Is Bajaj fit to be a father? - Page 3

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

Yes........i feel that he is very much fit to be a father. I dont feel any parent doesnt go in daring situations just because they would like to save their child from trauma.....stuntsmen ke bhi bache hote hain.....toh they should leave their job to save their child from trauma ???.....no thats not the case. Aur bhi bahut jobs accident prone hote hain. They do continue with their job because they need it to get what child needs.....here bajaj do needs prerna for cookie as well......the main reason to marry prerna was first cookie only, its now his own feelings also have come into picture.......though these senseless/illogical/mad ideas will never get him prerna in my thinking....but right now he feels that he can make anurag go wrong in front of her and than she will never be separated from him and cookie because he feels that its anurag who want to separate them while prerna is okay with spending life with him. And when he planned this......he took care of how everything will happen and it was better than anurag planning in the way that it was his goons who were suppose to attack and not some other person. Ofcourse.....if he is paying them to be careful....they will be careful enough....he ofcourse was also alert and the amount of money he has.....obviously uske kapdo par aag nahi lagni thi.......he must have put the gel on himself. Warna its so wierd....ki itni aag lagne ke baad bhi....kurte ne aag nahi pakdi. His life wasnt at risk....he doesnt love prerna utna abhi ki woh apni jaan khatre mein daale.....he just wanted to put anurag down. Anurag ke case mein cheejein bajaj par bhi depend karti thi which he didnt took into account....thats why the accident became severe in his case.

Though i hate this all plan and its ridiculous to see a person like bajaj doing all these things......anurag se usse kya problem hain.......bakte rehno do usse .....karte rehno do anurag ko joh bhi karna hain....usse instead ek baar khulke prerna se baat karni thi is baarein mein. Khair coming back to the topic.....he is a fit to be a father because first he was not risking his life and secondly because there are fathers who do need to risk their lifes so many times due to their profession and they do it so they can bring food to child....he did with a thinking that this act of his will not let get prerna separated from his family. So he is assuring mother for his child through this. So yaa....he is still a good father and would remain.

People who risk their life everyday to earn a living for their family can't be equated to what Mr Bajaj did.

Yes he did initially get Prerna for Kuki but now it's not the same. He has told this many times now that he wants Prerna for himself and dis act amounts to madness. I don't know wht gel protects from fire but playing wid fire for setting a grudge or to win a woman over is plain irresponsible ...... especially when you are a father.

Stuntmen , firemen and other such jobs such risks its a need ......here Mr Bajaj has a want .....not a need.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

The stunt was undoubtedly stupid but what I feel made B still go with it is - his confidence in the plan that he has made (you may call it an overconfidence, I will not mind at all 😆 ) This is RB we are talking about who has always shown to be someone who is perfect with his plans. We recently saw to what extent he can play. 😆

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

People who risk their life everyday to earn a living for their family can't be equated to what Mr Bajaj did.

Yes he did initially get Prerna for Kuki but now it's not the same. He has told this many times now that he wants Prerna for himself and dis act amounts to madness. I don't know wht gel protects from fire but playing wid fire for setting a grudge or to win a woman over is plain irresponsible ...... especially when you are a father.

Stuntmen , firemen and other such jobs such risks its a need ......here Mr Bajaj has a want .....not a need.

And why should bajaj not stop prerna.....he had fulfilled what prerna has demanded and now she should fulfil what she is required to. Deal nahu karti toh rehti apne anurag ke saath but deal karne ke baad anurag ke face ko cup karna ya uske saath chunri mein khade rehna is not done. Himmat hain toh return all the shares which bajaj had brought of basus....and tell him, she is breaking the deal.....though tab bhi sahi nahi hoga....kyonki bajaj saved anurag from jail which now cant be reversed. But stilll itna karne ki toh himmat toh dikhao....but nahi....yaha its like.......sacrifice sacrifice bol kar apne bf ko jail se chudwao....uski company ke shares chudwa do. Phir apne bf ko kuch mat batao.....woh aayega aur tumhare current pati se uska ghar cheen lega. And then jab tumhara pati tumhare bf ka khar khareed le, toh yeh mansha rakho ki woh basus ko waha rehne de. And tumhara pati woh bhi maan jaaye tumhara chehra dekhkar.....na nikale basus ko waha se tumhara soachkar......aur tum anurag basu ke saath zindagi ke sapne sajao. What kind of logic is that ????.....i cant believe she keeps standing in front of anurag with those teary eyes......and keeps listening to all his bakwas.....she saw that he deliberately made her fall on himself.....usne tab bhi react nahi kiya. Aaj bhi she stood there in the chunri for so much time till bajaj words dint cross her memory. She really needs upto what she has promised......she can love anurag all her life but she shouldnt be with him till the time she is married to bajaj. Deal todni hain toh dhang se todo.....bajaj is not wrong in letting her go till he falls madly for her.......woh kyun jaane de....prerna ne itna fayda uthaya hain uska....made him do so many things according to her interest.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

Why they cant be equated ???......if this current situation can be equated to bajaj not fit to be a father because he lets his child bear the trauma of seeing him injured to stop prerna in the family which his child needs. Pyar toh usse ab hua hain....and he said cookie ke saath saath apne liye bhi chahiye. Family nahi tootne doonga if you noticed. The same way a stuntmen is okay with his child dealing with the trauma of seeing his parents in bad conditions so that he can bring food which child needs. A mother is very important for a child too....prerna in cookie case is even more imp. And need to hain hi.....need is that he doesnt wants to let prerna go....neither as cookie mother nor his wife.

Though i strongly hate the idea bajaj is using right now.....its ridiculous to say the least. Bachkani harkatein ....bachkani ladaiyan....i am fed up......its horrible to say the least. But then i dont think it was life threatening for him after watching it.....it was not....it was well planned.....fire retardant gels are available in market....what you think stuntmen use when they add fire to themselves ???......its just they are costly when brought in small quantities and bajaj is rich enough to buy him.

And i completely supported the idea of bajaj simply talking to prerna that she needs to maintain a distance from anurag. That would have been accurate and a mature step in the sitiation. Unfortunately cvs made a joker out of him. But then this act doesnt make him not fit to be a father in my openion atleast.

Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.

Please let's not equate a stuntman's job to what Bajaj did here...that would be so insulting to people who jeopardize their lives daily because they don't have an option. You're romanticizing stuntmen. They actually lose their lives stuck in a rut in their respective industries, doing their best to put food on the table. Let's not also trivialize the cycle of poverty, lack of choices, and enforced structuralism and imperialism that drives these industries. Yes, many choose to seek it out of thrill, but most of them don't. They have to work in abysmal conditions and put their lives at risk every day simply because there's no other choice. Comparing them to a billionaire orchestrating this for himself is so wrong.

i do agree that bajaj now do wants prerna for himself....but its not just for himself.....he doesnt want the family to break.....he wants her for himself and his daughter.....its not like cookie has gone out of picture. He knows importance of prerna in her life and thus never wish to see them separated as well.

Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.

More often than not, simple plans are actually the smart ones. Putting his ownself on fire, whether he could 100% control it or not is debatable, for an end he could've simply achieved by telling Prerna he's at his limit's end and they're leaving? She was anyway grateful to him for not putting Anurag behind bars. Quid pro quo. I did that for you. It's your turn. I'm done. But no, he had to put himself on fire? And as far as separating Anurag Prerna is concerned, he can achieve that too in a million different ways. So this plan was comical at best and ludicrous to boot. If his daughter sees it, she'll be traumatized and she doesn't deserve that. Especially not for a feeling that didn't even exist like two days ago. Talk about whiplash.

I do not disagree. I was just stating what I feel could be in his mind that had him going with a plan as lame but could turn into something disastrous in a blink of an eye as this. He is player, that's for sure. How appreciable, I am not sure. The recent revelations that he made in front of Anurag proved it about how good he is, at hiding, pretending, making up plans and executing them as per his convenience and in his benefits. I haven't even watched the show since a couple of episodes and writing only on the basis of whatever the little updates that I have read. Everything about this show is super lame. Characters have no consistency and literally everything is mocked. Relationships, the most.

@bold - was she at the Pandal? Pata chala iske bare me sochke wo pehle hi Cookie ko ghar rakhke aaya tha. 😆

Oh goodness. I only saw a small bit where he said, mai Prerna ko chahne laga hu aur mai unhe haasil karke hi rahunga something of that sort and I was like - kab, bhai, kab? 😆  And what's this haasil karlunga bullshit? Was Anurag any less that Bajaj is also being fed the same sick dialogues? I am not exaggerating a bit - this show has nothing good to offer. Not even entertainment.  Sigh.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

i do agree that bajaj now do wants prerna for himself....but its not just for himself.....he doesnt want the family to break.....he wants her for himself and his daughter.....its not like cookie has gone out of picture. He knows importance of prerna in her life and thus never wish to see them separated as well.

I haven't really watched the last couple of episodes so I am not sure if I should really be talking here but I don't agree with this he wants Pre because he doesn't want his family to break. The bit where he says he loves Pre and he would get her sounds clearly gives off obsessive vibes and I didn't really expect them from him. I personally feel this is more about him than Cookie and the tactics that he is playing to get Pre isn't appreciable either. This is no good thing. Once she comes to know, it would obviously be the end of the game and them. 🤔

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

I haven't really watched the last couple of episodes so I am not sure if I should really be talking here but I don't agree with this he wants Pre because he doesn't want his family to break. The bit where he says he loves Pre and he would get her sounds clearly gives off obsessive vibes and I didn't really expect them from him. I personally feel this is more about him than Cookie and the tactics that he is playing to get Pre isn't appreciable either. This is no good thing. Once she comes to know, it would obviously be the end of the game and them. 🤔