Originally posted by: inlieu
I know his words hurt her, but did he really lose that place so easily? Was it that simple for her?
This means that they can never be father-daughter. She doesn't share things about herself with him anymore, does she? How will he ever bridge this gap? Woh to karte karte thak jayega, andar se khaali ho jayega.
I am now thinking about Beeji's words in a different way. Seen from Minnie's perspective, if indeed she considered HS her real father (whatever that means) his words would not have affected her to the extent that she stops trusting him completely or loses respect for him.
He will have to make a major sacrifice and only then Minnie will realize his worth.
He lost her trust. Yes he apologized, but I don't think he got that trust back. Whatever relationship they had, whatever closeness they shared, it's just not there anymore.
I don't know. Ashok did A LOT of shit to her that wasn't right and he's her real father. Despite the fact that he was MIA for about 17 years, his actions still shook her to the core and affected her on a really deep level.
I see it as being the same with HS. When it comes to her parents, Minnie doesn't see them in the same way society is conditioned to. Firstly, she calls her mother Babes and has more of a friend/friend rishta rather than a mother-daughter. Moreover, Minnie's been more of a mother to Babes as well. She never had a baap-beti rishta either so she doesn't really have a basis to go off on. Yes, she has seen father figures in her life, but they're figures. They're not really her dad. And HS has always been an uncle to her. Yes, he has gone above and beyond than what a father does, but is that the same for her? She has referred to herself as his beti many times and may have even begun to believe in it, but the CD incident may have made her think otherwise. Maybe she doesn't need a father in her life. Maybe she's just okay with having HS as her Hanuman Uncle - her guide, her mentor, her confidante.
And I really don't think it's fair that HS needs to constantly be making sacrifices to prove his love. It gives me the impression like his love is being cheapened. It's the same thing with Babita. Why does he need to constantly prove his love for her? Either she trusts him and goes ahead with the relationship or not. If Minnie doesn't want a dad, then make that loud and clear so that he doesn't waste his life constantly trying to prove himself to her.