It's all about trust: ajao saray - Page 25

Originally posted by: inlieu

Her way is wrong. She can feel whatever she wants to regarding Minnie, she can't force him to or expect him to just blindly follow her conditions. It made me feel as if she has no understanding of the bond HS and Minnie share.

She most probably does not... Just like Minnie has no idea about the bond Babita and Hanuman shared... She does not know Mini knew about Hanuman's feelings beforehand.. Yes she knows that Hanuman loves her and would do anything for her.. But doing things as an Uncle and as a father are two different things.. Perhaps she wants to make sure they proceed as a family and not individuals..

Babita is impulsive.. She speaks without thinking.. Thats how she is always shown.. maybe because she is so used to bottling up stuff inside her for so many years that things just come tumbling out.. She was not calm or composed when she spoke to HS.. she sounded pareshan, desperate and eager to just let him know how things should be.. She gets my benefit of doubt for sure.. Similar to the Mujhe hurt kar sakti ho line of Hanuman to Mini.. he said those things in anger.. and Babita now spoke in desperation to hold the two people she values together..

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Not even NB.. because she too was focused on Mini ko kitni chotein khani hain and how Hanuman and Babita have not thought it through how the wedding would affect Mini.. So she too is focused on Mini for now

She is, but for different reasons. She knows that no one has been paying attention to the real issues with Minnie and that they are about to rear their ugly heads.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Lagta hai mujhe bohot bada sadmaa lag gaya hai but somehow HS ke expressions are so meme worthy right now! How does Anirudh manage that?

He felt dejected again...

Donno yaar who is right who is wrong but babes ki timing humesha galat hoti hai when it comes to HS...

The worst part is I see no end to these problems and no solutions to these apparent miseries from the mother daughter side.

And HS should not budge this time even if they're like that for a lifetime. Raho aise hi tenant landlord ki Tarah.

I really don't know how are ALL THESE ISSUES getting sorted out. Can't even see a slight way out or a crevice of hope.

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Okay... What should I say about today...

HS... He is in his hurt which he felt from his daughter...

Yes he ignored Minni bcoz he felt that she won't need him it's simple... We all know that it's not true but it's not completely false as well...for a second, even he can show his pain to his daughter I guess...why should he always keep a brave face yaar... Being a parent doesn't mean u have to cover ur emotions always... If he has ignored her it's doesn't means he don't love... So this nahi jaanta ki wo apni beti se kitna pyaar karta hai... It's just that he was hurt that even today he is a third person for Minni...

Babita... She is now the one middle of husband and daughter.... Kiska saath de...

She wanted to get marry but she again had doubt to Minni is not happy...agian it's not true but not completely false as well... Minni is happy that her mother is getting married and she is not happy as she will have to share her with HS Now... Babita so love HS but she can't give up. Minni for that... And I m proud of her for that as mother any woman will think the same... But what about an wife... Here is where Babita will. Have to balance her love... In precap she did say that Minni will be her priority first than this relationship which was quite common reaction from her... As I said she will never give up Minni for anyone or anything...

Minni... She is hurt that her her parents don't trust her...

This girl is just like her father (HS)... Very good in hiding her actual emotions... While taking photos she going back and remembering the day since she met HS shows what he is for her... Her strong pillar whom she can rely on... Her mentor...her hero... And somehow her father as well... But today when he doubted her for hurting him she would do. Such an act... She couldn't take it... And her going back shows that she freeing them up. From her but we know it won't happen and that she crashed with Bobby.. Which means ki Minni bale soche ki she will leave her parents her Frnds will never let her do that... This was the same done by Mickey earlier when she was going away from HS after she got to know about his feelings... Minni and HS have long way to go... If Minni try to go away from hanita also she can't go bcoz of she goes away the relationship will be in problem and if her parents relation is in problem bcoz of her going away she will. Never do that...

Khuranas... Still in their own la-la land ki they have helped Babita all the time... They treated her like a daughter and but even now they can't see that how painful it was for her these 17 yrs....

Hanita have a long way to go....

Yaar I Am. Numb today... The writers are seriously awesome... They did spoil. Hanita ki shaadi but the depiction today was bang on....

Donno if I made any sense but I became too emotional yaar... 😭

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Lagta hai mujhe bohot bada sadmaa lag gaya hai but somehow HS ke expressions are so meme worthy right now! How does Anirudh manage that?

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Originally posted by: inlieu

I have also started wondering if she doesn't consider him to be her father.

Baat clear karna chahti hai? Pehle apne aap se clear kare phir kissi aur se. What does she want?

MINNIE. That's ALL she wants. Samaj ni aari yeh shaadi kar hi kyun rayi hai. Because Minnie clearly doesn't want a father and the way Babes is behaving, she doesn't want a pati either. Toh HS ko lekar karenge kya???

In the English show Castle that I used to watch, when Castle and Beckett were about to get married, Becket was unsure how she would fit in amidst the close bond castle has with his 17 year old daughter.. She felt they were too close with a solid history and too many memories and she would always be a third wheel.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't want Ashok to be given a full excuse for his actions, but I want it to be known that Babita had the choice of speaking up. She could have voiced her loneliness, frustrations or whatever to him but she didn't. Reason kuch bhi ho, but the fact remains that she didn't and it played a factor into their marriage falling apart.

Did she ever call him or text him? Did she ever try to get to know Ashok when he would come back? Did she ever ask him how he was doing all by himself abroad? Or when Minnie was born, who first told him about it? Was it her or the Khuranas?

How involved was she in her first marriage? What did she do or didn't?

This blame game and self-victimizing needs to stop. Yes, the Khuranas were horrible to her but she could have spoken up as well. Jab suna na tha, tab suna ni, aur ab baat baat par HS ko suna thi rehti hai.

Agree, and hope to see this side of her life covered.

It was interesting that NB wasn't there when she had her outburst. I wonder if she would have said anything, just like last time she showed Babita the error of her ways when she tried to blame Minnie for her misery.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Who cares indeed? Only Lala and NB, it seems.

I think NB will also side with Mini.

I don’t want her to advise HS anything. I am still not over her voiceover. She was so wrong there. She spoke as if she doesn’t know Babita and Hanuman and their love for Mini at all.