Big Boss Tamil Season 3 - Finale Week 15 Discussion Thread - Page 82

enga poyi muttikkuradhu nu theriyala 🤢

Originally posted by: lankan121

Of course ramya.

Kavin andha 5 lakhs offer ah eduthittu poittaa neenga avan pic ah DP yaa show mudiyura varaikkum vaippen nu sonneenga.. remember ? 😃

juz kidding.. apparam marubadiyum poida poreenga 😆

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

Kavin andha 5 lakhs offer ah eduthittu poittaa neenga avan pic ah DP yaa show mudiyura varaikkum vaippen nu sonneenga.. remember ? 😃

juz kidding.. apparam marubadiyum poida poreenga 😆

Lol no1 took the challenge with me yaar..but I'll do it post his pic I'll screenshot it and change it as my dp. 5 days thaanai no problem. All my post against kavin I guess this is revenge lol .

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

Kavin andha 5 lakhs offer ah eduthittu poittaa neenga avan pic ah DP yaa show mudiyura varaikkum vaippen nu sonneenga.. remember ? 😃

juz kidding.. apparam marubadiyum poida poreenga 😆

Ramya kusumbu 😆

But yarum bet avanga kita othukala nu nenaikuren. Irunthalum veikallam.

But how can we say the men didn’t turn them down? Everyone in the house said Mugen initially itself told Abhi he has a GF outside and he can’t reciprocate to her. The problem is both the women (Sherin and Abhi) made it seem like it’s their right to love the other person one sided and they guys are wrong for keeping on clarifying they don’t feel the same way. Also both of the women created a scene (one even went to suicidal point) when Tharshan/Mugen didn’t acknowledge them the say way they felt. So perhaps the guys felt obliged to be kind to them as well. Some of those factors could have gone out in the editing...

In season 1 we clearly witnessed some contestants advising Aarav not to cut out Oviya and be close with her even if he doesn’t feel the same way. It could have very well happened here too. Losliya liked Kavin from the beginning and returned his attention towards her. The same is not true for Tharshan and Mugen so I don’t think it’s fair to compare the situations.

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Tarshan turned down Meera, Kavin turned down Abhirami. That's what turning down should be.

That way Tarshan didn't put s full stop to Sherin's romantic interest which lead to his downfall. Mugen the way he got angry on Abhirami (breaking bed, lifting chair) is one of his major negatives in the house.

Originally posted by: lankan121

Lol no1 took the challenge with me yaar..but I'll do it post his pic I'll screenshot it and change it as my dp. 5 days thaanai no problem. All my post against kavin I guess this is revenge lol .

no need.. chummaa dhaan ketten... As you said, no one took your challenge 😛

Originally posted by: Sevenstreaks

Kavin kooda songs lyrics eludhunanga dhanga 🤔

At that time he was hailed as best lyricist, multi-talented etc.. Now when it comes to other contestants, they ask differently ..

Originally posted by: BryanAntony

Tarshan turned down Meera, Kavin turned down Abhirami. That's what turning down should be.

That way Tarshan didn't put s full stop to Sherin's romantic interest which lead to his downfall. Mugen the way he got angry on Abhirami (breaking bed, lifting chair) is one of his major negatives in the house.

Neenga solrathu unmai thaan. But at the same time both Abhi and Sherin played it smartly with Mugen and Tharshan respectively. While in the first case Abhi/Meera spoke directly about marriage and speaking to parents etc, in the latter case they said love and nothing else. So then it’s awkward to say “stop liking even one sided”. It’s easy to turn down a marriage proposal though. Based on Sherin’s whining to Vanitha (before the big “affair” fight) at various points Tharshan kept saying to the camera “this is just for fun, I don’t mean to flirt with Sherin really”. I feel it’s more of a man versus woman thing. While taken women would clearly clarify they are not available, men play it more carefully not to come across as insensitive. Even Mahath and Aarav were blamed by contestants in the house for outright rejecting the women, so there is some sensitivity to this.

What I don’t understand is what a low self esteem these women should have to throw themselves at men who reject them, and then demand that the men continue to pay attention to them because of the affection the women have. I am referring to first season Oviya too (no brickbats please). Imagine if any of the men chose to go behind a committed woman on the show despite being told they are taken.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Ennanga neega , summa kalakarenga 👍🏼. Psychology major-a Neenga?

While we are discussing about this phenomenon, in my layman’s terms , want to add one more point. If the person is a perfectionist or a good one , even a small mistake might appear big . Thappeliyae oori ponavanga enna seinjalum perusa theriyadhu - whatever mistakes they do we tend to ignore them whereas we take even a small mistake by the good ones close to the eye and makes it appear big. May be that’s why Tharshan’s trash can-letter matter and flirting with Sherin appeared like a big mole.

👍🏼. Nalla explain Pani irukinga.

Chris ji, your post was good. 👍🏼