Illusions - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 7 - Page 7

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

Today i want to reveal something which i have not shared with anyone until now.

I lost my hubby six years back. Many of my wellwishers told me to think abt remarriage. And my reply till today is that the person has to love my son more than me. Today i could relate myself to the episode because though i am quiet a open minded person and take my own decisions, but the fear of being called a bad mother has always been somewhere in my mind and has stopped me from finding my happiness. I am not ashamed today to accept this. But i do love my son more than myself. But i feel everone is scared of being judged and a single mom is scared more. Somewhere the society is responsible for this.

Thanks for sharing that with us Divya.

I can't relate to the motherly aspect of Babita since I'm not a mother, let alone a single one. But I can understand the difficulties that a single parent may have to face. Society has been created with this mindset that a child needs two parental units, most preferably a man and a woman, in order to ensure the healthy and correct upbringing of the offspring. Anything that deviates from this is a recipe for disaster. There are many people who have opposed against this system, but the truth is that no matter which corner of the world you go, this system has been established. Thus, the expectation that everyone will be open minded and sympathetic towards an alternative system should be kept quite low.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Mannn HS was so good today when he was confronting Babita about his feelings, and their feelings for each other. I am so glad he opened up to her. This will force her to think about his POV now.

Even she knows that they were attracted to each other from the beginning, but she is in denial mode right now and didn't acknowledge it.

One thing I didn't understand though HS said they were attracted pre-divorce, and they didn't acknowledge it because society will morally judge her. AFAIK, it was nothing like that, at least not from Babita's side. I don't think she was attracted or even thought about him in that sense pre-divorce. This is what I didn't understand 🤔.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

Thank you so much for the detailed update.

I have unfortunately lost interest and do not watch PB any more, initially because of work commitments and then just didn't feel like catching up on missed episodes.

I am not finding the characters I loved so much any more and am least interested in Hanita since Babita gets so much on my nerves.

I miss you all and will keep reading your posts.

No prob!

I'll make sure to post the updates on the first page here on out so that it doesn't get lost in the discussion.

Can understand your frustration with the characters. I think most of us are only here for our select actors now.

We miss you too! 🤗

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

i think he was fed up with too much expectations and questioning eyes of everyone about him as a father. But he does love mini and thats the truth

That's what Anirudh meant by unrealistic expectations in his tweet on patiala babes .I hope they show what u are saying that both mini n babita expect too much from HS but did mini n babita will accept him as father without judging him as outsider .That he has also heart n feelings ND like the way they expect from him he can also expect from them .It's everytime he understanding them do they understand her ?I hope they show this but hope thore Kam Hain

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

but he was right when he said she never called him bhaisaab😆

Or even the way she spoke to him. It was much different than all the other men.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

Today i want to reveal something which i have not shared with anyone until now.

I lost my hubby six years back. Many of my wellwishers told me to think abt remarriage. And my reply till today is that the person has to love my son more than me. Today i could relate myself to the episode because though i am quiet a open minded person and take my own decisions, but the fear of being called a bad mother has always been somewhere in my mind and has stopped me from finding my happiness. I am not ashamed today to accept this. But i do love my son more than myself. But i feel everone is scared of being judged and a single mom is scared more. Somewhere the society is responsible for this.

🤗

Mine is the same story except that I separated from my children's father.

I never really found any man who could love my children period. And so for me no way would I put myself above them and thats what my life has been. I don;t regret it at all. That's the good news.

I am almost positive that a separation track is coming up, most likely on Minnie's 18th birthday. If reports of Hanita expecting a baby is true I, for the life of me, cannot foresee how they will resolve the alienation between Hanita and Minnie. They will be too wrapped up in the new phase of their marriage and minnie will feel more cut off... I don't know this story seems to be gearing up towards a leap. Minnie and her step sibling meeting without knowing each other after many years etc etc

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Or even the way she spoke to him. It was much different than all the other men.

I know she treated him differently than other men. But was she attracted to him pre-divorce though? 🤔

I never thought that HS could've called Minnie his daughter for Babita's sake and that Minnie knew of this. Even though the CVs have taken this route, I feel there's hope for Hannie.

I'm sure during the omelette scene they were truly like father-daughter. Even when she stood by him and didn't leave with her mother during the court case, she was a typical daughter standing by her father. Remember when she woke him up so cutely, pressed his clothes, etc?

HS has been everything a father is for a child. Waking up early morning for training sessions. Being there for every single problem of hers. Hell, he gave up drinking for her. Him losing his everything in the hospital. That's just the tip of the iceberg with these two.

The highlights for today's episode, personally, were when Minnie said that for her the lines had started blurring. She had started believing that they are father daughter. HS on the other hand says koshish ki thi. To become her father.

Right now both of them are stuck in a vortex of their own thoughts and what they believe is the truth. CVs ek acha sa meaningful conversation de do please between them? About them! Not about Babita! Please.

Can I bare my heart to watch it after reading the update .... I am contemplating heavily🤔