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Originally posted by: magicalM

India mein 20 saal pehle divorce ek bahut shaming factor the lekin ab dheere dheere logo ki samaj aaraha hai. Ek aise insaan ke saath ghut ghut kar koi nahi ji sakta. Its better to remain single than a toxic relationship. And i have seen in certain cases 2nd marriages also works very well.

Shaadi bahut soch samaj kar karni chahiye , dekhna chahiye ki aap us insaan ke saath reh sakte ho ya nahi. Prerna ka ek dialogue yaad aaraha hai jab wo Switzerland mein thi to use laga ek dum se uska dum ghut raha hai wo situation aani hi nahi chahiye. Kisi ke pressure mein aake saadi nahi karni chahiye. Now dont tell me this is India sanskaar all that. Agr ek baar marriage ho jaye to marte dum tak apni pati ki seva karo chahe wo kaisa ho.

Our Parents generation was forced o stay together for Society, Kids and financial security.. Now with women being financially secure.. tide has been changing slowly.. and thats why we cant make Divorce as a shaming factor..

Divorce happens.. no one gets married thinking they are going to divorce their significant other.. but if that is happening then support them.. you dont know what happened in that relation that they want to separate...

People don't understand the pain people carry when they get divorced..

@shaadi doing soch samajhake.. I am with you... Prerna was not drunk when she made the choice.. It was not a tattoo.. it was a marriage.. she should have chosen with better understanding of situation.. she chose.. and as I can see it.. she wants to give that marriage a decent chance..

@swiss track.. how Far P and RB have come??? From not touching to doing Arti together.. they do have trust and respect between their relationship.. she has freedom to think/love her ex even being married.. no one has stopped her to do whatever she wants ( from sending her own husband to jail to caring for dying Ex)

i will repeat again.. Marriage works if you have trust and understanding.. if you dont have that it wont work.. Prerna looked like she wanted to give the marriage a genuine chance but her lover is not making it easy for her.. It doesn't have any Indian sanskar in it.. its just an individual choice..

Originally posted by: _Seera_

Our Parents generation was forced o stay together for Society, Kids and financial security.. Now with women being financially secure.. tide has been changing slowly.. and thats why we cant make Divorce as a shaming factor..

Divorce happens.. no one gets married thinking they are going to divorce their significant other.. but if that is happening then support them.. you dont know what happened in that relation that they want to separate...

People don't understand the pain people carry when they get divorced..

One more thing is there if a couple is childless then divorce becomes easy but if child is involve then divorce proceeding are very tough and court also appoint many counsellors before granting divorce as then court want to secure a child's future. With a child a mother becomes quite helpless and morally be she breaks down as child cannot remain away from a father also.

Veena Sharma is voicing her personal opinion on who is better suited to marry her daughter. She thinking out loud her innermost thoughts. She has known Anurag his whole life. She knows how much Anurag and Prerna love each other. She feels they are better suited to each other than some older unknown man who arrived on the scene yesterday. She really doesn't know Bajaj. So it is an unfair question.

She is not a viewer with a birdseye view, but just a character in the show, who has limited knowledge of others.

But if she only knew about the deal, the blackmail, the real personality of Mr. Bajaj and how dangerous he is to her daughter, she would be screaming from the rooftops and attempting to kidnap Prerna and get her away from Mr. Bajaj!!! She wanted to break off AnuPre's wedding because she thought Mohini was nasty. Wait till she finds out what a psycho Mr. Bajaj is!

Wow! Ofcourse Bajaj is the kind of damad every mother prays for her daughter...

A mother can't have an opinion for her daughter's husband? Just coz one fine day, her daughter brings home a guy... A virtual stranger to her family... Saying hello folks meet my husband... The mother needs to approve of tht man and fell in awe of tht son in law? Really? Do all khatirdaari?

Veena didnt approve prerna's marriage and no one asked for her consent. If she had it in her, she wouldn't have allowed this bhayanak shaadi!

And she pleaded pre to not marry anu not coz she doubted anu's love for pre but coz she was unsure of pre's happiness around mohini. I am sure she wasn't looking for a bargain to trade her daughter's life in a deal or make her the sacrificial lamb!

Why shouldn't she love anu... Who has been courteous to them even before he started dating prerna. She have known him as a child. She have seen him and understood him. But alas she shud prefer a stranger! I never knew just praising one character over other can be so cruel that we question a mother's rights to hold an opinion over her own daughter and her life or call out on her coz she doesnt consent with her daughter's supposed "choice".

I am glad that veena's loyalties are not shifting with replacement of damad! Perhaps, someone should try buying those loyalties too 🤷‍♀

Originally posted by: Pinot

Veena Sharma who is voicing her personal opinion on who is better suited to marry her daughter. She thinking out loud her innermost feelings. She has known Anurag her whole life. She knows how much Anurag and Prerna love each other. She feels they are better suited to each other than some older unknown man who arrived on the scene yesterday. She really doesn't know Bajaj. So it is an unfair question.

She is not a viewer with a birdseye view, but just a character in the show, who has limited knowledge of others.

But if she only knew about the deal, the blackmail, the real personality of Mr. Bajaj and how dangerous he is to her daughter, she would be screaming from the rooftops and attempting to kidnap Prerna and get her away from Mr. Bajaj!!! She wanted to break off AnuPre's wedding because she thought Mohini was nasty. Wait till she finds out what a psycho Mr. Bajaj is!

No no now her daughter is married. Let her be... Whatever her husband is, a mother of a girl must praise her damad. Must she not start writing hymns for him already?

And when she finds abt deal... She shud still worship him! And accept it as her daugther's fate. Ladki ki maa hai after all!

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I am surprised(not) that this thread is still running. Now Veena is mentally retarded for not liking Lord Bajaj👏👏 👏

If Kuki was really the reason for marrying Pre it could easily have been an offer for the sake of his child. He wanted Pre only bec she was Anu’s fiancé and he saw her a possession to snatch away from Anu like many corporations he undercut. By his own admission he gets a thrill of ruining lives in business so it’s not a far stretch to say it’s a factor in personal life too. Kuki was the second reason to get himself off the hook to justify his marriage.

He cheapened his wife on their so called farce of a honeymoon saying he could find women for cheap. Now he can’t stop ogling her and gets hot under the collar that the man Pre loves won’t stop reminding her of their love or future they had dreamed of. He may be married to Pre but he can’t wipe her feelings for Anu from her heart. It’s only going to bring the worst in him. For a narcissistic man with a sense of entitlement that’s where he’s l8kely to go. Had he reflected on his own miserable past he wouldn’t be spreading so much misery around everywhere he goes.

Veena’s mother’s instinct sees Anu as the better man for Pre. She still doesn’t know the truth of Baj’s manipulations. He has used his own special child as a pawn for his selfishness. Once she gets wind of all of it she may tell Pre to dump Baj, rightfully so.

Sharma’s equal shameful family🤣 ungrateful now I wish bajaj thinks why did I even save this lady risking my life

Wasn’t she the one who said to her daughter don’t marry into this family etc and now she is saying ex is good 🤣 I tell you they are so used to getting abused insults slaps that they think those are good people but people like bajaj are taboo bad evil 🤪 she will get some reality check when times comes whi is better the so called saint basus or one and only Mr RB😎

When mother is like this what can you expect from the daughter? She has the nerve to say such stuff to her married daughter then she won’t even mind if prerna sleeps with her ex she will also defend that saying they are soul...mate 🤣🤢

I have never liked Veena's character in this season. She makes no sense to me.

Is Veena not entitled to have an opinion months after her daughter married a stranger? She doesn’t know the circumstances of the wedding yet. Baj, Pre’s husband changes colors like a lighted disco ball to suit his plans in the moment. He’d dump Pre in a heartbeat if he finds an alternate way to accomplish is twisted plans.

Given his history of ruining lives and getting a thrill from it, which mother would ever want such a vindictive remorseless damar for her daughter.

There are mothers who don’t mind letting their daughters marry a much older man with deep pockets to bail them out of their own challenging financial situation. But Veena is not one of them.

I m not at all surprised this thread is still running ...