Originally posted by: Bookworm_
I know at this moment it’s a lot more easier to plaster our judgements, allegations or accusations on them than being understanding and rational but let’s just stay silent and go with the flow - maybe, there is a part of story we don’t know, maybe there is a side of this coin we have never seen. Maybe something has happened - something has happened between ParIca and the whole cast but it might not be as severe as we all assuming it to be? So, let’s just wait and give our moral compass some break - because there is high probability it is being misled.
Dating and breakups go side by side like parallels and it’s not something out of the ordinary, right? - here we are talking about just dating and relationships but nowadays even marriages are fickle and temporary like that - people who were happily married for years sometimes fall apart at a lightning speed and go for divorces. And no matter how understanding and loving they have been - the post breakup or divorce stuff look like that only - e.g, bitter, full of resentment and as such stuff. So, what I’m trying to say is let’s no get blinded by our love for them or the solo stan-ish love for them and start hating - I’m not believing in this breakup thingy but just like we’re considering all the possibilities then let’s just be realistic and consdier this one as well but... breakup doesn’t make one of them a bad person, they can show their anger and the emotions if they shared something and it’s none of our business to actually be brutal with one of them because one is sad and the other one is happy because there is high possibility E is sad due to something else and not this thing.
Also, let’s not hate ourselves for doing that shipping and all that stuff - it wasn’t bad okay, we were not delusional, that stuff from daal to maal and their journey from Kolkata days to Swiss was magical and real, we had some adorable stuff to drool over. We didn’t have to crop their pics and paste from here to there, okay! We always got their real pics, real stuff like sleeping on each other’s shoulders in swiss on that train, having coffee together in between shots, clicking each other’s pics, unwrapping bday gifts for each other and saying thank you on each other’s behalf when one of them was being a grumpy baby - maybe it was all just a friendship but it was there and real, right? ❤️ We had some of the best moments here, some of the best bonds because of them, no matter what shit we might have been going through in our real lives but in that moment when we saw them together we just forgot about everything else and dived deeper in to our magical world of pulao - together we had so much fun gushing about them, analysing stuff, arguing about the things. It was all too precious, something all the fandoms do but we did with legit real stuff - we are not delusional, we see things and then we believe and even now we’re quite understanding and being rational and I’m proud of us all for being that! 😘 just wanna say no one is inherently bad or good, we all are mix of lotsa light and a lil bit of darkness, we all have two sides like a coin and sometimes our darkness overpowers the light in us and we do bad stuff - well all do, but to acknowledge that bad stuff and correcting it is what matters in end. Let’s just appreciate the good things about them and love them like we have been doing and also, like always let's not believe in weird stuff without even knowing or seeing anything - we have not seen anything, right? So let’s just wait and hope that may we find a better closure. ❤️
My Ench always says “I don’t live with memories, I burn them” - so choice is yours live with them or burn them but don’t hate them please 😘😘😘😘