Grow Up! - Aa Jao Saarey - Page 15

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I agree with Nimbu.. Micky Mini equation is actually significantly similar to Babita Hanuman.. hell even their scenes were shown in parallel a lot of times

Why on Earth Mini thinks her mother is liberal I cannot fathom.. when has she not behaved like a typical traditional Desi mom?

And when did Khuranas become so liberal?

It's great that Preet trusts Micky and Mini to this extent and Babita should not have blasted Mini in their presence.. but her fears are not unfounded... They have base.. yes.. she went overboard in her desperation like Mini did while whitewashing Khuranas but she is not completely off the mark

The show has been bitten by TRP bug.. isse ab koi nahi bacha sakta

Babita could have just talked in private and explained that maintain your respectful distance to not get it all jumbled up in future and it’s better for all parties involved.

But as you said. TRP ka chakkar Babu bhaiya TRP ka chakkar. 😆

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Babita could have just talked in private and explained that maintain your respectful distance to not get it all jumbled up in future and it’s better for all parties involved.

But as you said. TRP ka chakkar Babu bhaiya TRP ka chakkar. 😆

I think they missed a scene or something.. cuz Babita's anger made no sense whatsoever.. how did she go from I trust Mini to does Mini wanting to become Meeta in a short while? What even caused this outburst..

Like Babita's outburst at wedding actually had a reason.. Yahan tou kuch tuk hi nahi tha.. if this scene had happened directly after Kammo's taunt tab bhi understandable tha but this one was so misplaced

I am curious to see how Hanuman will react to Mini's anology.. I know he would be angry at Babita for the slap but what would be his reaction to Mini

Lastly and for the upteenth time, in logo ne parhna nahi hai?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Lmao, so my thoughts are turning out to be a lot longer than expected. Meherbani kar ke, par lena. 😂🙏🏼

Did you forget to write it here? 😆

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Did you forget to write it here? 😆

Loll, no. I'm still typing it up. I just got to the point where HS reached Khatri's office.

Another problem here seems to be that Mini seems to have made up her mind that Babita is naive and childish and her opinions are merely tantrums which she can correct with her outbursts and shouting.. she is not trying to understand Babita's POV and is firmly latched onto the belief that Babita is wrong and needs correction as a child.. Babita's points are not always off base but Mini seems to have disregarded that possiblity..

Babita is just too much. This show is becoming unbearable because of her😡 Every time Mini Says something sensible she gets slapped by Babita. Aisi ma hone se to na hona hi accha tha. Mini is better off without babita. Rishte ki balance Nahi banti kabhi Babita ki waja se. Ugh, I hate this character!!!

When the show first started I was sympathetic towards Babita because it seemed like she loved her daughter dearly. But as the show developed it became clear that the adult in the mother-daughter relationship was the teenage daughter. Mini has been extremely unlucky in the parental department. A abusive crook for a dad, and an overly dependent (to the point of selfishness) and possessive mother.

Mini being a strong support system for her mother is one thing but having her worry about their financial situation and wellbeing is too much for a 16/17 year old. It was wrong of Babita to have burdened her child with her adult problems.

Also, Babita putting her daughter in the position where Mini feels like she is losing her grandparents is a terrible thing to do - and yes is selfish. Whatever, Babita's relationship with her in-laws she has no business influencing Mini's perception of them. Mini deserves the freedom to make up her own mind about her family without being poisoned against them or being forced to take sides.

With regards to yesterday's kerfuffle, Babita was wrong on so many levels:

1. She chose to question her daughter based on the words of a known troublemakers. If tomorrow Mini and she have a trust deficit - Babita will be solely responsible for its demise.

2. She embarrassed her child in front of third parties - if she was truly worried about Mini's behaviour the appropriate way to have gone about it would have been to take her daughter aside and spoken to her privately about her concerns. That includes listening to what her daughter has to say about those concerns.

3. She essentially called her child a woman with loose morals - a cheat. Based on that statement alone Babita would deserve to lose any relationship she has with Mini.

Having friends who are boys, hugging them, and having a close friendly relationship with them doesn't make their relationship inappropriate. And at any rate if there was a fear that it was, there were better ways of handing it.

Parents don't deserve respect just because they gave birth to us. Respect is a two way street - one has to give respect to earn it. Babita in many ways has perpetrated emotional abuse against her daughter. That's not to say that Mini has no faults - but she is a child (teenager). She has to be taught boundaries, and be given a safe to fail space where she can express herself and her understanding of the world - where her views could be challenged by loving and understanding parents. She is at an age where she can be reasoned with - but for that Babita needs to respect her daughter as person with thoughts, feelings and opinions. Honestly, HS does a better job parenting Mini than Babita at this point.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, no. I'm still typing it up. I just got to the point where HS reached Khatri's office.

I told you guys Irfaan was at Khatri's 😂 BTW why does it say khatri and sons on the banner?

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

- Starts with NB and Babita talking. Babita says how can Kammo say so for my daughter and I trust her. NB says good. Mini wont hide anything from you.

- Ruksana calls and asks her to come to Khatri’s office. NB asks Babita to call Hanuman and ask him to come there directly.

- Khatri’s office Irfan says I have my share in the house and I will sell it. NB says she won’t let him. Hanuman and Babita tries to explain it to him, Irfan says don’t interfere in our family matter. and I will do a court case. NB says ok I will fight it.

- at NB’s house - she hugs Imran and cries. Hanuman consoles her. She asks him to find a nice lawyer and she will fight this one like she fought other battles.

- Babita enters Haveli fuming (total disconnect here coz at NB she was calm, LOL) she thinks over Kammo’s words from yesterday and NB’s words about how she failed as Mother.

- sees Mini, Micky and Preet running around. Mini catches micky by collar and have a flashback of her catching Hanuman on his shoulder. Blasts Mini about coming in between Preet and Micky. Asks her does she wanna be Meeta?

- Preet intervenes and explains how good friends Mini and Micky are. She says I have no issue and i trust them both. Preet - Micky leaves.

Precap - Mini says You and Hanuman Uncle were friends and fell in love, I and Micky are not confused. That won’t happen with us. Babita slaps Mini.

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Trying to watch now, kids willing

Originally posted by: _Reka_

I told you guys Irfaan was at Khatri's 😂 BTW why does it say khatri and sons on the banner?

Maybe it's a family business?