Planting the Seeds - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 1 - Page 35

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Considering how they're brushing aside all of her desires to show how lonely Minnie is, I don't think they are.

I mean, just where are we supposed to see all her wants and desires? In the implied romance?? In her talks with Naeem Bi?? Like come on. How is that even fair? If they want to show Babita's emancipation then it should be in all aspects of her life, including her love life. I don't want it to be brushed away or be compelled to imagine it for myself. I don't want to give them the chance to say that I interpreted it incorrectly and that's not what they showed.

Aaj kal to kuch bhi interpret karne se darr lagta hai.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Considering how they're brushing aside all of her desires to show how lonely Minnie is, I don't think they are.

I mean, just where are we supposed to see all her wants and desires? In the implied romance?? In her talks with Naeem Bi?? Like come on. How is that even fair? If they want to show Babita's emancipation then it should be in all aspects of her life, including her love life. I don't want it to be brushed away or be compelled to imagine it for myself. I don't want to give them the chance to say that I interpreted it incorrectly and that's not what they showed.

Exactly! This romance is also shown just to prove that see Mini is being neglected by Babita. Let her freaking enjoy the first couple months of her married life with HS. Both have been lonely for significant amount of years in their lives, so what is so harm that they are a little bit indulgent with each other right now. These days will never come back.

@ bold: Yupp, apparently thats where we are supposed to see it. Its so unfair... for the actors, and for the viewers. Babita's emancipation is incomplete without divulging into her love life.

Lol like how we didn't think Babita was attracted to HS pre-divorce lol, but we interpreted it all wrong per the writers.

Also, can someone explain to me what is this fascination of writers with Mini's character? I am seriously not able to understand

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

If that's the message they wanna deliver, then that's great! But their execution for it is horrible.

yes it is

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Mein shift ho jaana chahti hoon. 🤣

He also said to go with the flow (pun not intended).

So I will trust him and do so.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, I guess this is a safe space for him since it's just carnal pleasure? It's a fairly simple "I want you". There aren't that many complicated emotions involved. With everything else, there's so much room for misunderstandings and needless siyappe to rise.

I guess he wants some simple moments too among all the siyappe. Not every moment has to be full of philosophy and deep meaning.

Originally posted by: inlieu

This bothered me too. She doesn't feel that way about HS anymore so by extension she feels little for NB too?

That sucks the most cuz I thought she had her separate bonding with NB and Lala, independent of HS. Yes, she got to know them through him, but her relationship doesn't have to end with them just because she's not all besties with HS.

But I guess it'll be easier for her to break things off with them since she doesn't know them that well or that long.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Maybe. But hasn't she been calling her Dadi Amma before the baap-beti rishta truly developed?

Her viewpoint on rishte are quite messed up right now.

She called her Naeem Bi the other day. I was so surprised.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

That sucks the most cuz I thought she had her separate bonding with NB and Lala, independent of HS. Yes, she got to know them through him, but her relationship doesn't have to end with them just because she's not all besties with HS.

But I guess it'll be easier for her to break things off with them since she doesn't know them that well or that long.

And this worries me. These were the people who really taught her what dil ke rishte were about. Didn't we discuss how she'd bloomed in their company?

Were those bonds really so shallow or superficial after all that she will feel nothing for them? NB and Lala are supporting characters on the show but in terms of Minnie's life they have always been there for her and have guided her superbly.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I will share a personal story.

My cousin Bhai and Bhabhi got married and bhai had to leave for abroad soon after. Actually wedding was arranged in haste coz his visa was approved so he could call her sooner. Turns out their file got into trouble and they had to wait for 6 years. In between Bhai visited India but still a long distance relationship for 6 years.

I see them once a year. They have a baby now and are happy. But during one of the visit, we got talking and Bhabhi shared about those 6 lonely years. She told me, you know we wasted prime youth years. The attraction, the craving to be with each other, those years of initial carefree and bonding times. She told she spent every other night crying.

I wouldn’t have felt extremely bad for Babita had I not known this side of the living alone. 17 years of loneliness. For Hanuman 8 years.

I say they should make up for all lost times. Pamper each other. Spend time whenever you find. Romance shomance and do whatever you want man.

There’s no need to worry about a thing in the world at this moment. Both so deserve it.

Writers are sadistic that in middle of them finding partner and finally living those desires, they bring in Mini feeling left out.

I mean why in such a contrived manner? It could have happened but why right now?

It was Mini who once told Hanuman - use bhi koi chahiye jise woh apna keh sake. Jo sirf uska ho.

I think Mini still somewhere understands. It’s the external factor like Biji that’s pushing her in the feeling isolated zone.

Thank you for sharing this story.

After hearing this story, I feel even more for Babita and HS and think they should spend every single moment together. Be lost in each other, do romance, sexy times. I mean why not??

Mini is not a small bachhi that needs constant attention. Wish she would focus on her studies and having fun with her friends instead of being on this self-pity mode. Writers are really sadistic.

Yes, I understand that Mini will feel left out at some point, but this was not the way to bring it up. It feels forced.

Today Beeji could have made Mini understand about the whole seed planting, but nope she's like hayee poor Mini. Instead Mini is making her understand (though unconvincingly).

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Exactly! This romance is also shown just to prove that see Mini is being neglected by Babita. Let her freaking enjoy the first couple months of her married life with HS. Both have been lonely for significant amount of years in their lives, so what is so harm that they are a little bit indulgent with each other right now. These days will never come back.

Yupp, apparently thats where we are supposed to see it. Its so unfair... for the actors, and for the viewers. Babita's emancipation is incomplete without divulging into her love life.

Lol like how we didn't think Babita was attracted to HS pre-divorce lol, but we interpreted it all wrong per the writers.

Also, can someone explain to me what is this fascination of writers with Mini's character? I am seriously not able to understand

And that upsets me the most! They're not showing Hanita's romance to show how in love they are. They're doing it all to show how neglectful they are of Minnie. Which is honestly, so sickening.

Loll, according to the writers, we've been watching a completely different show. Considering how we couldn't see HS' elaborate plan to please Babita and all. 😂

LOLL, somebody should keep tweeting this at them until they answer. 😂😂😂