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Originally posted by: Jiarao

Everything in this show looks out of place now. No coordination between scenes. They didn't show if Babitha thought about what HS said yesterday. I don't understand why they don't want us to know what's going in her mind.

But they did show that! Right in the beginning of the episode. It was her reflection upon his words that made her apologize to him.

Originally posted by: naq5

nothing in her mind just happy that HS told that ghar me kisi ki nahi uski chalegi. she is happy that HS scolded mini yesterday

It almost seems like she is in direct competition with Minnie as sibling rivalry or something. Out of the whole showdown where HS scolded Minnie in no uncertain terms and even Babita felt that HS was overdoing it at that moment, the only take home message for her was that only she has control over the house? Was there a fear that Minnie might claim some rights of home management before this?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

We want to see romance because this is a factor in Babita's life that was sorely lacking. For 35 years, she hasn't had the opportunity to express her desires, or come to own who she is as a woman. First, she lived according to her parents' wishes, and then her saasural's. For the first time, she's being given the freedom to explore herself and not be so guilt ridden about wanting things.

For 17 fricking years, she has ONLY thought about Minnie. If for ONCE, she thought of herself, then what's the big deal? This woman left her husband on their wedding night because she was so afraid of what she wanted.

I'm sorry, but I really don't agree with this.

THANKKK YOU!!!

I said this yesterday people will have problem when Babita prioritizes HS... so hoagaya 😆

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Why did HS say "aapko accha laga, is ghar mein na mahri chalegi, na veer balika ki, sirf apki chalegi"... When did he even say that? AFAIK he said yesterday yeh "mahri aur thari maa ka ghar hai"... so where did this only Babita ki chalegi come from?

That's what I was thinking! Even when Minnie repeated his words, she mentioned him and Babes. So I dunno where he got only Babes from.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Babita ka POV toh dikhate bhi nahi writers so how do we even know what she's thinking about .

There hasn't been a proper introspection to Babita's thoughts.

But they did show it! Did we not watch the same episode today?? 😕

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, I don't expect them to stay mad forever. Babita acknowledged her mistake and apologized for it.

As for Minnie, it seems like the day has just begun in PB land, so there's still plenty of time for them to talk to her. There's an upcoming scene between Ashnoor & Anirudh, so they might talk then. But a conversation needs to happen, especially between Babita & Minnie.

As for Babes, I don't see what's wrong with her having the freedom to make decisions in the house. She should have a say. It'll lead her to be more confident and learn how to handle things maturely. If she leaves the decisions to everyone else, then what's the difference between her old life and this new one?

What I would have liked however, was for her to perhaps say that she wants him to be included in the decision making process. It should be a joint matter, not just have everything be left to her, because we all know how horrible she is at making decisions right now.

exactly

And secondly when all her life she has lived her life on other terms why does she now want others to do the same. In a family if everyone's wishes even childrens wishes are not taken into consideration then that family dosent function for a long time. Distances creep up between members.

And did babita say sorry for forcing HS to act in her way of parenting. i dint get what she said sorry for. for telling hs to naap tol ke scold?

Originally posted by: naq5

nothing in her mind just happy that HS told that ghar me kisi ki nahi uski chalegi. she is happy that HS scolded mini yesterday

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

We want to see romance because this is a factor in Babita's life that was sorely lacking. For 35 years, she hasn't had the opportunity to express her desires, or come to own who she is as a woman. First, she lived according to her parents' wishes, and then her saasural's. For the first time, she's being given the freedom to explore herself and not be so guilt ridden about wanting things.

For 17 fricking years, she has ONLY thought about Minnie. If for ONCE, she thought of herself, then what's the big deal? This woman left her husband on their wedding night because she was so afraid of what she wanted.

I'm sorry, but I really don't agree with this.

She has become way too selfish! She does not even realise she has an 18 year old daughter! She has totally forgotten Mini! And tell me one thing, which mother slaps her daughter in front of her friends? Agreed, what she did was wrong and maybe even I was previously telling that Mini needed it. But, not in front of her friends! And I am sorry to say this, in the process of fulfilling your wishes, dont let it affect others lives, specially your own child's. My mother has started hating Babita, because she feels that Babita is totally neglecting her daughter's life. Being a mother, she understands how her own daughter would feel. We would tell that she has her own life, but mothers are selfless! That is the meaning of a mother, totally selfless! That is the word that can be substituted. And mothers, have to protect their children, specially if your own child has protected you for 17 years, it is now your turn to protect your own daughter.

That does not give a say that a mother does not have a life. She has her own life as well, and she has all the right to live it. But not at the cost of others. Babita cannot balance between her husband and her daughter! That's the truth. Truth is always bitter...

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

But they did show it! Did we not watch the same episode today?? 😕

Yeah they briefly touched upon that. She apologized for how she made HS prove his love for Mini.

I think people are talking about Babita not introspecting on what she said to Mini about Mita comparison and all. At least thats what I am talking about. They didn't show anything on that front.

Originally posted by: tantal

It almost seems like she is in direct competition with Minnie as sibling rivalry or something. Out of the whole showdown where HS scolded Minnie in no uncertain terms and even Babita felt that HS was overdoing it at that moment, the only take home message for her was that only she has control over the house? Was there a fear that Minnie might claim some rights of home management before this?

yes it is coming across like that. Babita is not a kid.