Loyality Vs morality

This is something i hv been pondering over since yesterday's episode.

Caution : It not a anti PreRish post.

When Prerna decided that she has to support her husband who left a person to die on the road even when he was the cause of the accident ......

This was downright wrong.....criminal. To hit a person wid your car and leave him bleeding on the spot.....hit and run to be exact.

I hv always wondered how some parents support der criminal sons even after heinous crimes they commit. They do everything in their power to save dem from the law. I personally hv felt that it's the parents who are to be blamed to be veiling such acts. This acts as an encouragement only for criminals.But I never understood the mentality..... Though I hv felt it to be equally wrong as the crime itself.

Yesterday Prerna's " loyality " reminded me of all this.

Yes Bajaj is not the same as the criminals I hv mentioned but Prerna's act is the same. There should be distinction between what is right and what is wrong which clearly both of them ( especially Prerna) has lost. I feel if it was anyone other than Anurag she probably would hv aided in paying off the victim's family. Hv lost all respect for the female lead.....whatever little I had to begin with.

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The accident happened, Bajaj went but he came back within a while. It seems like he went off because it was shown in the next episode so it looked stretched. Fact is, nobody knows how you’re going to react if you run somebody over.

Just wanted to mention one of my favourite movies, Tum Bin where shekhar accidentally kills Amar by car. He’s left in shock and his friend has to drag him away from the place. Was that wrong? Morally you can say yes but people do panic, that is human. Bajaj DID come back, he asked about Anurag and then went home. His first thought was to tell Prerna.

Prerna isn’t supporting a criminal, she’s listened to his side and understands that it was genuinely an accident. He doesn’t lie to her, she trusts him. What else can she do at the moment? Her priority is to make sure Anurag survives. She’s distraught about that. Bajaj is feeling the guilt.

Originally posted by: Reemz11

The accident happened, Bajaj went but he came back within a while. It seems like he went off because it was shown in the next episode so it looked stretched. Fact is, nobody knows how you’re going to react if you run somebody over.

Just wanted to mention one of my favourite movies, Tum Bin where shekhar accidentally kills Amar by car. He’s left in shock and his friend has to drag him away from the place. Was that wrong? Morally you can say yes but people do panic, that is human. Bajaj DID come back, he asked about Anurag and then went home. His first thought was to tell Prerna.

Prerna isn’t supporting a criminal, she’s listened to his side and understands that it was genuinely an accident. He doesn’t lie to her, she trusts him. What else can she do at the moment? Her priority is to make sure Anurag survives. She’s distraught about that. Bajaj is feeling the guilt.

First Tum Bin one of my all tym fav too.

But I found it wrong der too. But the fact that Shekar there was consumed by his own guilt so much so that he couldn't stay in peace and infact he wanted to go to the police or atleast take him to a hospital. Also when Pia who was in love wid Shekhar had a negative reaction for him when she heard that he was responsible for Shekhar's accident. But given the fact that he wasnt at fault and der was nothing he could hv done to save him ( as he was dead ) she forgives him. Just because I love dt movie..... doesn't mean everything about it has to be right.

Secondly it's not what Prerna could hv done........it's how she could hv reacted. If I would run over someone and run away .........den I'm pretty confident my parents ( who love me unconditionally) would be furious.

Just to show that you stand wid someone doesn't mean you support them in der wrong doing.

Maybe it's the script writing but I neither feel Bajaj's remorse nor Prerna's distinction between right or wrong.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

First Tum Bin one of my all tym fav too.

But I found it wrong der too. But the fact that Shekar there was consumed by his own guilt so much so that he couldn't stay in peace and infact he wanted to go to the police or atleast take him to a hospital. Also when Pia who was in love wid Shekhar had a negative reaction for him when she heard that he was responsible for Shekhar's accident. But given the fact that he wasnt at fault and der was nothing he could hv done to save him ( as he was dead ) she forgives him. Just because I love dt movie..... doesn't mean everything about it has to be right.

Secondly it's not what Prerna could hv done........it's how she could hv reacted. If I would run over someone and run away .........den I'm pretty confident my parents ( who love me unconditionally) would be furious.

Just to show that you stand wid someone doesn't mean you support them in der wrong doing.

Maybe it's the script writing but I neither feel Bajaj's remorse nor Prerna's distinction between right or wrong.

TB is a classic!

Shekhar and Amar has one meeting, they were fond of each other. Nobody is saying running away is right but even the nicest of people can become cowardly and Bajaj isn’t the ‘nicest’ of people. He hates the Basus so he’s not even going to pretend to be overly emotional about the incident but he does feel guilt. Shekhar didn’t come back that night, Bajaj came back within a few minutes. He shouldn’t have left, correct but he came back and if he was that bad he wouldn’t have done that.

The whole 99% people misunderstand you dialogue had significance. It’s because that 1% (Prerna) doesn’t think Bajaj is as bad as everyone thinks he is. Maybe she should’ve been angry, maybe she should’ve slapped him but maybe she just trusts him to know he wouldn’t have done it intentionally even if the 99% believe otherwise.

People do flee the scene of the accident after committing the crime. But in this instance, while Anu was bleeding on the road, Baj sat in his car and didn’t run to help but just drove away. Time is old 5he essence in these situations. The time between when he went home and returned could have meant life or death for 5he victim.

He showed no remorse and Pre blindly believed his story it was an accident. He mentioned he saw Anu got angry and ran into him. How does that fall under accident. It’s more like road rage.

He’s been up to no good with his string of crimes from blackmail to hit and run and got away with it. It’s as if he’s trying to push the envelope to see what more he can get away with. Given he came into town wanting revenge on Anu this could well be construed as motive to hit Anu with his car.

Baj stood by as Anu was put behind bars and suppressed evidence that would have exonerated Anu. Baj is far from being a hero so far he’s a villain.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

He showed no remorse and Pre blindly believed his story it was an accident. He mentioned he saw Anu got angry and ran into him. How does that fall under accident. It’s more like road rage.

He’s been up to no good with his string of crimes from blackmail to hit and run and got away with it. It’s as if he’s trying to push the envelope to see what more he can get away with. Given he came into town wanting revenge on Anu this could well be construed as motive to hit Anu with his car.

I don't know if you got the memo but Bajaj didn't claim to be a saint ever. Also we don't know about his back story, so let's not judge if the revenge he wanted to take was justified or not.

@ bold: he did show remorse. It was not crushing guilt. But he was guilty enough to go back. It was when he found out that Anu had been taken to the hospital that returned home. He confessed to Prerna, the only person whose opinion he cares about. Told her he couldn't believe that he hadn't helped Anu. Also told her he thought Anu wasn't seriously hurt.

As to why he didn't react, he said that he went into shock. Also, he never said he increased the speed of the car to hit Anu. He said, I was angry so I was driving fast. I saw Anurag, increased the speed of the car and Anurag came in front of the car.

Now I would like to humbly submit this for consideration. What was Anurag doing in the middle of the road, talking on the phone and not making a move when he clearly saw a car was coming at him? But that's okay I guess 🙄

Now onto the so called blackmail...

Whether Bajaj is a blackmailer or not depends on how you define the term. What I understand from the term blackmail (which is the definition by Oxford Dictionary, by the way) is that it's an act of making someone do something against their will by threatening harm that is other than physical.

Did he threaten Prerna anyway? No. He gave her a choice. A deal. He'd help her if she gave him something in return. She could have, at any point chosen to not take the deal. Mr. Bajaj wouldn't even have interfered in the trail. There was no choice between the devil and the deep blue sea. The only consequence of Prerna's refusal would have been that it would have taken longer to get Anurag out of the jail. Or are we going to suggest that India's judiciary doesn't give one enough chances to prove one's innocence?

Bajaj fans don't pretend that he is all good. We know he's a selfish person who takes advantage of situations. He doesn't do the right thing but does the right thing for himself. And we like him because deep down we all do things we're not proud of. We make mistakes. We're all made of both virtues and vices. Does that mean we don't deserve to be loved? I don't think so.

Originally posted by: aryapdane

I don't know if you got the memo but Bajaj didn't claim to be a saint ever. Also we don't know about his back story, so let's not judge if the revenge he wanted to take was justified or not.

@ bold: he did show remorse. It was not crushing guilt. But he was guilty enough to go back. It was when he found out that Anu had been taken to the hospital that returned home. He confessed to Prerna, the only person whose opinion he cares about. Told her he couldn't believe that he hadn't helped Anu. Also told her he thought Anu wasn't seriously hurt.

As to why he didn't react, he said that he went into shock. Also, he never said he increased the speed of the car to hit Anu. He said, I was angry so I was driving fast. I saw Anurag, increased the speed of the car and Anurag came in front of the car.

Now I would like to humbly submit this for consideration. What was Anurag doing in the middle of the road, talking on the phone and not making a move when he clearly saw a car was coming at him? But that's okay I guess 🙄

Now onto the so called blackmail...

Whether Bajaj is a blackmailer or not depends on how you define the term. What I understand from the term blackmail (which is the definition by Oxford Dictionary, by the way) is that it's an act of making someone do something against their will by threatening harm that is other than physical.

Did he threaten Prerna anyway? No. He gave her a choice. A deal. He'd help her if she gave him something in return. She could have, at any point chosen to not take the deal. Mr. Bajaj wouldn't even have interfered in the trail. There was no choice between the devil and the deep blue sea. The only consequence of Prerna's refusal would have been that it would have taken longer to get Anurag out of the jail. Or are we going to suggest that India's judiciary doesn't give one enough chances to prove one's innocence?

Bajaj fans don't pretend that he is all good. We know he's a selfish person who takes advantage of situations. He doesn't do the right thing but does the right thing for himself. And we like him because deep down we all do things we're not proud of. We make mistakes. We're all made of both virtues and vices. Does that mean we don't deserve to be loved? I don't think so.

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Originally posted by: aryapdane

I don't know if you got the memo but Bajaj didn't claim to be a saint ever. Also we don't know about his back story, so let's not judge if the revenge he wanted to take was justified or not.

@ bold: he did show remorse. It was not crushing guilt. But he was guilty enough to go back. It was when he found out that Anu had been taken to the hospital that returned home. He confessed to Prerna, the only person whose opinion he cares about. Told her he couldn't believe that he hadn't helped Anu. Also told her he thought Anu wasn't seriously hurt.

As to why he didn't react, he said that he went into shock. Also, he never said he increased the speed of the car to hit Anu. He said, I was angry so I was driving fast. I saw Anurag, increased the speed of the car and Anurag came in front of the car.

Now I would like to humbly submit this for consideration. What was Anurag doing in the middle of the road, talking on the phone and not making a move when he clearly saw a car was coming at him? But that's okay I guess 🙄

Now onto the so called blackmail...

Whether Bajaj is a blackmailer or not depends on how you define the term. What I understand from the term blackmail (which is the definition by Oxford Dictionary, by the way) is that it's an act of making someone do something against their will by threatening harm that is other than physical.

Did he threaten Prerna anyway? No. He gave her a choice. A deal. He'd help her if she gave him something in return. She could have, at any point chosen to not take the deal. Mr. Bajaj wouldn't even have interfered in the trail. There was no choice between the devil and the deep blue sea. The only consequence of Prerna's refusal would have been that it would have taken longer to get Anurag out of the jail. Or are we going to suggest that India's judiciary doesn't give one enough chances to prove one's innocence?

Bajaj fans don't pretend that he is all good. We know he's a selfish person who takes advantage of situations. He doesn't do the right thing but does the right thing for himself. And we like him because deep down we all do things we're not proud of. We make mistakes. We're all made of both virtues and vices. Does that mean we don't deserve to be loved? I don't think so.

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I am at loss of words try to reason it out now..it's so tiring and meaningless too..fine he did a mistake and it was unintentional and his wife bought the explanation. But when by his own admission he caused the accident by speeding the car in rage , why doesn't he surrender to the police and tell them the truth ? Oh ! He is not a saint who would wanna go to jail right or tried for hit and run ? This could be the excuse or all criminals that it wasn't intentional. It wasn't, yet as per law they have to face trial.

Whether he came back or not, he flees from there means it is a hit and run case. The charges should be more serious .... .

And last ,the lamest argument, What was anurag doing there..Whatever he was doing, nobody had the justification to run him over..just for a moment imagine if its your loved one in his place and he did a "mistake " of listening to a phone in the middle of the road and he gets run over by a car? Mr bajaj's mistake is a mistake but for anurags mistake he should be crushed because Mr bajaj got angry while driving? Oh. Bajaj is not a saint but anurag is so all the rules are for anurag .like he shouldn't be stalking and irritating his ex but bajaj can get away with murder because he says he is not a saint . Prerna is lucky. As if anurag was in the middle of the road because he wanted to be killed.