Arhi SS: WITHERED!! (T#6) New Thread Link pg 1 - Page 52

Originally posted by: Ecrivain

Hey, just close all browsers and clear all history and login again.

Thank you. I will do that.

Originally posted by: Aishu136

Thanks N

I miss you, blog, Gauri, EC, raji and Kris and readers, discussion, comments....

I have been wanting to come online for so long, but couldn't and see the day I did happened to be the day you updated and I resed like before..

That actually made my day!

You have no idea, how much you were missed.

We all missed you every day and with each update.

Its more like our virtual family. 🤗

Love you so much.

Originally posted by: Aishu136

Me

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Hi N & my dear sweeties,

I can't tell you how much your warm welcomes mean to me!

You guys didn't just talk to me and reach out to me for namesake but meant every words told!

Seriously you guys are virtual family to me, I can't believe I have such lovely people in my life.

I'm sorry I took a long time to reply/respond/talk to you guys but I was waiting to get things back to normal which has not happened still but understood that things could never get back in future.

I love my dad and he loved me the more or at least that's what I thought till he left me. I'm someone who would always expect the worst in every situation hence when something bad happens, it wouldn't affect me that much.. But this is like life shattering incident, which I can say one can never be prepared for it.. Especially when I and dad planned up so much like what to do with the maturity amount we were suppose to receive from his life insurance just 20 days after his demise, How to buy a new car, how to start a new business with a plan he got by seeing his friend, how we should close some loans and mainly how to celebrate Krishav's birthday which was 15 days after his demise.

He was suppose to be with us to get the LiC premium matured amount, to celebrate Krishav's birthday, to come with hundred business plans, to cook for us, to take care of us, to help us, to scold us, just be with us and live with us..

My parents never really had their own life but only struggled to give us a good life. My father was so happy during my sister's marriage and we have a big photo of us during my sister's marriage. Now there is always gonna be an empty space where he should be..

My father is a kind and good hearted person that he will forgive anyone and everyone including the one who used to betray him and I used to tell him he shouldn't be that way, one should be smart to survive in this cruel world. He never listened to me and may be that's why God took him soon..

I'm sorry i was actually not planning to write all the above but want to say, he is someone who believes in living the life in present and not to worry much about future and I have a contrasting theory that one should always think about future and give more importance to future and plan up your life hence we both always had difference of opinion. But strangely, For past few months, I saw my father was changing and starting understanding my ideology and behaved like me and I was actually proud of that. But now I realized how wrong I was, if only I was like him or if only I listened to him or if only for a change I accepted his idealogy, may be I would have actually lived the present life with him.. Would have had moments to cherish.. Would have done things I'm supposed to as a daughter to a father.. How I would have enjoyed present moments with him rather planning for the uncertain future where he is not there..

My mother used to say, she suffered so much in her early life and after marriage her life with my father came as a blessing to her, she actually lived her life according to her likes after her marriage only so she used to tell us her daughters to suffer in our house so that we can lead a happy life in our husband's place. I used to be fight with her saying no when we all had suffered in our first half of our life then we all are entitled to live a happy life in our second half and we don't want that in our husband's place but with our parents.. I was actually convinced with her theory half like a person who suffered first half of his life will lead a happy life in his second half and that's how a life should be balanced right? So I was so sure that nothing will happen to my parents because we all are entitled to a happy life to call it a end!!

My father was such a strong person, he has never wasted or disrepected food, believes in God, done good deeds, never really cared about himself, lived his life only taking care of others, he never really used to fall sick, he didn't have any health issues at all.. Hence I was so confident that he is yet to live his life where he will only think about himself and enjoy to compensate the suffered he had but life is definitely not what we think, I never ever dreamt my father would leave us so soon and the worst part is even he didn't think. He had so much planned up till next year and we were supposed to visit a temple but the very next day he left us all alone..

All I'm saying is never take life so easily, we think we know something, we have understood life but certain things nothing can stop and nobody can prevent which is death so easy for the person who leaves us but very difficult for people to accept it and live with it. I still remember days after his demise when I wake up, I would just go and sit on the diwan wait for my father to come with morning coffee for me which he used to give me and then suddenly see his photo to realize he will never come..

This may look like something which many would have told and too clinge but the truth is it's painful, damn painful especially when you could have done so much but did not because you thought you have whole life to take care of them but don't spend enough time with them..

Parents are someone who bought us to this world, who we should take utmost care and respect but we miss that out in busy lives and cry over it after they leave us. It's more painful for me because I had it all planned for my parents in future but missed to live with them in present.

So please dreaming is good, living your life to achieve your goal is good, living your life is good but never miss to give your time to your parents..

I'm so sorry this came up so long..

N, Gauri, EC, Raji,Kris - thank you for your support and love❤😘 I never thought that we will be like this but you guys are real and such lovely ones!

I have to apologize to Gayathri, you wanted to talk to me, but believe me I really didn't have time to even text you. I'm sorry Gayathri, if you are reading this, please accept my apologies..

And lastly, most importantly, i just want to say you my dear sweeties are such sweethearts and I'm lucky to have you!!

I missed being here, running to catch first spot, reading the update, commenting, trying to speculate and crazy discussions..

I so want to be here like before, I dunno I simply don't know if I could be the same I don't think I could be back being the same. Though I can't say I have come back as same but all I can say is that I can't leave N... Just gimme some time, will be back!!

Life, as such, is extremely unpredictable and unfair. By no means its easy and all rosy.

But, when it gives you difficulties, it gives you the requisite strength to deal with it. For the Almighty, only tests people whom He loves the most. 🤗

Pls dont ever apologies to vent out your emotions and suppressed feelings, here or anywhere. You are human and you have every right to feel hurt. But more than that, you are a great daughter to your father and I am sure he will be proud of you, whenever he will look down at you and smile.

And never forget, that he is always with you, by your side, as the most twinkling star in heaven above.

Stay strong and stay blessed. 🤗

Originally posted by: corie

I don't know why I can't go to my inbox or like any story.Loving the story so far. Arnav is being too tough headed. He is going to be so hurt on so many front. First his truth about his mom is far from the truth, two his sister and his friend relationship and also his friend Shyam was only using him to destroy his stepfather and mother

Hey

IF has lot of issues, atm. Some times my inbox is stuck too.

Yes, Arnav is on the edge of a cliff and will be pushed down badly.

But he will rise like a phoenix

Originally posted by: Savera84

Here is my comment for this chapter. Sorry, copy pasted from Blog.

AnVi: Their friendship is blossoming. Amidst all the planning, plotting, treachery,apprehensions and misunderstandings I am not sure where this leads them to. If they end up as a unit, I am all up for it.

Payal: Payal dislike her parents because, she found out that she was an unwanted child. Even though her parents and biological brother loved her and pampered her, that feeling of un-wantedness is not going to leave her anytime soon. On top of that the brief time Arnav stayed at their house, she got attached to him. I am not sure why Arnav interacted with a 7 year old girl. Was it the cuteness or innocence which attracted him or was he at any stage wanted a younger sibling from his parents? He continued loving her and became an integral part in her life. So, I understand her support for Arnav.

Aman: I am still not sure about Aman’s true intentions. Is he showing off to Khushi that he knows more about Arnav or he can control Arnav? I know he is Arnav’s best friend since childhood. Maybe he is tad bit older than Arnav too. Now Khushi is in Arnav’s life and they are two sides of one coin. Without one, the other has no value. Where Khushi is concerned, Aman needs to back off a bit, is my opinion.

Aakash: OK, Shashi wanted Arnav to be on board as a sleeping partner. His intention was noble. They agreed to Arnav’s proposal and madePayal the sleeping partner instead. All is good. Even though Aakash became a pillar of support for Manohar, Manohar loved Arnav a bit more because of his inability in making Arnav a part of his family after Aarti’s demise. As kids grow older, parents need to treat them as their equals and discuss or confess stuff to unburden themselves and clear the misunderstandings. I guess Manohar failed to do that with Aakash.

Khushi: So much is happening in her life. Marriage to a womanizer based on gratitude, finding Aakash’s feelings when she has decided to move on and give a chance to her marriage and her husband (she was brought back to cross roads with Akash’s statement), her loyalty for Manohar and budding understanding and love for Arnav, secrets springing on her involving her husband’s past, her mentor’s selfishness, her sister-in-law’s present, her confusion about Shyam and Aman’s true intentions and her guilt for keeping couple of secrets from her husband. I am not sure whether she is privy of Viraj’s involvement.

Arnav: Whatever Manohar felt for Aarti, Aarti must have felt the same. Even though she told Manohar to go back to his family, she herself was not happy to stay away from Manohar. Hence the crying alone hiding from Arnav. I guess Arnav misunderstood the whole equation. The divorce between Priya and Manohar must be bitter and Aarti and Arnav must have been dragged into news. Later, Aarti put all her efforts into building KAS ignoring (I mean paying less attention to) Arnav. That made Arnav even more unhappy with Manohar. The final straw was Aarti’s accidental death. We can’t blame Arnav. There is no one to guide him or support him. He did get some support later, but the supporters have wrong intentions leading him to his destruction dragging Khushi along with him.

Wonderful chapter N. Each chapter is a revelation leaving some clues for the next chapter.

Cheers…….

That was a lovely summation, Raji

Manohar- Actually Manohar went back to Priya when she was pregnant with Payal and Aarti sent him away, but he came back to Aarti later. Manohar failed on many accounts and there is only so much one can do

Khushi- She is sorted professionally but not personally and that will take a toll on her.
She hasn’t seen the real faces of everyone too

Aman- Aman is true to Arnav but he is just not fond of Khushi

Payal- It was the innocence and he was big enough to understand that Payal was unwanted

AnVi- Yes they are like a breath of fresh air waiting to spread their wings and fly away

Originally posted by: chinnulu

Read and commented on the blog

Eager for the next one

Thanks for the PM

Thank you, C

Read and reverted on the blog.

Originally posted by: rockingsoni

Akash is going to come at Arnav now!!

I don't how that would go..How would Khushi take it!!

Arnav's story to Khushi confused me a little. I thought Mr Kapoor went back to Priya after Aarti's death, but here Arnav says that he saw his mother crying herself to sleep.....

Loved that Arshi are at least speaking to each other and Khushi is trying to give their relationship some time...

I liked the way Khushi gave Aman a befitting reply. It was bang on.. I am concerned though, that when Arnav come to know about Payal and Aman would he blame Khushi for keeping it from him!!

Hi there

Actually Manohar went back to Priya, when she was pregnant with Payal.

And he divorced Priya and married Aarti, when he realised that he was leading an unhappy life.

Originally posted by: Aishu136

Hi Raji,

I know right, I actually didn't read the title clearly but just went to the last page and resed and after my comment is posted only did I see that N has updated and I resed like the usual.. It was just like a good old times..

It will always be the same for you, my dear

Originally posted by: Ecrivain

Very nice comment, Raji ji 👏

Now, I loved what you said about Manohar, that while his love for Arnav is justified, he failed Akash as a father. And somewhere failed, Priya and Aarti too.

As for Khushi, yes she is at crossroads. But that said, she has a tendency to land herself up in trouble, and I am assuming, someone will take advantage of that. 🤢

Khushi is not naive, she is oblivious to what is happening around her.

Originally posted by: TwilightStar_JP

No, Arshi themselves don't stand on a proper equation as of yet, if you ask me. Like I mentioned in my comment and Arnav's action isn't helping him either. She still says she wouldn't chose a partner like Arnav which means he's done nothing to prove he's a husband material. She is with him yes, and won't blindly pick side with Mr. Kapoor but, she won't just go behind Arnav either. So I feel a third party isn't what is causing the distance, I mean they have a lot to reconcile and connect on before a third party comes in between to brew new beans.

Am I making sense? 😋🤔

Yes, you are making perfect sense, JP.

Tbh, Arhi's relationship is very hollow, atm. And when I say it, I mean, even in physical terms. There is a difference between making love, and having sex.

That said, no third party but they themselves will have to help each other, and wither the storm.