It's all about trust: ajao saray - Page 24

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Yes. And she won’t realize this either.

Coz hey as per writers, she is the victim. So brace yourself for more of this.

We are discussing that Hanuman shouldn’t apologize, but writers would come up some twisted interpretations and bring in HS lack of trust or understanding or ego or something.

Mini ji galat nahi ho sakti.

😡

Aag ka dariyaa hai, doobke jaana hai.

🥺

Originally posted by: inlieu

I wonder if this is leading to her side of the story regarding the failure of her marriage with Ashok. If so, then I'm up for it.

I don't want Ashok to be given a full excuse for his actions, but I want it to be known that Babita had the choice of speaking up. She could have voiced her loneliness, frustrations or whatever to him but she didn't. Reason kuch bhi ho, but the fact remains that she didn't and it played a factor into their marriage falling apart.

Did she ever call him or text him? Did she ever try to get to know Ashok when he would come back? Did she ever ask him how he was doing all by himself abroad? Or when Minnie was born, who first told him about it? Was it her or the Khuranas?

How involved was she in her first marriage? What did she do or didn't?

This blame game and self-victimizing needs to stop. Yes, the Khuranas were horrible to her but she could have spoken up as well. Jab suna na tha, tab suna ni, aur ab baat baat par HS ko suna thi rehti hai.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I don’t think she realizes that. She is still a control freak somewhere.

And when she can’t control. She will victimize herself in all of this.

She had her first dose but hasn't introspected. You're right, perhaps her realization is yet to come.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I don't see Minnie realizing the error of her ways either.. Because everyone including Hanuman would victimize her further.. They would fan her savior complex

I hope and pray that he doesn't, that NB talks some sense into him at least. I think he will remember her words before the wedding and hope he goes to her for guidance as he has in the past. If anyone knows how to deal with children's trauma and insecurities, it's her.

Call me insensitive but sorry, today I can't, just CANNOT sympathize with Mini or feel for her. As many said here, it's just delusional self inflicted pity. And I absolutely despise such people who are drowned in imaginary apprehensions and in auto-sacrificial mode.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Sach mein yaar 😭

Shaadi wali raat mein yeh kaisi shakale bana ra hai. :(

Seriously yaar bechara HS kya sapne dekhe the usne n kya ho raha hai..

Idhar shaadi k time pe major siyappe ho gaye . N SR ko saperation raat bana diya..(I mean babes with minnie instead of HS🤦‍♀️)

Bechaara gaa raha hoga mann mein -

Kya se kya ho gayaa..

Babita tere pyaar mein..😂

Sometimes I feel that they were going good without any tags of relationships. Don’t hit me with jutaas n chappals but I feel this marriage seems rushed to me. Cz all got complicated in their relationship now. N it will take much more time to untangle this complexity.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Toot gaya to kaun jodega usko?

Tab jaake ehsaas hoga unn donon ko.

Tab bhi ni hoga inn maa beti ko. For them, they're the center of the universe. Baaki sab toh aliens jaise hai.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

OMG, YES!

Hanita ke beech mein pehle jaise hi chal ra tha, acha tha. They were moving on their pace and testing the waters for themselves. THAT'S what made their love for each other so beautiful. But jab se yeh Minnie beech mein aayi hai tab se sab kuch fast track par chal ra hai. Abhi confession kar do, abhi shaadi kar lo, abhi ek saath raho, abhi, abhi, abhi!

This is why I used to get so irritated when she kept trying to interfere and make them do things that went against their character. Hanita have a completely different equation with each other and trying to get them to behave in a way that they're not, messed things up so badly. Minnie should have just let them be and figure things out on their own. They're fcking ADULTS for goodness' sake, not kids!

What did Micky say? Control freak.

That’s what she is.

And yet no one is going to see her wrong ways. It will all be twisted to bring forth HS and Babes incompatibility in handling Mini.