Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi
I see. You have a point there.
I also agree with him wanting to help.
I just thought Babita’s suggestions were all valid and practical. She is ready to share financial aspect too.
He should’ve thought it over and mutually decided to get Mini into confidence and share the same options with her regarding her Dadu biji.
Bringing them in Haveli is pushing Babes into those places again where she hard time coming out from.
Plus such a deja vu for her. Newly wedded and can’t even enjoy the phase without in-laws looming over her head. This the same in-laws who are ex now.
Yeah I laughed when I heard Babita's suggestions because it sounded as if she were the audience's voice. I hope in the long-term they can choose one of her options or something sustainable. It's not that she doesn't want to help them but she won't do it at the cost of her own happiness and mental peace, and I think she has the right to feel that way.
I also loved that she wanted to do this for NB's sake, even contribute financially if she had to.
I am just mad all this had to happen now, she barely had a chance to breathe amidst all the siyappe. She does deserve a break.
As for HS, don't even get me started. In some ways I think he should just do nothing and remain neutral, only help when asked for. There are way too many complications in this matter. Par woh thodi na sudhrega? The Friday episode made it clear he would do anything for his Veer Balika, especially after the scare he had thinking of a life without her, and now he's doing exactly what I feared, potentially over-compensating.
I do hope he talks to Minnie but I think even he knows she can never suggest bringing her grandparents to the haveli. I think her deer frozen in the headlights look when she overhead Irfan got to HS and he just wanted to protect her. I hope he can keep his head straight during upcoming events, because he might have to make some tough calls and someone is bound to get heart.
Edited by inlieu - 6 years ago