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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: najma123

That was no way to do that though. Coz, this happened with me when I was in college, my DP was with my best friend, and we were hugging, looked damn cute, but my Dad got a little offended, and said, I didn't like it. What will your grandfather think when he sees it? 😆 Bullshit. I changed it, but he clarified saying, I know you guys are very close friends and there's nothing wrong in hugging but why put it as a DP, it made no sense but since it was a day before New Year I didn't want to argue so I changed. On a later date though, I did point out to him that my Grandad doesn't give two shits about my DP, maybe he should stop giving a shit too about what his dad thought about MY friends. Sorry if this got a little personal. Different people react differently, why I am personally so taken in and irritated by this situation is that, this could have been handled better! I got super pissed that my Dad wasn't trusting me, but was super happy that he did in fact do that. Trust in kids as I said earlier, means a frigging lot to them. Kids make compromises here and there. And Mini would too. If Babita hadn't burst out like a tornado. Even if you do listen to log kya kahenge, there's a way to do that! I don't want you to think, My personal issue was silly and shit, neither did I mention it to gather some opinions, it was just an instance which sort of has an impact on how I judge this situationn

Didnt mini go off like a tornado in defense of her Grandparents? Why is it surprising that Babita did too?

I don't think it's a matter of trust.. it has more to do with what can happen that Babita is worried about, not what already is happening

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Posted: 5 years ago

They have not known Micy for ages.. one year😆

Yes.. Micky has been a great friend to Mini in this one year and became a frequent visitor if their house but no.. they do not know him since ages.. Teenage boys actually all boys should never be trusted that easily🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Today he was not a husband... He is a father whose love for his daughter is always questioned and he always need to prove it.... Bcoz when he wants to handle things in his own way he becomes an outsider... But if he had done out of his way also he is again labelled as stepdad....👏

He is a stepdad! He should have explained to Babita what Mini means to him. Should have told her he needed time, and then said, he couldn't be a father. And should have asked, is it not enough that he loves her so much, do relationships need a label? He IS more mature than her.
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

They have not known Micy for ages.. one year😆

Yes.. Micky has been a great friend to Mini in this one year and became a frequent visitor if their house but no.. they do not know him since ages.. Teenage boys actually all boys should never be trusted that easily🤣

One year is a long time man. And guys aren't shit. Not all guys are shit. Guy best friends are awesome. Or idk I have only seen parents being trusting, haven't come across doubting parents. Mini can be a self victim, but she is a good judge of character when it comes to picking friends. And she's dissuaded all romantic ties with both Mickey and that other guy. The brother.
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Didnt mini go off like a tornado in defense of her Grandparents? Why is it surprising that Babita did too?

I don't think it's a matter of trust.. it has more to do with what can happen that Babita is worried about, not what already is happening

What she thinks can happen and cannot happen is based on trust. If she believed her daughter cannot do that, she wouldn't have worried to the extent she did about this closeness and hand holding and hugging and all. Friends do that all the time. And there's no tit for tat here. That Mini went off then, so Babita needs to go off now. It isn't surprising! But it was wrong.
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Posted: 5 years ago

No Babita has a Mother every right to get angry on Mini.

No Mini has not told her the full truth about Romeo Mickey and has lied and hide things from her. So where is the trust with her Babes as she knew that she will freak out. We leave in a Society where its not easy to roam around like Mini and not expect people to talk.

All this listening to Mickey is not a good way to go.

She needs to grow up and finish her education and get a Career and think for herself what life is all about and growing up and not get out of this self inflicted victim mood.

So HS finally said that he is the Father and Men of the house. And got angry with Babita because she went on about it. Loved the Police actions between Mini and HS today.

Its amazing how they gave have totally destroyed Babita as a Mother in the last 3 months to make Mini the great and now its HS turn to be fully butchered to make Mini even greater.

Hoe Sony hS allowed a beautiful serial to go down this route is unbelievable and some fabulous bonding etc have been destroyed.

I think that if there is s 2nd season than I seriously can see them quitting the serial as there Character have been changed.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

No.. close as in touchy feely.. Babita got worried seeing Mini and Micky in close proximity and weirdly jitna touchy feely makers ne Micky Mini ko dikhaya hai, Micky Preet maintain distance despite dating😆

Mini interfered in her mother's love life.. and you think Babita would let this one go?😆 Babita and Mini have no sense of boundaries

because mickey preet are BF GF so they are reluctant to do it in front of everyone. akele me karte honge being touchy and close. What if anyone catches them rano ne to maar dalna hai preet ko. mickey mini to friends hai. so they can say we are friends

and the second is mini mickey have a better understanding because they have been friends since before. preet mickey still getting to know each other

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5

because mickey preet are BF GF so they are reluctant to do it in front of everyone. akele me karte honge being touchy and close. What if anyone catches them rano ne to maar dalna hai preet ko. mickey mini to friends hai. so they can say we are friends

and the second is mini mickey have a better understanding because they have been friends since before. preet mickey still getting to know each other

Yeah actually it makes sense. 😆 Friends are more at ease with each other that way, than couples. Coz couples are judged it looked upon weirdly. For friends everyone just says they are pulling their leg.
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: najma123

That was no way to do that though. Coz, this happened with me when I was in college, my DP was with my best friend, and we were hugging, looked damn cute, but my Dad got a little offended, and said, I didn't like it. What will your grandfather think when he sees it? 😆 Bullshit. I changed it, but he clarified saying, I know you guys are very close friends and there's nothing wrong in hugging but why put it as a DP, it made no sense but since it was a day before New Year I didn't want to argue so I changed. On a later date though, I did point out to him that my Grandad doesn't give two shits about my DP, maybe he should stop giving a shit too about what his dad thought about MY friends. Sorry if this got a little personal. Different people react differently, why I am personally so taken in and irritated by this situation is that, this could have been handled better! I got super pissed that my Dad wasn't trusting me, but was super happy that he did in fact do that. Trust in kids as I said earlier, means a frigging lot to them. Kids make compromises here and there. And Mini would too. If Babita hadn't burst out like a tornado. Even if you do listen to log kya kahenge, there's a way to do that! I don't want you to think, My personal issue was silly and shit, neither did I mention it to gather some opinions, it was just an instance which sort of has an impact on how I judge this situation.

Edit - and I did what I did in my instance coz I didn't want my Dad unhappy, not coz I cared about people. As I said, kids do make compromises. Just like parents do.

Trusting you kid doesn't mean that you can't question her or you are not bothered about her... See in ur situation u have handled it very nicely and u kept it view calmly... But Minni don't do that... She did argued calmly but after stomping out dint she have responsibility to at least take the call and inform babita... If a kid does that which parent will be calm yaar... The went in a truck.. God's grace nothing happened but if something wrong would have happened then....

And HS saying all that is nothing wrong... Agar main aisa karti na my father would have slapped me for sure... Bcoz he will be restless if he don't know about our whereabouts... Arguing with ur mom and going away without informing her is wrong... Patent kitne bhi trust kare the can't tolerate this...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Hanuman Singh’ flaws —

When he is stressed out, he makes a below the belt comment. paraya mard to Babita and now Ashok one to Mini.

Another one is — he can’t say sorry. Male ego!

After Paraya Mard comment - he ran away. Didn’t talk to Babita. When Babita asked for apology, he felt bad.

After CD incident - he didn’t talk to Mini at all. Once proof arrived, he said sorry.


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