Grow Up! - Aa Jao Saarey - Page 4

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Is that only me who felt the episode was shown in different peices that too without flow....

I mean Babita and NB discussion then khatri office scene then NB house and there all were emotional and then suddenly babes in Havel that too in a very angry mood... I mean sad. Mood so ek second me angry mood pe aa gayi. And she was re calling NB dialogue also dint remember exactly....

Exactly they just wanted to push mini babes scene to end of episode .Theu must have shot babes returning home fuming with anger listening kammo words .Also in one segment she was thinking of only kammao not naemb but they put nb Irfan scene first just to push the scene to the end ...game of trps

Originally posted by: tantal

Main door open, friends and grandparents in attendance and a mom is accusing her teenage daughter of being a cheater (or preparing for cheating on her best friend). This just seems so contrived and classless and uncultivated.. not something I associate PB with. Why cant Babita speak her mind to Kammo and not take it out on Minnie out of pentup frustrations and anger?

Any mother would feel like that! There are hardly any mothers who cannot tolerate such sensitive things being spoken by someone. It is an oblivious reaction from Babita's side. She would react like that, seeing her daughter getting close to a boy, bringing him stay overnight at home, even when he has his girlfriend! Why should we let other people talk bad about us? If not good, we shouldn't give others a chance to point fingers at us! And in this log kya kahenge does not come into picture. Because, even close relatives would talk like this!!!

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

And, please dont keep justifying Mini's actions right! After a point, all that 'frankness' and 'vengeance' becomes totally abnormal. First of all, having a jawan ladka at your house would be shocking for any mother! No matter how much your mom trusts you, getting a young boy home for a night, is not digestible at all for any parent! I would think 100 times before taking such a step! So it is obvious that Babita would think like that! And there was no need to get Hanita into this, because Mini has no rights to tell her mother whom to love and whom not to. Mini needs to focus on her life, not shifting from her track. I dont know, why is everyone telling what Mini has told is 100% authentic! Just put yourself in Babita's shoes!!!

Edit: Not just Babita, but any parent. Hanuman is extremely lenient, and liberal. He is allowing his Veer Balika to do anything asing as it would affect his wife. But, any parent in real, will not tolerate such a step taken by their daughter. At least, in my family, such things never happen.

Then she should have just forbidden Mickey to stay over if she had such apprehensions. Problem with Babita is that she gets insulted by someone and takes it out on another, without paying heed to the circumstances or surroundings. But to accuse your daughter of being a cheater and that too on her best friend? How does one justify that. How is she being different from kammo or Khatri?

Babita misunderstanding Micky and Mini's equation is not surprising.. her out urst though wrong is not out of place.. this is not about log kia kahenge but more about ap logo ko kia impression de rahe ho.. Mini Micky do need to have some boundaries.. but Babita bringing in Meeta was wrong

But Mini bringing in Hanita's relationship was terrible

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

And, please dont keep justifying Mini's actions right! After a point, all that 'frankness' and 'vengeance' becomes totally abnormal. First of all, having a jawan ladka at your house would be shocking for any mother! No matter how much your mom trusts you, getting a young boy home for a night, is not digestible at all for any parent! I would think 100 times before taking such a step! So it is obvious that Babita would think like that! And there was no need to get Hanita into this, because Mini has no rights to tell her mother whom to love and whom not to. Mini needs to focus on her life, not shifting from her track. I dont know, why is everyone telling what Mini has told is 100% authentic! Just put yourself in Babita's shoes!!!

Edit: Not just Babita, but any parent. Hanuman is extremely lenient, and liberal. He is allowing his Veer Balika to do anything asing as it would affect his wife. But, any parent in real, will not tolerate such a step taken by their daughter. At least, in my family, such things never happen.

what are we even talking about

please watch the episode or at least read written update. here a mother is questioning a girls friendship and character in front of her friends and grand parents just because she feels that like hers and Hs friendship converted into love her daughters will too. so mini is wrong in trying to make her understand every friendship need not turn to love and she and mickey were sure of their feelings. so that is wrong. she is not questioning Babita HS love she is only telling hers and mickey friendship is different

Originally posted by: tantal

Then she should have just forbidden Mickey to stay over if she had such apprehensions. Problem with Babita is that she gets insulted by someone and takes it out on another, without paying heed to the circumstances or surroundings. But to accuse your daughter of being a cheater and that too on her best friend? How does one justify that. How is she being different from kammo or Khatri?

What about Mini calling Babita selfish? How would you justify that?

I agree that she shouldn't have spoken like that to Dadu and Biji, but until when will she keep her past tied to her present. She needs to let go of that knot, to live a peaceful life! Similarly, how can Babita just forbid Mickey after he has come into the house? I dont get it, why would she tell that? Did her daughter give her a chance? It's like, you have done something without your parent's consent and then tell them, you have done it! When the question of not seeking permission arises, how can she forbid? Where would Mickey go then?

Originally posted by: tantal

Then she should have just forbidden Mickey to stay over if she had such apprehensions. Problem with Babita is that she gets insulted by someone and takes it out on another, without paying heed to the circumstances or surroundings. But to accuse your daughter of being a cheater and that too on her best friend? How does one justify that. How is she being different from kammo or Khatri?

How is Mini being different from Lovely?

That said, Babita wanted to but Hanuman stopped her.. Babita never allowed Micky. It was Hanuman and Mini who agreed with it not Babita

Babita lashing out at Mini was not only because of Kammo.. She was already upset and Kammo just aggravated it..

Originally posted by: naq5

what are we even talking about

please watch the episode or at least read written update. here a mother is questioning a girls friendship and character in front of her friends and grand parents just because she feels that like hers and Hs friendship converted into love her daughters will too. so mini is wrong in trying to make her understand every friendship need not turn to love and she and mickey were sure of their feelings. so that is wrong. she is not questioning Babita HS love she is only telling hers and mickey friendship is different

That's the precap. What was the need to tell that she is not going to take this relationship to the level like HS and Babita did? Isn't that taunting?

It's not at all justifiable! Mini crossed all her limits today! Inheriting all of her habita from her Lovely Bua. If she didn't want this to happen, then why did she she get Babita and Hanuman married???

Watched the episode.... I did not feel that babita was any wrong today.... Yes she shdnt have compared to meeta but that's what her deep down fear spoke looking at the equations...

And yes it was a bit weird for mini to state an example of Hanita to explain her friendship with Micky... Guess that's why Hanuman will step in btw this mother daughter duo and would be upset....

Can we stop bashing M based on Precap let’s first see Monday’s episode and then react