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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: memad

oh yes, Bajaj has a life. blackmailing a pregnant woman to become nanny of his mute daughter n roaming around bb in 3 piece suits

Agreed . We have one more "grey " character in show, that is, anurag who is stalking pre.

If people can call bajaj a blackmailer then why can't Anurag be called a stalker ?

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad



hey smiley31

let's start with what's offensive , what's name calling what are strong opinions

Firstly, this is a forum and not a fan page, in forum we have both appreciation and criticism of characters based on what they do/say/act in the show, , when a character displays or portrays a trait or enacts an action , like stalking, lying, creepy or blackmailing etc , members have every right to call it out , else what is the point of discussion when we cannot counter or debate the character's act/say .
Each episode brings out something about each character, if fans interpret it one way, others interpret the other way , but then no one is wrong in interpretation at the end as long as views are shared with out targeting each other , everyone must be able to take it with , because when you want to say for other characters , we should be able to take it for our favorites with a "pinch of salt"

Case in point one fan group calls Prerna Bajaj marriage - blackmail, other group calls - deal ... there is ambiguity attached in episodes to characters based on perceptions

disgusting is a strong form of expressing your opinion, be it for Anurag or Prerna or Bajaj .. all characters garner certain strong opinions , you might not like Anurag being called disgusting, .. but then when it comes to other characters will you be able to stop yourself from saying he/she is disgusting ???? NO, when we watch episodes whatever we feel and interpret is shared in the forum ..

Criticisms when crossed a line becomes bashing, we will deal with that ... all fan groups must be open to criticism of all characters.... when we want to give it, we should learn to take it and if that's followed I will not have to wake up to 50+ reports every single morning


Insaani fitrat hain... hum apne behavior par react nahin karte, hum zyada react uss par karte jo behavior humein doosron se milta hain


@Pallavi, we cannot micro manage a forum round the clock , everyone here is mature enough to conduct themselves... (atleast i would like to think so) in the episode the truth wasn't shown , what does that constitute ?? a lie ?? it was open for interpretations with ambiguity all members are free to discuss what's shown in the episode

-Regards,


@Munni , this post of yours itself merits a separate post. Please do make a separate post thread with this reply of yours. It is very important I feel.

Just a humble request from a fellow member.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad



hey smiley31

let's start with what's offensive , what's name calling what are strong opinions

Firstly, this is a forum and not a fan page, in forum we have both appreciation and criticism of characters based on what they do/say/act in the show, , when a character displays or portrays a trait or enacts an action , like stalking, lying, creepy or blackmailing etc , members have every right to call it out , else what is the point of discussion when we cannot counter or debate the character's act/say .
Each episode brings out something about each character, if fans interpret it one way, others interpret the other way , but then no one is wrong in interpretation at the end as long as views are shared with out targeting each other , everyone must be able to take it with , because when you want to say for other characters , we should be able to take it for our favorites with a "pinch of salt"

Case in point one fan group calls Prerna Bajaj marriage - blackmail, other group calls - deal ... there is ambiguity attached in episodes to characters based on perceptions

disgusting is a strong form of expressing your opinion, be it for Anurag or Prerna or Bajaj .. all characters garner certain strong opinions , you might not like Anurag being called disgusting, .. but then when it comes to other characters will you be able to stop yourself from saying he/she is disgusting ???? NO, when we watch episodes whatever we feel and interpret is shared in the forum ..

Criticisms when crossed a line becomes bashing, we will deal with that ... all fan groups must be open to criticism of all characters.... when we want to give it, we should learn to take it and if that's followed I will not have to wake up to 50+ reports every single morning


Insaani fitrat hain... hum apne behavior par react nahin karte, hum zyada react uss par karte jo behavior humein doosron se milta hain


@Pallavi, we cannot micro manage a forum round the clock , everyone here is mature enough to conduct themselves... (atleast i would like to think so) in the episode the truth wasn't shown , what does that constitute ?? a lie ?? it was open for interpretations with ambiguity all members are free to discuss what's shown in the episode

-Regards,


Thanks for your reply Munni 🤗

I agree with you whatever you said. This applies to everyone equally and this should be followed by everyone as far as I personally feel. Please requesr you to have a look at the pm I sent you.

Thanks and regards

Manisha

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Posted: 6 years ago

I never liked KSG in QH because I saw his work in DMG. He was no saint there. Cool, bindas , bad ass guy and that made me like KSG. Even in his movies I just hate him when he works as Mr. too good. As he can do much better job as a Casanova and the bad boy.

According to the story Mr. Bajaj is definitely not the saint. He is a manipulator, greedy, cheat and daring businessman who is ready to use all his tips and tricks to destroy his enemy. We should enjoy him this way. SRK in Daar was not the hero but still he got more popularity than the hero Suny.

Same way saw Anurag's work in MTV and also in other channels. He is also a very good actor. In this serial he is the hero from the beginning and his photo comes in the promo............not Bajaj. So no matter what you want this serial is about Anu and Prerna's love story. Komo, Mohini, Baja are just disturbances...........they are not the hero/heroine.

Enjoy the story as it is.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: muktha_cute

Religion?

Where did religion come in all this? Did I say abt any religion. I'm talking abt marriage not any particular religion.

There is something called arranged marriage. Where ppl don't jump on bed. Some take time to become friends, get comfortable and later comes physical intimacy.

Just bcz they didn't had sex does it make their marriage invalid? For everyone sex is not as much important. It's a part of marriage. People don't get married just to have sex.

I'm saying all this bcz that is what said in that comment where I quoted. So my reply was relevant to that.

Ok as ur talking abt special marriages, have u ever heard abt contract marriage. Even that is legal. Phir ye deal marriage kya hain? Their is nothing called deal marriage as u ppl keep on saying in forum. If they signed some contract reg marriage than would have agreed to it. They talked like adults and got married. Few ppl marry for money, social security , some for love, some for society, some bcz of parents pressure etc. In the same way Prerna asked for anurags freedom and Bajaj asked for her loyalty. How is this so different from others. Both got what they wanted from the marriage. If Prerna expected or asked for something which made her later regret it's not Bajaj fault

thanx for the information madam.... Mjhe to pata he nhe tha.... Ap ko ap k Bajaj mmbrk ho... Khush👍... Wo Kya kehtay Hain kisi k galat ko galat Mt bolo warna wo ap k sahi ko galat kehne lagen ge.... So goodluck behna khush rehna😊😊
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Agreed . We have one more "grey " character in show, that is, anurag who is stalking pre.

If people can call bajaj a blackmailer then why can't Anurag be called a stalker ?

Are you defending bajju or criticizing onu? Are you equating these both BOLD acts to the same measure?

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: memad

Are you defending bajju or criticizing onu? Are you equating these both BOLD acts to the same measure?

No. Read the post. I myself don't like bajaj, why would I defend bajaj😆

Nobody is equating anything. My reply was to someone who was asking Mod to include stalker as name calling. That the other fandom shouldn't call Anurag as stalker.

That's why I explained if Bajaj can be called a blackmailer, why can't Anurag be called a stalker because criticising of characters is allowed . What is not allowed is mocking and bashing.

Like some fandom make fun of anurag by saying "Awwnu" and the other fandom mocks Bajaj by saying "Eyeconic" or "Bapre"

This is mocking and isn't allowed for any fandom.

Anyways, mod herself explained the same thing later to her in detail 👍🏼

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Waidehi

ur anurag has also no life rather than roaming around prerna accused bajaj u can see how he blamed bajaj without man saying bajaj name we can see how pure he is i m not saying bajaj is not wrong i m glad bajaj is not like anurag who will accused anurag like that

Bajaj good because he is not flirting,romancing, and touching someone else wife when her husband is at work. He knows his limits ❤️😛❤️

Oh my god I’m not even comparing him with anu

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