Kuhu. Remember Meenu had told Kunal that if Mishti gets the slightest hint that Kunal doesn’t love Kuhu, Mishti herself would stop the marriage. Meenu was exactly right, Mishti is very strong in her idea that marriage is firstly about the two individuals (100% correct). That’s why the fact that Kunal ran away from the mandap on the wedding day, is such a huge deal!It completely overrides the other events that Mishti suffered prior to that. Because according to her, Mishti only obliged to Meenu aunty’s threats and covered upher love confession, because she wanted the wedding to run smoothly. WHY? Just because she trusted kunal and believed him to LOVE KUHU just like Kuhu loves him. Despite Meenu aunty’s threat to Mishti that Kunal will not marry on her say, Mishti still gave Kunal the benefit of her doubt, as she trusted him to choose his pyar over Meenu. Now that Mishti knows the truth of Kunal wanting to divorce Kuhu and running away on the wedding day – Mishti realises allof her and Abir’s efforts have gone down the drain.

---

Whereas for Abir, Kunal running away only raised doubts on Kunal’sweak-mind against Meenu’s manipulation. Kunal’s letter to Abir upon running off, only explained his actions as a result of his hatred for Mishti, not because Kunal didn’t love Kuhu/or was against getting married. That’s why, Abir could not understand that for someone who claimed he will elope with Kuhu if the family doesn’t agree, he himself has now run away from the shaadi. With the evidence Abir has seen and heard his only valid explanation is Meenu has convinced/manipulated Kunal to run on the basis of Mishti’s hatred (which ispartly true). So he is quite right in trying to hide this info from Mishti, who he thinks will once again blame herself. But, Abir blindly trusts Kunal's words and behaviour so much, that when he confronted Meenu and Munna - firmly asks Kunal “Tu apne pyar keliye stand lega ya nahi?" rather than questioning whether he actually loves Kuhu or wants to get married. Kunal gave him numerous reasons to believe that Kunal agreed to marry Kuhu because he does actually loves her. This right here is Abir’s weakness. His ‘Nanko’ is his blind spot.

THIS is precisely why Mishti’s blunt honesty today, was necessary!

Right now, the most important thing for Abir to realise is his Nanko is no more a ‘nanko’, and just like Mishti is clearly trying to make him understand, that Kunal needs to learn to take responsibility for his own actions and mistakes. Yes, these mistakes may be as result of his upbringing with Meenu, but ultimately, he is now an adult who has the ability to differentiate between right and wrong, and yet Kunal has evidently chosen to comply with his mother’s orders to act and deceive Kuhu, which in turn has deceived both Abir and Mishti. THIS is what Mishti is trying to get Abir to open his eyes to and pop out of his bubble = that Kunal is equally responsible for all that has happened, not just his mum.

Ofcourse not to forget; Yes, Mishti has also hid info about Kuhu’s email fiasco,and Meenu’s blackmail…but…

I’ll continue to explain in my next post….

😊

xx

Liked how you gave elaborate reasonings to their perspectives!

Ok saw the episode....

I really had some reservations initially to watch the episodes simply because I could not see our MishBir so broken....that too after two beautiful episodes that we got for them.........But I must admit the episode was beautiful.........Loads of things it had....

1. Mishti's anger:

Mishti is justified to be angry, but not her dialogue I TRUSTED U BLINDLY, I SHOULD NOT HAVE DONE IT.......it dint resonate well with me........ It is not new for MIshti to do something for others benefit and stay quit or do something and not speak. Yes she has every right to be angry on Abhir for not saying the truth. The bedroom talk I agree where she says Abhir has to understand that Kunal is at fault and he has something called BRAIN..he can use it

....But in Mandap the way she said she does not trust Abhir now..I kinda dint resonate with it.... She could have just told "U DINT TRUST ME ENOUGH TO TELL ME THIS BIG TRUTH"..

Yes Abhir did hid a very big truth, but did Mishti tell him that e-mail fiasco, where Abhir trusted her blindly and stood by her....she did not tell that time......

well....I am confused about the mandap wala I MADE A MISTAKE OF TRUSTING YOU dialogue........specially when Abhir was also the one who was cheated and who's heart was broken equally. Doesnt Mishti know that she was the one who told Kuhu that IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS OF WHOM I LOVE THEN U NEED TO RETHINK when kuhu wanted Mishti to break up..did she tell Abhir that Kuhu wants her break up with Abhir???.......just like she was under the impression that Kunal loves Kuhu, Abhir to was under the same impression. Then how can she not understand........its not like Abhir knew Kunal does not love Kuhu and still he got them married.....ye mere gale nahi utraa.

2.Baba

Baba's character can go any way now....it is just the matter of time. Look at the tone in which he spoke to Parul...TU...Tu kya karegi???

Parul is definitely not what we all think she is, she is more selfish than BIG BEN.............and I will not be surprised if Parul is the reason for BIG BEN and MEEHUL break up initially....I wont be surprised if Parul is the one to call the villagers, if she is the one who stole the jewelery just to make Meehu's life difficult. Meenu did say today to parul that she trusts Parul more than herself, I wont be surprised if parul turns out to be a backstabber........lets see where this goes

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Ok saw the episode....

I really had some reservations initially to watch the episodes simply because I could not see our MishBir so broken....that too after two beautiful episodes that we got for them.........But I must admit the episode was beautiful.........Loads of things it had....

1. Mishti's anger:

Mishti is justified to be angry, but not her dialogue I TRUSTED U BLINDLY, I SHOULD NOT HAVE DONE IT.......it dint resonate well with me........ It is not new for MIshti to do something for others benefit and stay quit or do something and not speak. Yes she has every right to be angry on Abhir for not saying the truth. The bedroom talk I agree where she says Abhir has to understand that Kunal is at fault and he has something called BRAIN..he can use it

....But in Mandap the way she said she does not trust Abhir now..I kinda dint resonate with it.... She could have just told "U DINT TRUST ME ENOUGH TO TELL ME THIS BIG TRUTH"..

Yes Abhir did hid a very big truth, but did Mishti tell him that e-mail fiasco, where Abhir trusted her blindly and stood by her....she did not tell that time......

well....I am confused about the mandap wala I MADE A MISTAKE OF TRUSTING YOU dialogue........specially when Abhir was also the one who was cheated and who's heart was broken equally. Doesnt Mishti know that she was the one who told Kuhu that IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS OF WHOM I LOVE THEN U NEED TO RETHINK when kuhu wanted Mishti to break up..did she tell Abhir that Kuhu wants her break up with Abhir???.......just like she was under the impression that Kunal loves Kuhu, Abhir to was under the same impression. Then how can she not understand........its not like Abhir knew Kunal does not love Kuhu and still he got them married.....ye mere gale nahi utraa.

2.Baba

Baba's character can go any way now....it is just the matter of time. Look at the tone in which he spoke to Parul...TU...Tu kya karegi???

Parul is definitely not what we all think she is, she is more selfish than BIG BEN.............and I will not be surprised if Parul is the reason for BIG BEN and MEEHUL break up initially....I wont be surprised if Parul is the one to call the villagers, if she is the one who stole the jewelery just to make Meehu's life difficult. Meenu did say today to parul that she trusts Parul more than herself, I wont be surprised if parul turns out to be a backstabber........lets see where this goes

@bold is exactly what I feel too yaara!!

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Ok saw the episode....

I really had some reservations initially to watch the episodes simply because I could not see our MishBir so broken....that too after two beautiful episodes that we got for them.........But I must admit the episode was beautiful.........Loads of things it had....

1. Mishti's anger:

Mishti is justified to be angry, but not her dialogue I TRUSTED U BLINDLY, I SHOULD NOT HAVE DONE IT.......it dint resonate well with me........ It is not new for MIshti to do something for others benefit and stay quit or do something and not speak. Yes she has every right to be angry on Abhir for not saying the truth. The bedroom talk I agree where she says Abhir has to understand that Kunal is at fault and he has something called BRAIN..he can use it

....But in Mandap the way she said she does not trust Abhir now..I kinda dint resonate with it.... She could have just told "U DINT TRUST ME ENOUGH TO TELL ME THIS BIG TRUTH"..

Yes Abhir did hid a very big truth, but did Mishti tell him that e-mail fiasco, where Abhir trusted her blindly and stood by her....she did not tell that time......

well....I am confused about the mandap wala I MADE A MISTAKE OF TRUSTING YOU dialogue........specially when Abhir was also the one who was cheated and who's heart was broken equally. Doesnt Mishti know that she was the one who told Kuhu that IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS OF WHOM I LOVE THEN U NEED TO RETHINK when kuhu wanted Mishti to break up..did she tell Abhir that Kuhu wants her break up with Abhir???.......just like she was under the impression that Kunal loves Kuhu, Abhir to was under the same impression. Then how can she not understand........its not like Abhir knew Kunal does not love Kuhu and still he got them married.....ye mere gale nahi utraa.

2.Baba

Baba's character can go any way now....it is just the matter of time. Look at the tone in which he spoke to Parul...TU...Tu kya karegi???

Parul is definitely not what we all think she is, she is more selfish than BIG BEN.............and I will not be surprised if Parul is the reason for BIG BEN and MEEHUL break up initially....I wont be surprised if Parul is the one to call the villagers, if she is the one who stole the jewelery just to make Meehu's life difficult. Meenu did say today to parul that she trusts Parul more than herself, I wont be surprised if parul turns out to be a backstabber........lets see where this goes

Abir and Meenu are same to same! They trust too much on Kunal and Parul!

I really don’t want Baba to be negative! Abir needs him the most now! Abir will shatter even if he uses him! So hope the story is not going that way!

We are in such a state, where I don’t know kis pe bharosa karein and kispe nahi, just like Abir🙄

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

sure sure watch epi.. and also ur comments on mishti's words today...

are are even i want you to make separate thread only.. i said i'll add ur post link here.... 😃

Ohh acha acha that ways yes you can add the link yaara , perfect 👍🏼👍🏼😃🤗

I am not happy with mishti's words yaar, blaming it all on abir

Just tell me diyu if mishti would have informed abir about the way meenu treated her during that bus confession time that day only then the situation would have been much better na , abir would have controlled everything

I never said this openly but now have to say , didn't really like the way mishti ran to airport and then crying saying abir magic karega, matlab kya abir ko kuch bataogi nahi toh vo magic kaise karega ??

And today blaming it all on abir was 👎🏼

Also what nonsense is baba , look at the way he speaks with parul, tu tu Karke gross🤔

Parul is also not dudh ki dhuli for sure but I still believe she can't be a player , but let's see this RV house is full of crazy people

Feeling very bad for abir Mishti was right but not completely