Originally posted by: braveheartdoc
I must say that you write really well Munni 👏👏🤗
Your post is brilliantly put in words you deserve a standing ovation for the effortless flow of words.👏
However I would like to state that I agree with some points while disagree with others. I would try to put them forward one by one.
But again if they gave their relationship a proper build up and time I think it would have been easier for me atleast to accept them but for now their understanding and his talks on maturity and freedom look fake and forced to me personally.
I don't know if I could express myself as well as you did but I tried. I might have missed out on a few points of yours as I'm just typing on phone on the basis of my memory of what I read in your post.
Thanks for your post and giving me a chance to express myself.
Thank you 🤗
Manisha 🤗 thank you for sharing your thoughts here and for the kind words ..
let me try to reply point wise.. though we may not reach consensus but still ..
1. taking care of Kuki was not deal with her freedom, it was him not attacking Basus or buying out their property as long as they don't attack him first . if we see from a husband's perspective, it's tough for any man to let his wife go and meet her lover from the past ... no man would agree to it as it crushes their mountain size ego of not just a man but that of a husband .. if he wanted he would have clearly said no, but the way she breaks down, her tears are affecting him.. if we want to see every person is selfish , we can say he is selfish because he couldn't see her tears and let her off... let's take Prerna today didn't wait for his nod, but the other day he took her to hospital , he told her to go meet Mr.Basu ..
- If lecturing Mohini was wrong, standing up for his wife is his right .. telling her to respect herself only then she will be respected was needed from him .. Mohini's emotions her act there by I understand, but someone has to take stand for Prerna .. like today Prerna took a stand against Mohini and Tapur .. even if it was not for herself but for Anurag, if she is praised for that stand ... I guess Bajaj did nothing different the previous day when he stood for her, because Prerna genuinely came for Anurag's life.. Bajaj's words influenced Prerna and I am not saying this , Mohini Basu herself vouched for it .. that it's Bajaj's influence yesterday on Prerna that she is speaking like this today.
- Bajaj is emotionally unattached to Anurag, but then there is Prerna in between, he is affected by her emotions which in turn are for Anurag.. if I remember correctly anurag taking over Bajaj mansion lead to Bajaj to buy BB 50% so it's started by Anurag's emotions which drove him to take over BM .. but the point is he gave her the freedom to stay or not in front of everyone, it's a mighty thing for a man/husband to do .. with all their pride/ego etc etc .. but here he let her decide what she wants to do .
- again mohini herself said Prerna is influenced by Bajaj's words , in hospital and i do agree that Prerna has that ajeeb si inner strength which comes to fore at times.. Bajaj said these words about Prerna in the para gliding episode
"kuch baath hai ismein, jo maine aajtak apni kisi opponent mein nahin dekhi ,. hosla, zidh , steel " but that inner strength to stand for herself was not seen in his hospital but after his words she did today... so it's again abt perceptions..
I think i will not reply to that accident as we are not sure what exactly happened .. let's see what they will show in his hatred.. but if we think he udaaoed him in hatred.. he would have made sure prerna never met Anurag be it in hospital or at home,. because Bajaj is ruthless he is manipulative, he can do anything he wants to "only if he wanted to " .. so too early to talk abt accident
regarding hero , leads .. jiska dil chaahe woh hero hai ..and I see them as characters rather than leads/heroes .. we obviously have different likes here .. so all cool
proper closures and redemptions are must for every character
again thanks for sharing your views Manisha 🤗
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