Planting the Seeds - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 1 - Page 26

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Lmao, take all the hand shots you want. 🤣

That hand locking was sooooooo cuteee . I swear when HS locks his hands with Babita’s, I was like did he really?!?! Dekho hum hand locking mein hi itne khush horahe hainnn 😆

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

That's what I was thinking! Even when Minnie repeated his words, she mentioned him and Babes. So I dunno where he got only Babes from.

Maybe he's dealing with Babita in this way.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am super disappointed.

HS did nothing?

Super Mini to the rescue 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

She has become way too selfish! She does not even realise she has an 18 year old daughter! She has totally forgotten Mini! And tell me one thing, which mother slaps her daughter in front of her friends? Agreed, what she did was wrong and maybe even I was previously telling that Mini needed it. But, not in front of her friends! And I am sorry to say this, in the process of fulfilling your wishes, dont let it affect others lives, specially your own child's. My mother has started hating Babita, because she feels that Babita is totally neglecting her daughter's life. Being a mother, she understands how her own daughter would feel. We would tell that she has her own life, but mothers are selfless! That is the meaning of a mother, totally selfless! That is the word that can be substituted. And mothers, have to protect their children, specially if your own child has protected you for 17 years, it is now your turn to protect your own daughter.

That does not give a say that a mother does not have a life. She has her own life as well, and she has all the right to live it. But not at the cost of others. Babita cannot balance between her husband and her daughter! That's the truth. Truth is always bitter...

I think in the next few days/weeks, we will see her swing the other way where she is completely immersed in HS and her love life and then at some point some siyappa will happen where she will be forced to find equilibrium.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Are maska maar raha hoga. Husbands bahot taarifen karte hai sometimes.

Mere Papa hamesha kehte hai.. ghar mein teri mummy ki to chalti hai. Like I know kitni chalti hai. Same with my husband, he is always like.. you are the boss. Kehna hota hai sirf. Chalti dono ki hai. Depending on the situation.

It's also to make her feel good about herself and to make her feel that this haveli is truly hers, and she's the makaan malkin.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

That hand locking was sooooooo cuteee . I swear when HS locks his hands with Babita’s, I was like did he really?!?! Dekho hum hand locking mein hi itne khush horahe hainnn 😆

LOLL, ab hand locks, eye locks, door locks - saare locks se hi kaam chalana parega. 😆

But I wish we had gotten the segment version. The way he was picking at her fingers, while trying to get at the feather was ☺️

I mean, how do you NOT show this???

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

EXACTLY. Mini's "my papaji used to take care of them". I am just so annoyed. Achanak Mini ke dil mein apne Papaji ke liya itna pyaar or sympathy or whatever she was trying to prove with her talk to Irfan.

VeerBalika-HS ki koi bonding nahi hogi ab... its all about Mini and the Khuranas

Veer Balika - HS? Who are they again?

Aisa kuch nahin hoga. Ab to sir hi bulayegi woh HS ko.

Mini looked so pretty in Golden dress.

Biji is putting things in her mind. Babita was not wrong in asking her to stay away from Khuranas. Seriously though why was her face so sada hua when HS and Babes did the beej bona together?

A wise lady like NB would have told Mini k see it’s good your mom is settling down in her wifey role and that she never got this happiness so she should enjoy. People’s perspective matter so much. Biji’s perspective is full of negativity.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Lmao, take all the hand shots you want. 🤣

Thanks.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Yes! That's exactly how I felt. If they want to show Minnie (which they do), fine, show her. But don't do it at the cost of Hanita's relationship. As it is we barely get to see them together, and when we do, we need to have this dukhaari Minnie in between to show us just how miserable she is. Like FCK! Agar itna hi rona tha phir shaadi hi kyun karwayi?? Literally, EVERY SINGLE CHANCE they got, they told her we'll break it off if you're not happy with it. If you're happy, then we'll go through with it and she always said yes! So WHY ALL THIS RONA DHONA NOW!

This loneliness, self-victimization, I'm tired of it yaar. If she was going to be like this, then Hanita should have never gotten married. Babita should have never fallen in love. Ek BOHOT badi galti kar li jo usne HS jaise aadmi se pyaar kar liya. BOHOT bada gunaah hogaya usse jo usne PEHLI baar apne baare mein socha.

Just punish her already by sticking her into the role of a mother forever. Why focus on her desires at all? It's not like she's a woman. She's just a fcking mother right? And mother's don't have feelings or wants or needs. They're just MOTHERS, nothing else. 😡

Sorry, but I'm DONE with this fcking mentality.

What was ironic was that she was so worried about Beeji and Dadu being lonely at this age, but she didn't notice that they had each other for company. Even if NB was widowed a few years ago, she also needs company now, so even Irfan and Rukhsana wanted her to have companions of her age. What if Babita had never remarried? She would end up all alone in her old age too. The first couple of years of a marriage are usually challenging whether it's a first or second marriage. Hanita have to strengthen their bond otherwise they won't have a proper marriage in order to grow old together.

One more thing... I have seen this happen to widowed people quite often. When they remarry they put their spouse on a pedestal because they are so afraid of loss, they have seen the uncertainty of life so closely that they want to make every moment with their spouse meaningful.

I don't know if this is driving HS to a certain extent but it won't surprise me if it's partly true.