Hopes and Fears - Page 5

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I also went awww at hanuman so sweetly saying ofcourse he knows that mini is the priority for babes and for him too she means a lot and i really didn't felt babes was not right on clarifying things yes the timing was off but she just wanted the assurance first and he understood that but where she sounded slightly wrong to me was mini ka father and mini ki mother wala roshta they have conviniently made that connection/circuit but forgot about the third side to comolete this circle other than mini ke parents they have to be each other's spouse too and that important link is missing in her understanding of where they stand as of now. She needs to realize that and accept it that along with mini's father he is her husband too now

No, I really didn’t think what she did was right. That is not the way to talk, no matter what kind of assurance you want. Timing toh wrong thi hi cuz she needed to have said this to him before marrying him if she wanted that assurance.....what was worse was her TONE....she was talking to him like he was some kind of a criminal....why did she do the rituals if she wasn’t sure he “understood her priorities”?

So no, to me, Babita went about it the wrong way on all fronts and it’s all cuz she was terrified and talking like this to cover up her fears. HS bore the brunt and swallowed his hurt over being accused needlessly of not knowing Mini’s priority in Babita’s life.

They clearly have a long way to go in figuring out conversations....this relationship can’t run simply on Babita ordering him around or laying down conditions for being a wife to him....communicating expectations is different from ordering someone....Babita did the latter yesterday.

Originally posted by: Meghna_IshRa

Thanks 😆...bechara HS...ab to puri life hi apologize karne main hi bitegi uski 😉🤣

Btw, your episode review is the only one that is encouraging me to watch the episode 😊..haven't caught any this week coz my VPN ain't working 😭

Shaadi ke laddoo ke side effects 🤣....

Aww I hope you’re able to watch the epis soon....especially Tuesday’s and yesterday’s epis are worth watching. Monday first half was nice too.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

No, I really didn’t think what she did was right. That is not the way to talk, no matter what kind of assurance you want. Timing toh wrong thi hi cuz she needed to have said this to him before marrying him if she wanted that assurance.....what was worse was her TONE....she was talking to him like he was some kind of a criminal....why did she do the rituals if she wasn’t sure he “understood her priorities”?

So no, to me, Babita went about it the wrong way on all fronts and it’s all cuz she was terrified and talking like this to cover up her fears. HS bore the brunt and swallowed his hurt over being accused needlessly of not knowing Mini’s priority in Babita’s life.

They clearly have a long way to go in figuring out conversations....this relationship can’t run simply on Babita ordering him around or laying down conditions for being a wife to him....communicating expectations is different from ordering someone....Babita did the latter yesterday.

I think to mask her insecurities she has started thinking herself as some princess for whom HS will to have move the mountains. Ridiculous.

Originally posted by: inlieu

She needs a bear hug from her Hanuman Uncle.

She is waiting for that... Just one word from him..bas veer balika bodega bad she will just run in to him....

Feeling very bad for them...

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

She is waiting for that... Just one word from him..bas veer balika bodega bad she will just run in to him....

Feeling very bad for them...

It's a small thing, but hearing him still call her Veer Balika yesterday gave me a sense of relief.....yeah they've got hurt between them, but he's still not stopped calling her his Veer Balika :)

Basically he needs to just hold her and not let go....like Mini did that time after the hospital scenes

It's so ironic....Babita maa hai, but she cannot see this.....father-daughter ko khud hi aapas mein solve karna padega.....those pillars are needed to be repaired first before Babita ko koi bhi tackle kar sake.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

Hs a kya reaction hoga, babita ko green suit main itna beautiful dikhte hue. Poor guy.

Kal dekh toh raha tha chai peete huye😆.....beautiful but detached Babita ko😆

Itna beautiful hone ka bhi kya faayda jab communication hi nahin hai.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

@bold This is what irked me the most. In the morning also when he was talking to her, she just ordered him to pass jeera dabba. I am not saying, a wife can't ask her husband to help her in cooking . She has every right to. Infact I believe all men should help thier wives in kitchen. But her asking just sounded like order. I didn't like it one bit. If not a husband, he is a self made, honourable man. Atleast respect that.

I think to mask her insecurities she has started thinking herself as some princess for whom HS will to have move the mountains. Ridiculous.

I feel like Babita may not be aware of how her tone sounds when she talks like this.

She may think she’s being “firm” with someone, but it can sound very disrespectful.

I also wonder if whole life she’s only known how to talk like a mom, scolding Mini and stuff toh now she doesn’t know any other way to talk when she wants to be “assertive” 🤷‍♀️😂

HS also indulges her cuz she’s such an over sensitive soul and he can’t bear her being upset and retreating into a shell.

Basic thing is that samjhaane pe samajh jaati hai Babita but challenge is to get her to listen and communicate first.

Oh one other thing that I forgot to mention yesterday....Mini also seemed to be in denial about Babita’s state of mind and actually thought she was happy after the shaadi. Lol

Yeh father-daughter Kuch zyada hi optimistic ho gaye Babita lo lekar 😆

She’s literally tried to break off the shaadi like 5 times now....phir bhi everyone thought all was normal? They thought she didn’t mean it? 😆

I guess finally jab realize bhi hua Mini ko that something is off with her mother when she saw her sleeping next to her in the morning, she’s just gonna chalk it up to her having come between husband-wife 🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

It's a small thing, but hearing him still call her Veer Balika yesterday gave me a sense of relief.....yeah they've got hurt between them, but he's still not stopped calling her his Veer Balika :)

Basically he needs to just hold her and not let go....like Mini did that time after the hospital scenes

It's so ironic....Babita maa hai, but she cannot see this.....father-daughter ko khud hi aapas mein solve karna padega.....those pillars are needed to be repaired first before Babita ko koi bhi tackle kar sake.

Seriosly yaar... HS air uski veer balika agar saath ho to Sab thik kar denge ....

Truly this scene speaks a lot.... Hope we can see such scene again...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I feel like Babita may not be aware of how her tone sounds when she talks like this.

She may think she’s being “firm” with someone, but it can sound very disrespectful.

I also wonder if whole life she’s only known how to talk like a mom, scolding Mini and stuff toh now she doesn’t know any other way to talk when she wants to be “assertive” 🤷‍♀️😂

HS also indulges her cuz she’s such an over sensitive soul and he can’t bear her being upset and retreating into a shell.

Basic thing is that samjhaane pe samajh jaati hai Babita but challenge is to get her to listen and communicate first.