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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Agree. She does not deserve to be at the receiving end of all this. Which is why she needs to cut off from him.

I agree that he was wrong many times and he did not even apologise for the instances you mentioned.

However, since I am from a psychological background, I seem to understand the reasoning behind. I'm in no way justifying him... im just saying that there is a reason for this, this and only this issue.

@bold- psychology says, they do. Reasons that sometimes we can understand, sometimes it's beyond us. But it's the way the mind works 😉

I am a psychology graduate as well.

When we analyse a person then we look at him as an individual, not from the perspective of how it affects ppl around him. But here we are also looking at how it affects ppl around him, esp Sona who mostly ends up being at the receiving end.

I agree he has had a bad past n has been thru trauma. But someone needs to set him right.

If this was real life, ppl would abandon him left, right n centre seeing him project his frustration on others like this.

He needs to probably go through couseling before he loses his shit.

Abt the crime thing: I know. It was a statement that ppl have solid reasons for crimes they commit. Someone you actually feel they are justified. What m saying is that does not make the crimes forgivable.

Also: I wasnt implying you were defending him. M just saying we all cannot buy these reasons and accept his personality as is, and he should not go scott free every time.

He didnt even attempt to apologize for all the disgusting things he said aftr the malfunction.

I hope she shuts him off completely and he is really made to apologize.

One cant even imagine how Sona's psychological health will be affected by this. First her family uses n abuses her as per their convenience; then Karan does the same; now Rohit is really making life hell for her with his extreme behaviour. At this point Netra is her only true well-wisher.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I can understand rohit but I dont want sona to be at recieving end all the times from everyone..so I only want sona to reply back to rohit...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

Am fully in agreement & feel the same way. In real life I might be charmed by Dr Rohit but won’t like him. I like him coz of how KVG plays him.

Exactly!

Didnt we lambast Karan? We never tried to see the reasons behind his behaviour. M sure even he has his reasons. Everyone does: from bad socialization to wrong company to alcoholism.

Even when it comes to leads we should use the same yardstick.

I also criticized Sonakshi when she did her sacrifice drama. Ultimately Sippys told the media everything, so there was 0 need for Sona hiding the entire thing. Ofcourse, it made Rohit fall for her.

But well, this is the drama that gets in the trp. So well!

Also, KVG is a dear! If not for him I wouldve hated Rohit. I keep giving the character chances just coz of KVG.

CVs really need to get their act together. Emotional atyachaar stop karo. Stop making an abla naari out of Sonakshi.

The only way they can salvage this is, if Sona blasts him after what he said. I hope she does. I will be very disappointed otherwise.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: togepe30

I am a psychology graduate as well.

When we analyse a person then we look at him as an individual, not from the perspective of how it affects ppl around him. But here we are also looking at how it affects ppl around him, esp Sona who mostly ends up being at the receiving end.

I agree he has had a bad past n has been thru trauma. But someone needs to set him right.

If this was real life, ppl would abandon him left, right n centre seeing him project his frustration on others like this.

He needs to probably go through couseling before he loses his shit.

Abt the crime thing: I know. It was a statement that ppl have solid reasons for crimes they commit. Someone you actually feel they are justified. What m saying is that does not make the crimes forgivable.

Also: I wasnt implying you were defending him. M just saying we all cannot buy these reasons and accept his personality as is, and he should not go scott free every time.

He didnt even attempt to apologize for all the disgusting things he said aftr the malfunction.

I hope she shuts him off completely and he is really made to apologize.

One cant even imagine how Sona's psychological health will be affected by this. First her family uses n abuses her as per their convenience; then Karan does the same; now Rohit is really making life hell for her with his extreme behaviour. At this point Netra is her only true well-wisher.

This post was aimed only to understand the character of Rohit, and not the effects of his actions on people around him. Yes, when we speak of his actions in relation to Sona, then I would agree with each and every word you wrote.

Of course his behavior is not acceptable.... no one in real life would take such crap from others... But, this is a drama and this is the point from which Rohit can only grow and where we as an audience can experience his character growth. He has been portrayed as an imperfect being, having his flaw like any other character, hurting others while he is stuck at a point, but this is also the point where Rohit can learn to stop and think, instead of just venting. And I think with his past thing coming up, he will have to move past the escapist, comfort zone. That is, if writers decide to redeem him🙈

At this point, I said earlier Sona should just cut him off and let him deal with the so-called girlfriend issue and Raima issue. He needs a reality check and someone other than Sona needs to give him that.

Like I said this post was only trying to understand Rohit. If I think about Sona, I could write a book on 101 reasons why she shouldn't date Rohit. 😅

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