After reading several recent posts on the forum it kinda made me feel brave enough to put forth my views as well; coz I felt that the bashings that typically follows a post that is not “Lead Couple praising” wouldn’t blow out of proportion.
Not that I have any issues with bashing ... I couldn’t care less but then more the bashing less the discussions .
Like I mentioned this is not a KaiRa praising post. That does not make this a bashing post either. But yes, I have issues with how things are being shown through the actions of the lead couple.... especially when it comes to Vedika.
I am neither a KaiRa fan nor a Kartik-Vedika fan. I am simply a neutral viewer who started watching the show after noticing the adorable... cute as button Kairav on screen. Knowing that he was KaiRa’s son piqued my interest... because I couldn’t imagine the young Shivangi play a mother on screen. But the mother-son chemistry was captured so beautifully that I took an interest in the track. Then when I realized that Kartik and Naira weren’t together and she’s a single mother I got further curious to know what happened and watched the episodes before the leap to get a clear idea. I watched the whole Kartik doubting Naira, questioning Naira's morality episodes, she leaving etc. and have been watching every episode since.
So my post is purely based on the events since that infamous incident and has nothing to do with what happened before .
I know that KaiRa is janam janmantar ke saathi ....that they’ll eventually end up together and all that.... But why are they knowingly and unknowingly punishing Vedika? In fact why is everyone punishing Vedika?
I understand perfectly well that what’s being show is a tricky situation...But life is such. And that’s no excuse to hurt her in this manner. Especially since she didn’t ask for this !
When Kartik decided to flush his trust in Naira down the toilet and question her character and when Naira decided to run away rather than stay in the same city and punish Kartik for his emotional betrayal it was a choice they made. Regardless of whether it was a conscious or emotional choice......it was their choice. They chose to ruin their relationship and the beautiful life that they had built together.... But why ruin Vedika’s life?
Vedika may have harboured a soft corner for Kartik... secretly and not so secretly she may have harboured the desire to marry Kartik. However she never imposed that desire upon him. It was his decision to marry Vedika and yes Suhasini and Manish are equally to be blamed as well; as it was Suhasini's emotional blackmail and Manish's almost threat that drove Kartik to propose Vedika in the first place.
But now that the marriage has taken place how is it that everyone is oblivious to Vedika’s plight? Kartik had point blank told Vedika he can never love her but that he’ll try and keep her happy. But with Naira’s entry Kartik seems to have turned back on his promise and even Naira isn’t exactly respecting where Vedika is coming from.
Yes, KaiRa were deeply in love and therefore many things, actions, words etc. come to them naturally... But it’s the lack of restraint they are not exercising that infuriates me. Again, yes it’s a tricky situation but small things done consciously to ensure that the other person isn’t hurt can go a long way... And that’s were Kartik and Naira are failing miserably as humans.
Kartik questioned Naira’s character...as he felt she was betraying him. What the hell is he doing now? Isn’t Kartik is blatantly betraying Vedika ?
I get that he is a father who missed out on so much because his then better half decided to stay away; and whatever he is doing is to make up for that. But many instances in recent times highlighted the fact that regardless of the love Kartik has for his son... He is using Kairav to get Naira to stay back as well. Phir chahe wo Intentionally ho ya na ho.
On the other hand Naira isn’t using her son as an excuse like Vedika accused her... But she as an individual is behaving like she never left ; which would have been perfectly alright if Vedika isn’t in the picture... Her words of assurances to Vedika somehow are just that – WORDS
Yes, her priority is still her son but during several instances she has been doing things without thinking or respecting Vedika’s feelings.
Sad thing is Naira could have easily stopped all of this... Had she entered Goenka Mansion after reaching the premises and stuck to her intent of revealing the truth no matter what... None of this would have happened.
Things wouldn’t be smooth... But Kartik would be less angrier and annoyed at her arrival...Goenkas would be less affected by the whole thing since they get their waaris...and Vedika would have suffered a relatively smaller heart break.....
Though I am not a long time fan of the show what brothers me is the hypocrisy that’s being shown... Har kisi ke liye there is a different set of rules....and that’s really hard to digest.
Kinda looking forward to Vedika confronting Kartik because I honestly feel that the Vedika confronting Naira scene wasn’t necessary. Naira is nobody to her so expecting something from her is futile but Kartik is her husband confronting him, demanding answers from him... Arguing with him makes a world of sense.
Having ranted I do know that the writers are to blamed for this Khichdi 😂😂😂
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