Originally posted by: najma123
That was no way to do that though. Coz, this happened with me when I was in college, my DP was with my best friend, and we were hugging, looked damn cute, but my Dad got a little offended, and said, I didn't like it. What will your grandfather think when he sees it? 😆 Bullshit. I changed it, but he clarified saying, I know you guys are very close friends and there's nothing wrong in hugging but why put it as a DP, it made no sense but since it was a day before New Year I didn't want to argue so I changed. On a later date though, I did point out to him that my Grandad doesn't give two shits about my DP, maybe he should stop giving a shit too about what his dad thought about MY friends. Sorry if this got a little personal. Different people react differently, why I am personally so taken in and irritated by this situation is that, this could have been handled better! I got super pissed that my Dad wasn't trusting me, but was super happy that he did in fact do that. Trust in kids as I said earlier, means a frigging lot to them. Kids make compromises here and there. And Mini would too. If Babita hadn't burst out like a tornado. Even if you do listen to log kya kahenge, there's a way to do that! I don't want you to think, My personal issue was silly and shit, neither did I mention it to gather some opinions, it was just an instance which sort of has an impact on how I judge this situationn
Didnt mini go off like a tornado in defense of her Grandparents? Why is it surprising that Babita did too?
I don't think it's a matter of trust.. it has more to do with what can happen that Babita is worried about, not what already is happening