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Originally posted by: Janu75

Oh dear!Akash is going to strike at Arnav personally too...Prejudice is there one other sides..and I find both the sons are trying to save guard their respective moms...Let's see how far Arnav would succeed that his moms name be not maligned.Payal has stayed to true her step brother.

Yes, between Akash and Arnav, its always been the tug of war.

However, things will get ugly now.

Ok J, a quick question, do you listen to FM/ Radio actively? If yes, which channels?

Originally posted by: Janu75

Oh dear!Akash is going to strike at Arnav personally too...Prejudice is there one other sides..and I find both the sons are trying to save guard their respective moms...Let's see how far Arnav would succeed that his moms name be not maligned.Payal has stayed to true her step brother.

I know, cant believe Akash is coming all guns blazing on Arnav

N

I have read the chapter. Will post my comment soon.

But before that, I wanted to congratulate you for bringing us such lovely stories, all on your own. 👍🏼

No FB, no twitter, no people to spread word of mouth. Just sincere story telling and that's ALL. 👏

Love you N, keep going. God will pave the way for more success

This is one question which is intriguing topic of debate.

& This question also reflects what kind of open minded , understanding person you are in real life as well. Bravo N di 🙌🏻

So Now coming to the question, & before going to others thoughts, let me tell you my case ------

See Di , I live in India. A country where mostly all families consider a Virgin girl To be Necessary requirement.

You said having sex or no sex before marriage is purely Out of choice not a compulsion______

But here it's a very much compulsion .

In these so called, narrow minded socities & families, this is being instilled in our minds right from childhood that your virginity is the most important thing than anything else. You don't believe it but it's true , that some parent's even says that to their daughters , not to their Son's at all ...... die, if you lose your virginity before marriage or those monster parents kill their daughters with their own hands.

Such horrifying incidents occurs in many parts , especially in India.

& The same thing is not applicable to Men's. In our society , a man can sleep with multiple women , enjoys sexual pleasure before marriage & it's all ok. No one is going to raise a finger on him , asking him why you lose your virginity before marriage. No one , not at all. For them , men can do it & it's all fine , they glorify it but if the same a girl do , leave the outsiders , her family , her own parents will disregard her !

That's the double pathetic mindset of brown families which is downright horrible & wrong..

While I don't believe nor endorses this pathetic mentality. Having sex before or after marriage is purely based on one's consent. Judging a person on his/her virginity status is the most wrong way to judge. This is outright wrong & really needs to change today !!

But there are also some persons, who don't want to do it with anyone. Including me too. & It's not only about that we want to save ourselves for the special someone. No it's not entirely that.

It's also because, the surrounding we came, to an extent it's been instilled in us & also the Thoughts we hold as a person.

If I talk about my thinking , then I believe that sex/lovemaking isn't only an act of sexual pleasure. It's more than that. It is an deep connection of two people's heart & mind. I often wonder this that how could someone so easily do it with anyone ?

NO OFFENCE TO ANYONE ! We all are different so our thinking is also different , given that.

It's just what I think . For me , if I don't feel any sort of emotional attachment with the other , how could I do it ? I believe & consider , that Emotional attachment is must needed & necessary as well before proceeding the physical intimacy. I prefer to die without doing it than with someone where's there's no kind of emotional attachment !

The question you asked N di is very intriguing & it presents various Thoughts & perceptions as we are all different & so our thoughts as well.

But ........ The most important thing we should ALL remember that -RESPECT each other's Thoughts & LIVE & LET LIVE !

Love you di 😘❤️

Originally posted by: Anjali9988

This is one question which is intriguing topic of debate.

& This question also reflects what kind of open minded , understanding person you are in real life as well. Bravo N di 🙌🏻

So Now coming to the question, & before going to others thoughts, let me tell you my case ------

See Di , I live in India. A country where mostly all families consider a Virgin girl To be Necessary requirement.

You said having sex or no sex before marriage is purely Out of choice not a compulsion______

But here it's a very much compulsion .

In these so called, narrow minded socities & families, this is being instilled in our minds right from childhood that your virginity is the most important thing than anything else. You don't believe it but it's true , that some parent's even says that to their daughters , not to their Son's at all ...... die, if you lose your virginity before marriage or those monster parents kill their daughters with their own hands.

Such horrifying incidents occurs in many parts , especially in India.

& The same thing is not applicable to Men's. In our society , a man can sleep with multiple women , enjoys sexual pleasure before marriage & it's all ok. No one is going to raise a finger on him , asking him why you lose your virginity before marriage. No one , not at all. For them , men can do it & it's all fine , they glorify it but if the same a girl do , leave the outsiders , her family , her own parents will disregard her !

That's the double pathetic mindset of brown families which is downright horrible & wrong..

While I don't believe nor endorses this pathetic mentality. Having sex before or after marriage is purely based on one's consent. Judging a person on his/her virginity status is the most wrong way to judge. This is outright wrong & really needs to change today !!

But there are also some persons, who don't want to do it with anyone. Including me too. & It's not only about that we want to save ourselves for the special someone. No it's not entirely that.

It's also because, the surrounding we came, to an extent it's been instilled in us & also the Thoughts we hold as a person.

If I talk about my thinking , then I believe that sex/lovemaking isn't only an act of sexual pleasure. It's more than that. It is an deep connection of two people's heart & mind. I often wonder this that how could someone so easily do it with anyone ?

NO OFFENCE TO ANYONE ! We all are different so our thinking is also different , given that.

It's just what I think . For me , if I don't feel any sort of emotional attachment with the other , how could I do it ? I believe & consider , that Emotional attachment is must needed & necessary as well before proceeding the physical intimacy. I prefer to die without doing it than with someone where's there's no kind of emotional attachment !

The question you asked N di is very intriguing & it presents various Thoughts & perceptions as we are all different & so our thoughts as well.

But ........ The most important thing we should ALL remember that -RESPECT each other's Thoughts & LIVE & LET LIVE !

Love you di 😘❤️

Wow you have put it so beautifully 👏

Originally posted by: Fe-en-Dios

JP, you are too cute.

You have to comment after its posted. 😆

Ha ha. I was in the middle of switching my lecture hours. Saw the Email Notif and posted here quickly. And now no one can beat my speed :P

Cheers

Ps: I'm a lecturer , so couldn't read the update during college hours. Now off to it. Cya.

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Updated on page 56 💃💃

Originally posted by: Anjali9988

This is one question which is intriguing topic of debate.

& This question also reflects what kind of open minded , understanding person you are in real life as well. Bravo N di 🙌🏻

So Now coming to the question, & before going to others thoughts, let me tell you my case ------

See Di , I live in India. A country where mostly all families consider a Virgin girl To be Necessary requirement.

You said having sex or no sex before marriage is purely Out of choice not a compulsion______

But here it's a very much compulsion .

In these so called, narrow minded socities & families, this is being instilled in our minds right from childhood that your virginity is the most important thing than anything else. You don't believe it but it's true , that some parent's even says that to their daughters , not to their Son's at all ...... die, if you lose your virginity before marriage or those monster parents kill their daughters with their own hands.

Such horrifying incidents occurs in many parts , especially in India.

& The same thing is not applicable to Men's. In our society , a man can sleep with multiple women , enjoys sexual pleasure before marriage & it's all ok. No one is going to raise a finger on him , asking him why you lose your virginity before marriage. No one , not at all. For them , men can do it & it's all fine , they glorify it but if the same a girl do , leave the outsiders , her family , her own parents will disregard her !

That's the double pathetic mindset of brown families which is downright horrible & wrong..

While I don't believe nor endorses this pathetic mentality. Having sex before or after marriage is purely based on one's consent. Judging a person on his/her virginity status is the most wrong way to judge. This is outright wrong & really needs to change today !!

But there are also some persons, who don't want to do it with anyone. Including me too. & It's not only about that we want to save ourselves for the special someone. No it's not entirely that.

It's also because, the surrounding we came, to an extent it's been instilled in us & also the Thoughts we hold as a person.

If I talk about my thinking , then I believe that sex/lovemaking isn't only an act of sexual pleasure. It's more than that. It is an deep connection of two people's heart & mind. I often wonder this that how could someone so easily do it with anyone ?

NO OFFENCE TO ANYONE ! We all are different so our thinking is also different , given that.

It's just what I think . For me , if I don't feel any sort of emotional attachment with the other , how could I do it ? I believe & consider , that Emotional attachment is must needed & necessary as well before proceeding the physical intimacy. I prefer to die without doing it than with someone where's there's no kind of emotional attachment !

The question you asked N di is very intriguing & it presents various Thoughts & perceptions as we are all different & so our thoughts as well.

But ........ The most important thing we should ALL remember that -RESPECT each other's Thoughts & LIVE & LET LIVE !

Love you di 😘❤️

Wonderful comment Anju. Loved reading your thoughts.

Cheers......

Aww ! I'm glad that you like reading my comments 🙈. All learning from you , my wonderful di's 🤗. Your words & love , means a lot to me di.

Love you so so much di 😘 .

❤️🤗 Love ~ Hameshaa 😘

Originally posted by: Savera84

Wonderful comment Anju. Loved reading your thoughts.

Cheers......

Aww ! I'm glad that you like reading my comments 🙈. All learning from you , my wonderful di's 🤗. Your words & love , means a lot to me di.

Love you so so much di 😘