I nodded throughout. Agree with mostly everything.
By the way:
#3 I think he wanted to be happy but his smile did not reach his eyes. He looked unconvinced and unconvincing as a new husband
#7 He was in zombie mode, I don't think he was even aware of his surroundings anymore. His previous dreams were completely out of the picture. I do want some introspection from him on how he felt in those moments.
3. I wrote that in my initial viewing so I must have missed that but it sucks. He's not happy as a father or a husband, and now the son in him is going to be squashed too. 😭
7. He really didn't. At that moment, like everyone else, he was working on auto pilot and just wanted the night to be over with.