Did AJ deserve this ?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Riya first time ur topic is good

Yes aj doesn’t deserve this type of life he is suffering because of antara

But since guddan is married to him she too is suffering

If aj life was not rosy neither guddan life was or is

Aj married an evil but guddan bearing the evil since she is soulmate of aj .

But guddan suffered too since childhood her mom died and her stepmom always put her confidence down by chits and ppl around her demotivated her only good thing her sis and dad always been for her

Here aj had no issues in childhood but real test started when his elder bro died leaving 3 kids when he had antara whom he thought loved him but she ran away from the responsibility but he had dadi as support system but antara betrayed him faking her death

He started to earn for the family and he fulfilled his duty without fail

He completed his duty with marrying there son’s and family were happy and bahu’s wanted aj to marry again so his focus on them will reduce so with the letter thing he decides to marry ..

Guddan as good sis wanted perv away from chutki and to protect her she was forced to marry aj who was double her age which was like hell too

Marriage happened in weird way were everyone hated guddan and blamed her for nothing ...

After marriage her chulbuliness vanished it’s a trial for her proving to be best saas and bahu

Then came angad who tortured her and put aj life in danger then came perv who put her life in danger

Eventually aj fell in love and guddan acknowledges it but antara came and twisted everything and made her life a hell

She was all alone fighting for aj and family but aj was helpless did nothing to protect her from heartbreak

Guddan went a risky way to show the truth ( faking marriage with old guy )it was not easy ...

When truth was all open then aj supported her then angad death blaming on guddan revti bakwas and death drama

Aj again faked hate and guddan had to fight to bring the truth out

So u see if aj has suffered guddan has equally suffered

Because of antara she faced humiliated , betrayal what not from aj and chutki

But beauty is aj learned from his mistakes instantly and just loved her and showered her with love

That’s the reason why guddan keeps coming back

He can’t express but his eyes do

Guddan knows to read his eyes and heartbeat

Problem with aj is either he is silent or he is in anger he never sits with guddan and try to solve the problem as team

Both needs to form a team to fight the enemies they should never give a gap were enemies can easily come between and take advantage

Now also instead of solving issue of his daughter he decides to stay in other place just to keep guddan safe

he should be with guddan strong that no one comes in between..

Whatever comes they need to fight it back being together ?

Cvs should stop showing aj helpless and guddan as hero to him always why not show he being hero for a change

Why it had to be guddan at front runner and aj watcher ..

Both had there share of sorrows

But difference is guddan from childhood has been suffering but aj the day he married antara

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I actually agree with u. Not only Guddan, but AJ also suffered a lot which is why I always have a soft corner for him. Initiailly AJ character was one of the best ITV male lead character any ITV show could have, but since Antra entry that AJ seems to be hidden. Good thing he still trusts Guddan and supports her almost everytime sirf 1-2 baar he didnt trust(first time his reason was valid, second time wasnt 100% his fault, but still he was to be blamed) But bad thing he is shown weak, yaar yeh kya pyaar mai padhne ka side effects hai kya! I mean like before he fell in love with Guddan he was not just an acha insan but also a guy who won't tolerate any nonsense and can show one their aukat very well. but after he fell in love with guddan, that aj is missing , actually rather after antra entered, wow antra's true colors did shock him to the core. agar yeh pehle wala aj hota he would have shown that revati her aukat very well instead of just letting her what she wants to do. He is still a good male lead, but voh AJ wala charm missing hai. And yes I agree he suffered a lot. But Guddan has equally suffered too.

Riya first time ur topic is good

Yes aj doesn’t deserve this type of life he is suffering because of antara

But since guddan is married to him she too is suffering

If aj life was not rosy neither guddan life was or is

Aj married an evil but guddan bearing the evil since she is soulmate of aj .

But guddan suffered too since childhood her mom died and her stepmom always put her confidence down by chits and ppl around her demotivated her only good thing her sis and dad always been for her

Here aj had no issues in childhood but real test started when his elder bro died leaving 3 kids when he had antara whom he thought loved him but she ran away from the responsibility but he had dadi as support system but antara betrayed him faking her death

He started to earn for the family and he fulfilled his duty without fail

He completed his duty with marrying there son’s and family were happy and bahu’s wanted aj to marry again so his focus on them will reduce so with the letter thing he decides to marry ..

Guddan as good sis wanted perv away from chutki and to protect her she was forced to marry aj who was double her age which was like hell too

Marriage happened in weird way were everyone hated guddan and blamed her for nothing ...

After marriage her chulbuliness vanished it’s a trial for her proving to be best saas and bahu

Then came angad who tortured her and put aj life in danger then came perv who put her life in danger

Eventually aj fell in love and guddan acknowledges it but antara came and twisted everything and made her life a hell

She was all alone fighting for aj and family but aj was helpless did nothing to protect her from heartbreak

Guddan went a risky way to show the truth ( faking marriage with old guy )it was not easy ...

When truth was all open then aj supported her then angad death blaming on guddan revti bakwas and death drama

Aj again faked hate and guddan had to fight to bring the truth out

So u see if aj has suffered guddan has equally suffered

Because of antara she faced humiliated , betrayal what not from aj and chutki

But beauty is aj learned from his mistakes instantly and just loved her and showered her with love

That’s the reason why guddan keeps coming back

He can’t express but his eyes do

Guddan knows to read his eyes and heartbeat

Problem with aj is either he is silent or he is in anger he never sits with guddan and try to solve the problem as team

Both needs to form a team to fight the enemies they should never give a gap were enemies can easily come between and take advantage

Now also instead of solving issue of his daughter he decides to stay in other place just to keep guddan safe

he should be with guddan strong that no one comes in between..

Whatever comes they need to fight it back being together ?

Cvs should stop showing aj helpless and guddan as hero to him always why not show he being hero for a change

Why it had to be guddan at front runner and aj watcher ..

Both had there share of sorrows

But difference is guddan from childhood has been suffering but aj the day he married antara

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I agree that Guddan suffering from childhood and I am not comparing both suffering but who knows how Ajs childhood was we still don't know nothing about Ajs childhood ?? Or how antara came into life here CVS are tell mess and I will not able to forgive them how they are keep introducing Ajs family member without any proper fb story ...like kuch bhi

And in us ( brngalis) it is that when you married your gotra changes and your and your husband gotra cecones one then a wife is equally responsible for every luck fortune MIS fortune of a husband if a husband life is that of a throne then ..wife life is bound to take that route and suffering ...start....it is becof the gotra ..and husband karma ...fortube or misfortune since Guddan married AJ with all the rituals ...Agni ko sakshi mantey huye then Guddan life is bound to take the throne route ..

I agree that Guddan suffering from childhood and I am not comparing both suffering but who knows how Ajs childhood was we still don't know nothing about Ajs childhood ?? Or how antara came into life here CVS are tell mess and I will not able to forgive them how they are keep introducing Ajs family member without any proper fb story ...like kuch bhi

And in us ( brngalis) it is that when you married your gotra changes and your and your husband gotra cecones one then a wife is equally responsible for every luck fortune MIS fortune of a husband if a husband life is that of a throne then ..wife life is bound to take that route and suffering ...start....it is becof the gotra ..and husband karma ...fortube or misfortune since Guddan married AJ with all the rituals ...Agni ko sakshi mantey huye then Guddan life is bound to take the throne route ..

Through dadi we have been shown he had no issues in childhood

Problem started when his brother died and antara eloped faked death ..

True guddan is better half so his problem she is bearing it through out

He took her problems in form of revti

Issue is cv’s and writers who are showing aj as helpless and guddan over smart 🤦🏻‍♀️

Were is that aj we saw initially who knew to tackle things

Aj could not handle revti it was biggest joke I ever heard

Aj didn’t even tried to look for guddan that’s biggest error cvs have done

After she returns he faked hate

Simple thing he is shown complicating things

Why can’t they show him teaming with guddan to bring evil down like he did in dutta/ bua tracks

Seriously it’s bad writing

Now latest spoiler he runs away from situations yet again decides to stay away in different house what nonsense they show can’t he sit and decide with guddan why he needs to stay away he can throw others instead he can provide new home to the kid etc..

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Through dadi we have been shown he had no issues in childhood

Problem started when his brother died and antara eloped faked death ..

True guddan is better half so his problem she is bearing it through out

He took her problems in form of revti

Issue is cv’s and writers who are showing aj as helpless and guddan over smart 🤦🏻‍♀️

Were is that aj we saw initially who knew to tackle things

Aj could not handle revti it was biggest joke I ever heard

Aj didn’t even tried to look for guddan that’s biggest error cvs have done

After she returns he faked hate

Simple thing he is shown complicating things

Why can’t they show him teaming with guddan to bring evil down like he did in dutta/ bua tracks

Seriously it’s bad writing

Now latest spoiler he runs away from situations yet again decides to stay away in different house what nonsense they show can’t he sit and decide with guddan why he needs to stay away he can throw others instead he can provide new home to the kid etc..

its actully poor writing of d cvs....and sad part is thy r nt evn tryng to rectify d errors.....

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Through dadi we have been shown he had no issues in childhood

Problem started when his brother died and antara eloped faked death ..

True guddan is better half so his problem she is bearing it through out

He took her problems in form of revti

Issue is cv’s and writers who are showing aj as helpless and guddan over smart 🤦🏻‍♀️

Were is that aj we saw initially who knew to tackle things

Aj could not handle revti it was biggest joke I ever heard

Aj didn’t even tried to look for guddan that’s biggest error cvs have done

After she returns he faked hate

Simple thing he is shown complicating things

Why can’t they show him teaming with guddan to bring evil down like he did in dutta/ bua tracks

Seriously it’s bad writing

Now latest spoiler he runs away from situations yet again decides to stay away in different house what nonsense they show can’t he sit and decide with guddan why he needs to stay away he can throw others instead he can provide new home to the kid etc..

AJ after antara's "death" and before falling in love with Guddan, he had the luxury of being ruthless and aggressive. Love makes you soft in many ways. I don't think anything changed in AJ's character. He becomes weak when it comes to love, that is very very much in line with his nature and character. Is it a good thing? no not always. Him being helpless is understandable in many of these situations. He could have handled Revti but that is Guddan's sister. He can't harm her and he can't eliminate her or act against her, guddan would not want that. Because of that he was helpless against revti. Not his fault at all. I don't blame him for doing what revti wanted, and she even taunted him about that if you recall. She taunted him that even if he wants to he can't harm her. He had no choice, it wasn't just some other outsider that was doing this to Guddan, it was her own sister.

As for the latest spoiler? I think he just wants to spare Guddan additional pain, so if he removes himself and the issue, she may be hurt for a while but in his mind he is likey saving her from a lifetime of that pain.

And whether or not Aj had a good or bad childhood, isn't really relevant in my view. He is much older than guddan and has lived longer than her. Her childhood is equivalent to the years he spent with Antara. He may have had a better childhood than Guddan but it isn't about that. Guddan didn't live in an illusion. Her reality was always visible to her. With AJ, he truly fell in love with a fake person who strung him along for 15 years. That is not easy to digest. 15 years is not little time. Every single moment in those years was now fake, every emotional, romantic, friendly, every moment of happiness was fake. I think both are somewhat equally in pain and have suffered more than their fair share, i think you can argue in many ways AJ's life was worse. At least guddan can leave if she wanted to, he cant even do that.

Originally posted by: kshah1987

AJ after antara's "death" and before falling in love with Guddan, he had the luxury of being ruthless and aggressive. Love makes you soft in many ways. I don't think anything changed in AJ's character. He becomes weak when it comes to love, that is very very much in line with his nature and character. Is it a good thing? no not always. Him being helpless is understandable in many of these situations. He could have handled Revti but that is Guddan's sister. He can't harm her and he can't eliminate her or act against her, guddan would not want that. Because of that he was helpless against revti. Not his fault at all. I don't blame him for doing what revti wanted, and she even taunted him about that if you recall. She taunted him that even if he wants to he can't harm her. He had no choice, it wasn't just some other outsider that was doing this to Guddan, it was her own sister.

As for the latest spoiler? I think he just wants to spare Guddan additional pain, so if he removes himself and the issue, she may be hurt for a while but in his mind he is likey saving her from a lifetime of that pain.

I am not blaming any charactrs....but i vl defntly blame the writers who r writng ths trcks.....i do knw serials dnt hav logics...

but but but in ths case thr r n no of bloopers....thy r actuly gng in d past nd editing d script according to thr convinience....

nd for me both AJ nd Guddan r sailing in d same boat....thy cant accept easily nor thy can ignore thngs....all thy cn do is face it togethr...fight it out togethr....

Originally posted by: RISH1234

its actully poor writing of d cvs....and sad part is thy r nt evn tryng to rectify d errors.....

Exactly

Were is that aj we all knew ??

After antara track why his character ruined ??

His love for guddan is commendable but his efforts are not shown properly by cvs his part of monologue is missing

After guddan death news he seemed so normal how ??

Cvs did a blunder

When old director showed that guddan didn’t leave any stone whole searching for aj

Why this new director showed aj never tried to look for guddan??

It’s so irritating seeing only antara related stuffs in this show