Mother ki daughter ko pakar bhi nahi payin gay: ajao saray - Page 11

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

It’s quite insulting for HS.

Babes could just talk to him about insecurities an d fears.

But to dismiss him completely, is rude and insensitive. She has no regard for him or his feelings.

She can solve this but she is further complicating it. I can’t believe she learned nothing on her journey so far neither she has progressed a bit.

She really doesn’t know what Marriage is. What it is about partnership. So self absorbed. I give up on Babita. I have no idea how they will redeem her.

I am wondering how she was when she married Ashok. Similar or very different?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Even today, albeit it a little hesitantly, he referred to himself as the father in their little unit. That's what he wants, Babita to be the mother, Minnie the daughter and he, the father.

Babita, softly, had replied that she wanted the same but phir ek dum khadak se kahe diya, if he can't be Minnie's father, then he won't have her, despite having her.

This annoyed me the most.

it may sound annoying, but it is a fact. mini is a part of babita. she is a part of her heart and soul. if a part of your heart and soul is not happy then how will you be happy? most importantly how can a mother be happy if her child is sad?

HS himself said something siilar when he and babita went to the doctor. that when mini is said his heart feels heavy and when mini is happy and laughs he feels happy himself.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

NB is needed for an intervention in trio’s life ASAP.

NB can’t always come and fix it for them. Can she?

It’s Babita’s pariksha now. Whenever she has faltered, Mini and HS came and showed her the way. NB too did at many times.

But when Mini and HS falters, where is Babita? In her freak out mode? Is that all she is capable of?

God I am so pissed at her inability to see others pain and hurt. Today was the worst.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

he said i though i will be your father, but now...

i would assume the underlying feeling is that he doesnt think he can be her father.

He thinks he can but what was upsetting that she dint accept him to be her father at first place...

Originally posted by: inlieu

Oh he will talk, and the day he does, all hell will break loose. 😆

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

it may sound annoying, but it is a fact. mini is a part of babita. she is a part of her heart and soul. if a part of your heart and soul is not happy then how will you be happy? most importantly how can a mother be happy if her child is sad?

HS himself said something siilar when he and babita went to the doctor. that when mini is said his heart feels heavy and when mini is happy and laughs he feels happy himself.

I'm not faulting Babita for wanting Minnie to have a father. It's the way that she's going about it that's wrong. She's not having a civil discussion with him. She's throwing these conditions, and in a way, blackmailing him. If you can't be a father, then you can't have a wife. Is this how you start off your marriage?

It wasn't right at all.

I don't find Babita to be that wrong today, unlike most of you.She had witnessed the ugly confrontation between HS and Minnie before the wedding. She saw how HS ignored Minnie pointedly throughout the wedding and in the hours after wards. SHe was ruminating on this and HS comes in, happy and nonchalant about everything that had happened between him and Mini. If he had even said a sentence like 'Mini arranged this room for us' or something I think she would have taken it that HS is still the old dad self to Mini. But his continued ignoring of the show down scene and his accusation to Mini have made her feel insecure about the changing dynamics and she blurted out her innermost fears to him.

A second marriage will always have the children as the focal point and most of the conflicts and misunderstandings will also come because of that. It's not a clean slate, rosy goggles first wedding where nothing matters except the husband and the wife in the initial phase

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

This not sharing a room has to do with Babita’s intimacy issue. She’s making Minnie an excuse at this point I feel.

The only thing I liked about today’s episode was Babita’s look post wedding 😆

Lala was going right by making Minni understand until he said the line “un dono ko teri jarurat nahi hai ab”. Shouldn’t have said that 🤔

Minnie is major in self pity, self victim mode. She needs to come out of it ASAP.

I think Lala's choice of words was wrong. He meant to say they didn't need her to push them together, but it sounded like they didn't need her in their lives.

CVs are doing this for drama. Jeez.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i dont think so. maybe she will say something like i wanted to give you privacy or i want to sleep with dadu biji today.

i dont think she will get angry given her state of mind and the delicate situation.

i hope she tells HS that lala asked me to give you both privacy.

someone needs to tell Lala to stop interfering in their family life.

And why is he there every morning even after marriage. now that HS is married the privacy giving part applies to him also

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I'm not faulting Babita for wanting Minnie to have a father. It's the way that she's going about it that's wrong. She's not having a civil discussion with him. She's throwing these conditions, and in a way, blackmailing him. If you can't be a father, then you can't have a wife. Is this how you start off your marriage?

It wasn't right at all.

Her ways are almost always Goes wrong and impulsive... She seriously dint learn anything from her mistakes... Thats the sad part... And now so freaking out ki sabko nacha rahi hai...