2nd oct discussion. Aajao saare - Page 53

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I am not in support of hitting kids. No matter the age. I or my bro never got even a single pat and we both turned out fine. My mom is strictly against hitting kids. She would even stop other neighbor ladies if she ever saw anyone doing that. Very sensible to it!

Though Mini needs discipline pronto. She has point but she is rude and disrespectful lot of times. I think it’s the same in the slap segment. First Babes scolds her to focus on studies and she I guess retorts something serious which flares Babita. Still no support to slap.

Same here i dont agree to diciplining kids like this. HS has a better was of being strict. Babita just looses it and snaps. It is disrespectful to hit children. Ur also basically teaching them its ok to hit people. Which mini does a lot. She has to learn she cannot hit people in anger. There are other ways. And for that babita needs to stop hitting her in anger first.

I hope hs disciplines her regarding that and at the same time babita too for slapping mini

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I honestly don't know. Constantly doing her jee hazoori isn't going to cut it. I don't think he needs to something SUPER extra; just keep doing what he used to before. We all felt and saw the love he had for her then. If anything, show a little more faith in her and not let his emotions cloud his judgement.

Past trauma isn't gonna cut it anymore. HS' mother was abused and died as a result of it. Babita was also abused and look at what Minnie did to her. She made her believe that it was HER fault that it happened because she didn't say anything. Would she have said the same for HS' mom? That it was her fault that she died? Because she didn't speak up and say something? Would she blame HS because he failed to save her? I don't trust her to handle delicate matters like that because she doesn't have that kind of maturity in her.

Idk if she sees him as a hero anymore. Definitely as a really good man but dunno about hero. What does a hero even mean to her? What sort of qualities does someone need to have in order to mean that standard? Or did HS create that standard all by himself?

If Minnie wants HS as her father then it has to happen because SHE wants it. Not because she's doing him a favor or wants him to not feel about not having a daughter. It has to be genuine. I don't think she has forgiven him completely. That day her insecurity about the Haveli was resolved but she didn't address how she felt when he had accused her. Heck, she didn't have any dialogues so we don't really know what she was thinking. She was overwhelmed with emotions for sure, but about what, we don't know.

It's a heartbreaking idea but to some capacity HS needs to wrap his head around this. Babita does too, as a matter of fact. That's the truth about children unfortunately. At some time or another, they do go away and need the time and space to live out their own lives. But as long as the emotional intimacy is still there, then they should be fine. But if they become distant on that realm and just stop sharing things with one another, then that's just sad.

Exactly! Why is he being made the exception? Why is he the one who is being made to constantly prove himself? That silent treatment will be the best. He'll still be around but it'll make her consider what his place in her life actually is. And this time around, I don't want another back hug. It has to be something big from her side that solidifies what they mean to each other.

I am now wondering what the purpose was of them showing Minnie learning about Imarti and about HS' mother, other than to show her standing by him or understanding him better?

I do hope Minnie won't be insensitive to HS' childhood trauma. For that matter, maybe he shouldn't talk about that with her anymore.

It is indeed heartbreaking to think HS would have to come to terms with not being wanted as a father. I also feel that despite her wanting to be independent, Minnie is emotionally very dependent on family members, something she hasn't acknowledged. She does need Babita, here grandparents, etc. and as we saw the other day, whether she realizes it or not, HS is the reason for her smiles.

I just took step back to think about all this and realized that Minnie and HS are meant to be together. In what shape or form, time will tell, but unless the CVs completely destroy this bond, I don't see them separating forever. Also, I am quite sure that if something like that were to happen, Hanita's marriage would suffer too.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am now wondering what the purpose was of them showing Minnie learning about Imarti and about HS' mother, other than to show her standing by him or understanding him better?

I do hope Minnie won't be insensitive to HS' childhood trauma. For that matter, maybe he shouldn't talk about that with her anymore.

It is indeed heartbreaking to think HS would have to come to terms with not being wanted as a father. I also feel that despite her wanting to be independent, Minnie is emotionally very dependent on family members, something she hasn't acknowledged. She does need Babita, here grandparents, etc. and as we saw the other day, whether she realizes it or not, HS is the reason for her smiles.

I just took step back to think about all this and realized that Minnie and HS are meant to be together. In what shape or form, time will tell, but unless the CVs completely destroy this bond, I don't see them separating forever. Also, I am quite sure that if something like that were to happen, Hanita's marriage would suffer too.

If they are planning to. Separate Minni and HS then what's the point in showing so. Much of growth in their relationship....

U r right they were meant to be... It's destiny and I am pretty sure that writers won't go to an extent of spoiling such a beautiful relationship...

I know most of us are feeling that Minni lost trust in HS that's why she is not sharing her problems... But think na Now HS is all towards Babita he is in a mode haan ji only usse na ji bola hi nahi ja raha hai babita ko unless he is super angry... Then how could she expect that he will listen to her and most importantly after hanita marriage when HS said to stay away from Khuranas as Babita wants it... So of Minni conveys her worry she is not sure how will he react... But she dint know that getting khuranas ro haveli was his idea for Minni... But he dint tell her at all or they haven't shown any conversation purposefully... He is the same man who have supported Minni whenever she needed but now he have to think like a husband too...

Basically all three are struggling to get through these relationship dianamics....

Saw Ashnoor story... Baccha party shooting on a truck outdoors... Now what khichdi they r gonna cook🤔

Hey all , back after break here .. my problem with show is it's too much drama and negativity one after another which wasn't there usually ..there were light episodes in between.. Abhi toh even after going through so much in wedding..they haven't let them take breather and started new siyaapa already..

@Gur - More strength to you dear, I have been through depression as well..but it's more due to fact that I am over sensitive to my near and dear ones.. good thing is that I found good emotional support at home and with friends who have helped me always .. yes I understand this log kya kahege things.. sometime my parents get into that zone.. we take ages to realise that noone is actually talking about you while you care about what they will say all this while.. everyone is so busy and engrossed in their lives.. who gives a damn these days.. thus neighborhood talking like this on face in PB looks OTT.. yes ppl talk but that's more behind the back like gossip..

About Babita ,her character has been always shown dependent on HS or Minnie for any sensible action she takes..and again she goes to her inital stages of thinking..at times I can't relate to her.. and yes at times I can't handle Minnie's mahaanta.

OK I have just saw ashnoor IG story they are shooting out door.... They are gonna be in the trick or seems....

Donno kya pak raha hai....

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

OK I have just saw ashnoor IG story they are shooting out door.... They are gonna be in the trick or seems....

Donno kya pak raha hai....

Pind ja rahe hai kya?

Ya fir Mickey aur Preet bhag rahe hai and Mini is helping them? Hindi movie style. Eloping on Truck.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Pind ja rahe hai kya?

Ya fir Mickey aur Preet bhag rahe hai and Mini is helping them? Hindi movie style. Eloping on Truck.

Kya pata. MP were still pretty beat up from the accident.

Jo bhi hoga, Minnie ka hi chakkar lagra hai.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Pind ja rahe hai kya?

Ya fir Mickey aur Preet bhag rahe hai and Mini is helping them? Hindi movie style. Eloping on Truck.

Even I got a thought in the second one....

Donno what are CVS upto and now that leap. Siyappa donno kitna sach hai.... They are doing it like routine TV show style Now....

But some days back a no rush said the won't be any leap....

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am now wondering what the purpose was of them showing Minnie learning about Imarti and about HS' mother, other than to show her standing by him or understanding him better?

I do hope Minnie won't be insensitive to HS' childhood trauma. For that matter, maybe he shouldn't talk about that with her anymore.

It is indeed heartbreaking to think HS would have to come to terms with not being wanted as a father. I also feel that despite her wanting to be independent, Minnie is emotionally very dependent on family members, something she hasn't acknowledged. She does need Babita, here grandparents, etc. and as we saw the other day, whether she realizes it or not, HS is the reason for her smiles.

I just took step back to think about all this and realized that Minnie and HS are meant to be together. In what shape or form, time will tell, but unless the CVs completely destroy this bond, I don't see them separating forever. Also, I am quite sure that if something like that were to happen, Hanita's marriage would suffer too.

It was for them to bond. It's only because we had seen a solid foundation be built between them that the CD incident had such a profound effect on us. If they had still shown it without Hannie's basis, then it wouldn't have had that big of an impact. It also showed that no matter how solid their relationship appeared to be, it's not exceptional. It too is vulnerable and can fall victim to misunderstandings and emotional betrayals.

HS is keeping his mother aside from everyone. Both Babita & Minnie are too caught up in their own mess and with their fragile psyches, there is no way they'll be able to help him with his trauma. It's a shame really.

I think that's true for most people. No matter how independent we want to be, we still crave that familial connection.

The way the CVs are going, I wouldn't be surprised if they ruin them too. They may not separate forever, but I don't think their bond is going to shape up the way we had expected it to. Hanita's marriage will suffer for sure, that too for a myriad of reasons.