GOTW: I Wish - Page 7

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah, but before they found ways even without sharing a room or being married. Ab to license bhi mil gaya par gaari parking se 1st gear tak jaa hi nahi rahi.

Reverse mein naa jaaye bass🤣

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Even if she has problems with the actual intimacy, desires and passion can still be shown from her side. Atleast some struggle to mask the feelings and surges?😵

Or feeling conflicted about those desires?

Like, she wants to act on them but she keeps flashing to the moments she shared with Ashok and then gets terrified instead.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Or feeling conflicted about those desires?

Like, she wants to act on them but she keeps flashing to the moments she shared with Ashok and then gets terrified instead.

EXACTLY WHAT I MEANT.

That conflict/internal strife Arey kuch toh dikhao. Yahan toh things are as normal as ever as if nothing happened (not that I want any throwbacks to that depressing shaadi)😆

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I know there's a saying, "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach", but yeh toh dono pet aur dil par kabza kare bethi hai. Ab aur kya chahiye isse???

Maybe she's afraid that she can't control herself or hide her emotions if she's in the same room or in close proximity, issi liye bhaag rahi hai. Now she can't hide behind Minnie or samaaj anymore.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Or feeling conflicted about those desires?

Like, she wants to act on them but she keeps flashing to the moments she shared with Ashok and then gets terrified instead.

There's also some element of power play involved here. She wants to be the one to decide the way this marriage goes, and I think HS is aware but is letting her for now.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Maybe she's afraid that she can't control herself or hide her emotions if she's in the same room or in close proximity, issi liye bhaag rahi hai. Now she can't hide behind Minnie or samaaj anymore.

So what will it take for her to realize that she has that kind of freedom now? 🤔

I kinda don't want HS to tell her that cuz it'll in some ways imply that he's giving her permission. But then again, isn't this what she had wanted? To have full haq over him? 😕

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

EXACTLY WHAT I MEANT.

That conflict/internal strife Arey kuch toh dikhao. Yahan toh things are as normal as ever as if nothing happened (not that I want any throwbacks to that depressing shaadi)😆

But it did show in a couple of ways now that I think about it. They were very very subtle but there:

1. The fact that she changed into her night wear right away and didn't allow for a setting where they could talk about the wedding or their new relationship itself, or even give her a chance to look at his bride (for which I felt really bad for HS by the way)
2. The way she locked the door when she went upstairs, something she's never done all these months. It was to stop herself going there as well, I think, just like she stopped herself at the top of the stairs after the pottery scene.

Originally posted by: inlieu

There's also some element of power play involved here. She wants to be the one to decide the way this marriage goes, and I think HS is aware but is letting her for now.

I just hope she doesn't take things too far. It's okay that he's letting her find her way right now, but I don't want him to be stepped all over like a doormat.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Even if she has problems with the actual intimacy, desires and passion can still be shown from her side. Atleast some struggle to mask the feelings and surges?😵

Yes this is a major miss, writers are failing to show this from Babita's side. She could have intimacy issue, but that want to be with him, but because of her issues, she can't that thing is missing in Babita's actions.

Also, didn't KK tweet that Babita will be self-indulgent with her new husband. Kahan self-indulgent, isse Minnie se alawa aur kuch dikhai hi nahi deraha hai 🤔

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I just hope she doesn't take things too far. It's okay that he's letting her find her way right now, but I don't want him to be stepped all over like a doormat.

He won't but he'll either explode or just back off completely, and when she finally starts to want to act on her desires, she might be expecting him to make some move. Which he won't because he won't know that she wants him to, and that'll frustrate her more. Then another kaboom!