I don't know: ajao saray - Page 21

Originally posted by: Resham

Control karo jee aap... Kitna gussa🤣

Nahi hota!

The more I talk about her, the angrier I get! 🤬

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Ohh cool. Kerala is a nice place.

Yep. Laale di jaan and HS are enough buddies to pull off a dhaasun bachelor trip (cause I don't think HS seems married)🤡

Yeah, they both can have a well-deserved vacation and take NB and maybe even Minnie.

Let the current and ex-Khurana chill.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

@swasonlove - I'm dedicating this one to HS.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcucgNV7Cmc

LOL! Just saw this. I mentioned the same!!

after watching the episode , i feel babita is deliberately doing it & makers r deliberately toying with the characters thus pushing our patience .

Originally posted by: inlieu

He should just go to another one of his conferences/camps. Let her miss him and send him dedications on the radio.

I don't think she'll even do that this time around. And even if she does, I don't want him to listen to her or coming running back again. Let her stay alone in her barsaati. It's not like she gives a damn about him. 😡

It makes no bloody sense! Jab paas ni hota phir bin matlab ke mote mote aansoon nikal thi hai. Par jab paas hota phir usse koi bhav bhi ni deti. 🤬

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Not that bad episode to skip it... Liked everything except babita ka foolishness.... Do watch nameem bi lecture... She just said all our thoughts....

Loving the gifs, guys! They are awesome and much needed after today's episode.

I just hope writes redeem Babita before it’s too late. Otherwise nobody would be able to connect to her.

Even if she wails it would be pointless.

i havent read all the posts, but here is what i think:

babita is behaving incorrectly, but she is doinf this on impulse. she thinks that her desiring HS is wrong, maybe cause she has never experienced and and doesnt know how to go about expressing her desires and love. hence her asking for time, but that doesnt mean HS should back off so much.

why should a women always be the mature one and lead the marriage. the man can as well. even before HS would talk to her and show he wants her, why cant he do that now? just ask her to sit and talk to her, make her comfortable, make her realise that sharing a room or the same space does not mean sex. she doesnt realise it, cause that may be all that was between her and ashok. and though it is not shown and probably will not be explored, she might just be scared of a physical relation because of her experience. no way in hell would ashok have asked for her permission, or even made her comfortable.

secondly, why is HS lying. i get his talk that babita is going through a lor of emotions, but lying to make her feel better is not the solution. she is not antaryami to understand what is going on in someones mind or heart. if HS lies then she will believe him cause she trusts him, just as she trusts mini to be truthful.

and another reason could be that all relations, specially the men, in her life have failed her, cheated on her.

her parents who got her married at such a young age. her father who could not stand up for her - which was made clear when she was talking to HS at night.

her husband

her brother - during the divorce case and even before when he could not keep them at his house

HS - though his intentions were good, but the way he hurt babita during the imarti track and then did not even apologise. i initially said that he should not apologise directly, but should show it in actions. he did neither. and when babita asked for an apology, it was called her ego. what she did was her way of closing the wound HS gave her. she needed that closure.

her in laws - someone who she said were her parents could not see her pain and could not stand up for her

mini - though mini loves her babes a lot, she still lies to her and is continuing to lie to her. babita came to know about the money issue and the scooty etc, so babita knows that mini can lie. a girl who shares everything with her mother and then hides things, would have hurt babita, even though she expressed it, but it would have hurt.

HS talks about honesty but he himself is not honest. babita atleast owned up to the fact that she is scared and hesitant and needs time. he is not even saying anything, on the contrary he is lying and asking mini to do the same.

mini said dont underestimate babes, but she is doing the same.

so, mini and HS are advising each other, but do not follow their own advises.

babita's reaction to the honeymoon is expected. she is scared of what she wants. when she expressed her love, she did not expect that she would ever get that love. and now that she has that love in her life, she does not know how to proceed further.

NB said, pyaar sirf ruhaani nahi hota - but that is the kind of love babita has experienced - whether the relation she though existed between her and ashok, or the mother daughter relation. she does not know that there is more to a husband wife relation that being physical and "ruhaani".

what surprises me is that no one has actually taken the time to sit with babita and try to talk to her. HS hides things, mini skirts around her, lala gives somewhat accusing glares, NB scolds her that she will spoil her family, poonam just hands her the tickets.

one thing that i did not like at all was HS saying that this is babita's ego and if her ego is hurt she would break off the relation. he gave babita the impression that he understood her anger and hurt, but if he still thinks it was the ego speaking and hides it, then how will babita know?

honestly, i feel it was not her ego, but the pain and hurt that HS could say something to hurt babita, even for her good. she has always bowed down in front of ppl and even when she said something it was always because of others:

she returned the jewels cause biji taunted her

she fought her case and replied in court so that mini wouldnt lose

she played holi cause HS encouraged her

she took part in the cooking competition cause mini forced her to

she opened the business cause of mini and HS

she even said yes to HS only when mini was happy with it

Originally posted by: inlieu

Even after NB explained to her in clear terms...

Now she has no excuse whatsoever.

Not excuse Jean .. these are deliberate attempts at sabotaging everything .. not just her relationship but also HS-Minnie