1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 7

Originally posted by: inlieu

They did not manipulate her emotionally or otherwise, especially not Minnie even after some of the harsh words she used with her mother today. If Babita herself chooses to do penance that's her call. Whether this is a good or bad decision, time will tell.

I will take your word for it.

Didn’t like Mini giving clean chit to in-laws aise hi hote hai. And Lovely Bua dil ki buri nahi hai.

Thik hai writers want to white wash them.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Mini also justified today that Lovely Bua dil ki buri nahi hai.

👏 Thanks writers.

This was the one point where I felt the speech went overboard. Lovely ko point prove karne ke liye include bilkul nahi karna chahiye tha. She deserves nothing.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I'm exactly thinking about this.

Babita spat out venom due all those frustrated years - right

Babita blaming them alone for her miseries - wrong

Babita thinking that she was selfish to speak up for herself - wrong

Babita reconciling with them for peace, Mini And courtsey - right

There is way too much intricacy involved.

But the way she said that it was wrong to only think about her miseries and placing them first, I have hopes of this being handled properly. I hope HS makes her realise that it's not wrong to speak up for yourself but wrong to only think about yourself first.

I hope so too dear. Shaadi huey 1 hafta bhi nahin hua aur ye log siyappe par siyappe dikha rahe hein.

Did you notice one extremely important line in Minnie's rant: that since she was a 4 or 5 year old she began to forget her own tears in order to wipe her mothers' tears. Minnie is finally articulating, albeit spontaneously, some of what's troubling her, the fact that she feels burdened. She has never done that before. The way she walked out of the haveli showed she was not just angry because of this fight with Babita, but that she was just fed up of having to be her mother. Well, Minnie has to learn to let go of Babita to an extent too. She can't invest so much energy in her while draining herself. It's unhealthy.

I am beginning wonder if there's anything deeper behind why Babita cares so much about what people will say, something that may have been embedded in her psyche from a young age. The face that the words of someone like Khatri, who she knows is a vile man, can get to her is unsettling.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Mini also justified today that Lovely Bua dil ki buri nahi hai.

👏 Thanks writers.

This threw me off!

Dil ki buri ni hai, toh kya woh yuhi hasi mazak mein taane marti rehti thi? 😕 The type of things she would say to Babita were horrendous! And yet woh dil ki buri ni? Agar yeh buri ni hai, toh kya hua iska bad side??

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

One thing that I've realised for sure - that writers have their own tangent of thinking and they stick to it. May or may not be universally accepted but you as a viewer certainly have to accept it and go with the flow, otherwise you're stuck behind feeling incomplete and lost, given how fast paced the story is.

Totally agree. After yesterday's episode I decided to go with the flow and see where they take us. Perhaps they are working on something that we can't imagine at this moment, but the pieces will fall into place later in an unexpected way.

worst episode ever. absolutely killed babitas character. why is it wrong if she wants to be rid of her old relations? & mini saying that the khuranas accepted the new relation. who the hell are they to accept or reject any of babitas relations?

mini is the one who is being stupid in this case & cant see anything clearly. khuranas tolerate babita for mini & she should care for them? why? why cant their own children care for the oldies? why should Hanita bring them home? just cause of mini? utter crap. rubbish.

only good part was Hanita hug

felt bad for NB, she doesnt deserve this.

khuranas on the other hand deserve the shamshaan ghat wala ghar. die khuranas die.

mini is finally speaking up and saying things in her heart and just like babita there will be an amrit manthan in mini's heart and hopefully after all the world's amrit manthan we will get a joint happy family.

i think HS also needs to sort out some feelings regarding his rights on mini. and mini needs a strict HS to get her in line.

Wowww Mini justified all the torture Babita went through because of Lovely ek hi jhatke mein... dhanya ho Mini madam, thanks for enlightening us as well 🙄

Fcuk this shit!!!! 😡

Lovely bua dil ki buri nahi hai was the best part.. And no sare in-laws aise nahi hote.. What a load of crap.. Khuranas simply lived like that because it was convenient.. Warna Dadu would not have broken her relations with Mini when she changed her surname.. They wouldn't have badmouthed Babita when she refused to get Ashok released the first time..

Lovely agar dil ki brui na hoti tou she wouldn't have tried to spoil the wedding..

I mean, its so pathetic that they are trying to show the mistreatment of in-laws as in-laws tou hote hi aise hain.. Agar aise hi hote hain tou bahu bhi aisi hoti hai k bete se rishta torne k baad in-laws ki shakal bhi na dekhe.. Nonsense!

Originally posted by: tk2015

This was the one point where I felt the speech went overboard. Lovely ko point prove karne ke liye include bilkul nahi karna chahiye tha. She deserves nothing.

17 years of taunt broke Babita emotionally

But for Mini - Lovely Bua dil ki buri nahi hai.

Same Lovely called her Mother a bad mother on her wedding day. But Sure.

Mini today showed Khun khun hota Hai.

P.s I hate when ITV justifies low life lovelies saying dil ki buri nahi hai. Matlab sabko lovely jesa banana chahiye. Taunt everybody around yet you are dil ke aschhe. Take a bow!

And how magnanimous of Khuranas to accept Babita's new relation Mini basically trivialized her mother's pain of 17 years into nothing.. Pathetic.. Aise wings se tou parkate hona acha hai...