Empowerment is not for everyone - Page 8

Originally posted by: inlieu

Did he absolve himself of the parenting responsibility? Are we never going to see this side of him again? 😕

Since you are so hopeful about Babita finding her “equilibrium”, I guess she may tell HS to step up to parenting again. Khud se toh he seems least interested now 🤷‍♀️

They are trying to make the wedding montage the storyline now. Lol and it’s so unconvincing given how Babita herself has made a royal mess of most of this.

I don’t know if I will ever find her convincing in “managing” relationships again.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Since you are so hopeful about Babita finding her “equilibrium”, I guess she may tell HS to step up to parenting again. Khud se toh he seems least interested now 🤷‍♀️

They are trying to make the wedding montage the storyline now. Lol and it’s so unconvincing given how Babita herself has made a royal mess of most of this.

I don’t know if I will ever find her convincing in “managing” relationships again.

Even if she suddenly becomes good at this, there's no point because as HS himself said, you can't force relationships on anyone. If HS and Minnie don't want to be father-daughter then so be it.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I have a feeling this is what they are working towards. As you said, the execution is faulty so we don't get it but such a theme is quite interesting and in the old era of PB they would have conveyed it properly. Also, remember the tweet saying Minnie will realize that Babita also had a part in the failure of the first marriage? Perhaps this is hinting at that... She lost herself last time and she's at risk of doing it again. No one wants her to, not even HS.

I think you are expecting too much.

Whatever may be Babita’s failures in her first marriage, what’s HS ka excuse for not being able to balance? 🤷‍♀️

Pehle everyone used to talk about the sensitivities involved in a second marriage with a kid. Now everyone’s like, screw the kid....let them enjoy their honeymoon phase and they can get to the kid’s issues later. Seriously!?😕

Yeah she’s not a little child that needs to be coddled but to brush her aside when there are active conflicts in the house? 🤷‍♀️ This is now considered all ok?

This forces me to wonder why people get married if they don’t understand the scope of responsibility. Honeymoon phase mein Itna paagal ho jaana that you don’t even notice other ppl in your life? How on earth is this justified now? Neglecting a teenager can leave scars that will never heal. But people are being so cavalier about it ki honeymoon phase hai so bhool jaao issues ko 🤷‍♀️

Babita never got Love first time so she’s lost her mind now, fine. What’s HS ka excuse after making it seem like he was taking on the responsibility of the whole family, not just Babita. He sure acts like the family begins and ends with Babita.

Why does Babita’s “equilibrium” have to come at the cost of HS-Mini’s relationship?

How did this suddenly switch from Mini being the thread that bound them to her now being an appendage to the side? 🤷‍♀️ How does a thread get invalidated overnight? That too when there’s no thread to replace it. I don’t see HB’s relationship being strong enough to survive on its own despite this “honeymoon glow”.

Babita is such a weird person. Its like her mind cant focus on more than one thing. Before it was mini mini now its pati pati. She says she wants to focus on her married life so she cant work as before. Find some balance in your life woman.

And harman singh. What happened to this character. It took a 360 degree turn. He went from a loving and fun to idk wht he is now

This show has become so toxic now. Such a bad example for people who want to get married a 2nd time and for their kids. That the stepfather was being nice to them to score points with the mom. After marriage they see u as a burden and always telling u to count their ehsaan for letting u live with them. Ppl telling u to let the parents live their life and u shud live urs seperately. Im so disappointed in this show. I feel like this is such a sensitive matter so they shudnt show bullshit for the sake of drama.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Even if she suddenly becomes good at this, there's no point because as HS himself said, you can't force relationships on anyone. If HS and Minnie don't want to be father-daughter then so be it.

LOL as if Babita ever really learns her lesson. She will definitely be shown trying to bring them closer....and since he himself is so besotted with Babita, he won’t bother with Mini unless Babita asks him to. How sad 🤷‍♀️

There was a time when he didn’t need to be told to go talk to Mini 🙄

Lol what?

Chalo bhai acha hai hum pehle ho chod chake yeh galliyan yeh chaubare this show has now officially ended for me thank you for doing worse kachra then leap and what not. Bas ghar bhaith ke bache paalo and phir unko sadkon pe lekar phiro when in majboori and get harrassed by men like khatri. I know i shouldn't say that and it is mean and not nice but aisi konven ke maindak phir deserve karte hain jo ashom ne kia phor kyon lecture and rona dhona over that jab inko muft ki rotiyan ho todni hai and ab apna saara weight bachi pe daalna hai. Next what? Mini to paalo her naya bacha too while she is majboor again for some reason and is in need? As if ek babita ko paal ke enough nahi sun li usne ab naye sibling k9 bhi paale HS bhi phir ghar hi bhaith jaaye ab 😵 mini hai na paalne posne ko

Originally posted by: AreYaar

😂😂😂....

Yeppp.. Everything is Mini’s fault. What an idiot for trying to help her mother become independent. She should have tried to find her a husband instantly instead 😂....Apni Maa ki real needs bhi nahin samajh paayi. Bad Mini.

No wonder she has become teesra. Glad Babita is finally speaking her mind 👍🏻😂....

Song dedication for Mini from her Babes:

“Yeh galiyaan yeh chaubara, Yahaan aana na dobara

Ab hum toh bhaye pardesi, ki tera yahaan koi nahin “

😆

😂😂

Btw, Excellent analysis of the episode by you, Anu! 👏

I loved watching yesterday’s episode especially the NB-Babes scene because of my mother. She was sitting right next to me and as Babita said the line of teesra My mom actually said “Avani Change kar tu channel ko Kaisi bandariya bewakoof Nakara aurat hai apni khudki beti ko teesra boli. Aur badi aayi independent independent karne wali No one as dependent as her. Mini ko business sambhalne kyu bolti hai. Is keliye to mita hai na wo. Aur salary kyu nahi deri fir Mini ko. Kal hi toh Iske gulaam ne kaha tha ghar me jagah nahi hai bachi koi acha theekana dhundlegi. “ she also said 4-5 such words that I won’t say on public platform. I loved my mom.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think you are expecting too much.

Whatever may be Babita’s failures in her first marriage, what’s HS ka excuse for not being able to balance? 🤷‍♀️

Pehle everyone used to talk about the sensitivities involved in a second marriage with a kid. Now everyone’s like, screw the kid....let them enjoy their honeymoon phase and they can get to the kid’s issues later. Seriously!?😕

Yeah she’s not a little child that needs to be coddled but to brush her aside when there are active conflicts in the house? 🤷‍♀️ This is now considered all ok?

This forces me to wonder why people get married if they don’t understand the scope of responsibility. Honeymoon phase mein Itna paagal ho jaana that you don’t even notice other ppl in your life? How on earth is this justified now? Neglecting a teenager can leave scars that will never heal. But people are being so cavalier about it ki honeymoon phase hai so bhool jaao issues ko 🤷‍♀️

Babita never got Love first time so she’s lost her mind now, fine. What’s HS ka excuse after making it seem like he was taking on the responsibility of the whole family, not just Babita. He sure acts like the family begins and ends with Babita.

Why does Babita’s “equilibrium” have to come at the cost of HS-Mini’s relationship?

How did this suddenly switch from Mini being the thread that bound them to her now being an appendage to the side? 🤷‍♀️ How does a thread get invalidated overnight? That too when there’s no thread to replace it. I don’t see HB’s relationship being strong enough to survive on its own despite this “honeymoon glow”.

You just mentioned everything thats going on in my mind.

Bang on

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think you are expecting too much.

Whatever may be Babita’s failures in her first marriage, what’s HS ka excuse for not being able to balance? 🤷‍♀️

Pehle everyone used to talk about the sensitivities involved in a second marriage with a kid. Now everyone’s like, screw the kid....let them enjoy their honeymoon phase and they can get to the kid’s issues later. Seriously!?😕

Yeah she’s not a little child that needs to be coddled but to brush her aside when there are active conflicts in the house? 🤷‍♀️ This is now considered all ok?

This forces me to wonder why people get married if they don’t understand the scope of responsibility. Honeymoon phase mein Itna paagal ho jaana that you don’t even notice other ppl in your life? How on earth is this justified now? Neglecting a teenager can leave scars that will never heal. But people are being so cavalier about it ki honeymoon phase hai so bhool jaao issues ko 🤷‍♀️

Babita never got Love first time so she’s lost her mind now, fine. What’s HS ka excuse after making it seem like he was taking on the responsibility of the whole family, not just Babita. He sure acts like the family begins and ends with Babita.

Why does Babita’s “equilibrium” have to come at the cost of HS-Mini’s relationship?

How did this suddenly switch from Mini being the thread that bound them to her now being an appendage to the side? 🤷‍♀️ How does a thread get invalidated overnight? That too when there’s no thread to replace it. I don’t see HB’s relationship being strong enough to survive on its own despite this “honeymoon glow”.

Don't even get me started on HS...