I was Numb: Sooraj Pancholi opens up about losing his girlfriend - Page 2

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Posted: 5 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: hasini009

I'm not talking about laughing at abusive relationships. bur aren't we mocking/laughing at celebs sad stories after breakups?

Not if we know if it was an abusive relationship. break up in a relationship n breakup in an abusive relationship r not same.I did'nt really laugh when Salman's gf said he abused them
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Posted: 5 years ago
#12

This girls mom was releasing the corpse pictures. Whens her mental state 😆

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Charaiveti

Not if we know if it was an abusive relationship. break up in a relationship n breakup in an abusive relationship r not same.I did'nt really laugh when Salman's gf said he abused them

You said you don’t laugh if you know the truth.

physical abuse ki proof mil sakte hain. but what about emotional abuse?

If someone say their partner abused her /him emotionally which makes them mentally weak and having suicidal thoughts. How can we know whether she/he is telling the truth or not?

and here I am talking about how people troll/laugh at celebs sad stories on social media. Not about my aas paas log.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I hope he is able to get a good resolution soon. Tragedies tend to leave a print on your life for ever, smart people grow and learn.

I am supporting him, because while he may have contributed some to her depression, there is no proof that he killed her, she herself made her choices, from relationships, actions and eventually suicide. He is not responsible. I understand her family must feel very bad, but under all the blame they want to pile upon him there must also be the guilt they feel, if she was so vulnerable that she would listen to the negative from an outsider then she could have been helped with positive from her family, it is just easier to blame someone for a tragedy than to accept responsibility for your part in it.

The legal system in India needs a boost, these cases that last years and years leaving people and issues in limbo are worse than serving a sentence and getting done with it. This way it is a slow torture for everyone, the only ones that benefit are the media morbid and the paid slugs in the legal "field".

I hope he is able to pick up his life and move forward and learn to be responsible with his actions and positive with himself and how he lives.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I liked jiah, I was shocked about this. No break up should be blame for suicide but if he is the one who physically abused her, he should be in jail for domestic violence.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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You respect her family but sadly they don’t respect u because ur a liar

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Posted: 5 years ago
#17

This is sad actually...

even though his debut film flopped I saw a lot of people (esp women) coming out in support of him against the case, I mean just because he isn't proven guilty, how can you assume him to be so innocent. a mother lost her daughter and she has been fighting for justice. Have we lost total empathies towards women, is every woman a false accuser? just because that guy has fame, money and working in films is it enough for people to land support to him. Let's not forget whose son is he anyway? Bollywood is already a sick place we all know all dirty stories of both men and women behind the camera, so even if he comes out guilty would it that much of a big deal? jaane wala to chala hi gaya...noone really cares afterwards except family.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: hasini009

You said you don’t laugh if you know the truth.

physical abuse ki proof mil sakte hain. but what about emotional abuse?

If someone say their partner abused her /him emotionally which makes them mentally weak and having suicidal thoughts. How can we know whether she/he is telling the truth or not?

and here I am talking about how people troll/laugh at celebs sad stories on social media. Not about my aas paas log.

Emotional abuse is just as bad as physical abuse, when doctors did a brain scan of someone who has been through emotional abuse their brain has the same kind of trauma that the brain of other kinds of abuse endures. Unfortunately people don’t take emotional abuse seriously because people can’t see it, and yes it’s harder to prove but the victim deserves support too. There are some people who get so upset by emotional abuse that they have said they’ve been physically abused and even physical abuse didn’t hurt them as much as emotional abuse, they said the emotional abuse felt much more lasting than the pain of a slap. So yes emotional abuse is valid and everyone who’s been through it should also deserve support and healing instead of being mocked or laughed at.
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Charaiveti

he did'nt hang her but tortured her enough for her to opt that option.Have you read about the michelle carter case?There's punishment when you unintentionally or intentionlly drive someone to suicide.

I think her Mom has some guilt and was pressuring her for successful career. And looking for a scapegoat to clean her own guilt. I think breakups and casual relations are common in that society. Even otherwise, u cannot blame anyone for breaking up. Else, go for arranged marriages if u cannot handle modern relations or responsibility for ur own actions. Dont sleep around before marriage.

Edited by ThunderLight - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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His career is over. Nobody cares about this looser now. He have nothing to talk about now. That’s why he is talking about his girlfriend to come to the limelight whom he treated like a trash when she was alive and pushed her to suicide. He probably didn’t kill her but he surely made her life so miserable that she took such a step to end her own life. To me, murdering somebody and pushing somebody to suicide are same. Hope karma bite him someday.

Edited by mira30 - 5 years ago

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