Originally posted by: renee.bee
Hey Aishu,
Firstly sorry for intruding on this post. I know this post is for your friends. However I couldn't help wanting to say something that would comfort you but nothing anyone can say or do that can change how you feel right now. I want to send you a hug right now and pray God gives you and your family the strength to cope with this loss.
You are a strong girl please don't regret that you wasted precious time being who you are. Let me tell your father must be really proud of you because you know how the world is and you'd be able to take responsibility of yourself and your family too. He's watching over you. The soul is alive. If you believe you'll find he is there within you and part of you please take of yourself.
Please talk to whoever you feel comfortable sharing your pain or regrets and if there is something that is too private that you can't voice out please write it down. Please don't bottle up anything.
Please stay strong and be there for your younger sibling and your mother. Loss is different for each member and so is the pain.
I too lost my dad so I do understand where you are coming from. We have not talked before but if you ever need a friend I'll be here.
Sorry if I over stepped any boundary with my words. Please take for yourself. Sending a bear hug 🤗
Very profound and apt words for life, its loss and gain.
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