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Posted: 6 years ago
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Is this some kind of partial amnesia, where ppl want to remember just what they want to remember.

What was the deal made by B to P? Ppl should go and watch the episode again bfr saying Bajaj is deviating or expecting more from it.

When he made the deal, he asked her to marry him and be loyal to him. He didn't ask her to be Kuki's mom while making a deal. The responsibility comes as a part and parcel of deal as shez going to be Mrs Bajaj.

Prerna isn't a kindergarten child to be explained meaning of marriage and loyalty. Coming to showing rights, it was pre who was trying to boss him around and do his personal stuff. As much they have shown Bajaj never asked her to do his personal stuff. If she loves to play wifey wifey it's not his fault. Though he tried to ignore or move far if shez doing as per her wish what can he do?

Coming to her loyalty. Does she even know the spelling of it. Loving someone and showing it are both difft things. What is Prerna trying to do by letting or being quiet after being touched, molested and man handled by Anurag? Shez trying to hide and spend time with him like watching moon and nonsense. If that is not enough doing his personal work like bring his servant. In sab mein loyalty kaha hain? She can love him her whole life not an issue but letting him touch her and giving him that linenance of showing his right on her and letting him get away with it. What impression does that make to Anurag and others that she is ok with it and doesn't have any problem to be touched and claim his right on her.

Just imagine if someone makes a video of them and make it viral what will happen. No one is going to question Anurag, no one will say oh Prerna is having EMA. Ppl will say Mrs Bajaj is having EMA. That is what shez giving chance to others to question her character by crossing her limits. Now don't come with modern women and nonsense. Just bcz ur modern doesn't mean u give chance to ur ex to flirt with u. She could have shown him his limits and kept him at bay. But know she have to act like some abla nari than even act like how loyal she is to her husband. Why she felt guilty when Bajaj had seen them in kitchen. She was not doing anything wrong na acc to her. Phir explanation dene ki zarurat hin kya hain. As acc to her shez not breaching the deal and if shez not doing anything wrong Bcz she knows what shez doing is not right.

So being loyal and fulfilling that deal is nonsense. So before questioning that Bajaj is taking advtg of the deal should even check the other side. If Prerna is even fulfilling her side duty.

Bajaj is always in his limits it's Prerna whoz crossing hers as she wants to play wifey wifey and also friend friend with anurag.

Just not letting Anurag kiss her doesn't make her loyal. Letting him giving the chance or right to touch her, stalk her, take advantage of her and listening all his cringe-worthy words of him abt them when she is already someone's wife is not called loyalty. Letting him showing his right on her and doing his chef or assistant work when hez her husband's rival is not loyaly. Coming to her stand of loving Anurag as mentioned in the deal. She could love him till her last breath without breaching her deal and responsibilities and duties. Which she is not able to balance. If she was strong enough Anurag wouldn't even date to man handle and abuse her like he did.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Compeletly agreed with you.She hesitated when Bajaj touched her when they were posing for the photograph.But somebody tell that lady.Isn't it a normal gesture in group photo.And when Anurag touches her,grabs her like a molester,it feels like she is just saying no for formality.And sometimes cvs tries to romantize such a disgusting act by making them look into each others eye and playing romantic songs.Had hai yaar.Also she don't tell her husband about it.OH PLEASE Prerna.It looks compeletly like EMA.

Star plus If you want to show and Promote EMA then shame on you and start telecasting this show at midnight because indian families will not tolerate this.

Edited by Vrcc3 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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for god's sake cut her some slack.. it was bajaj's decision to marry someone else's lover.. although prerna agreed for loyalty she is still human not a loyal pet😃

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Edited by munnihyderabad - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: falah5

for god's sake cut her some slack.. it was bajaj's decision to marry someone else's lover.. although prerna agreed for loyalty she is still human not a loyal pet😃

Giving chance to ur Ex, Letting him touch u, letting him talk abt his rights on her when shez married, forget abt talks hez even showing his rights on her and what Prerna is doing stopping him or getting away with it.

Their is something called decency and character which Prerna is lacking. Na it was not alone Bajaj's decision both Prerna and Bajaj decided and agreed and married each other. So stop putting all responsibility or blame on Bajaj just bcz Prerna is allowing and letting her Ex to getaway with it. Just bcz it's done by the fav Anu doesn't make it right.

If shez human she better behave like one.


Edited by munnihyderabad - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: muktha_cute

It looks like a Personal comment

I'm not even married yet to become a MIL and that too for a person like Prerna, no thanks.

Putting Constraints like seriously? Giving chance to ur Ex, Letting him touch u, letting him talk abt his rights on her when shez married, forget abt talks hez even showing his rights on her and what Prerna is doing stopping him or getting away with it.

Their is something called decency and character which Prerna is lacking. Na it was not alone Bajaj's decision both Prerna and Bajaj decided and agreed and married each other. So stop putting all responsibility or blame on Bajaj just bcz Prerna is allowing and letting her Ex to getaway with it. Just bcz it's done by the fav Anu doesn't make it right.

If shez human she better behave like one. Animals do that with anyone and it's ok as they don't have moral obligations like humans.

@bold although its for a fictional character..but this was really in bad taste.

Let;s not talk about morality... because everyone knows who can cross morality lines and is given free pass just because he is a "grey" character

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Posted: 6 years ago
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loyal means Lo you all (loY'al ) #KKurbanDictionary. she's distributing her care, pyar and attention to everyone in the house equally.🤣


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chalo, ab serious reply deti hoon😆

Pre can talk to anyone at anytime and/or do whatever she wants. she dont need to take hubby's permission for that. but but but what if someone sach mein makes a video of her hiding/escaping from maasi in terrace. if she and Anu knows that they aren't doing anything wrong (we know that they are just talking), whats the need of hiding from anyone? matlab problem unke mann mein hain, hum mein nahismiley36

When we think about loyalty, we mostly think about how we can be loyal to others. But first, we must be loyal to ourselves. When you're loyal to yourself, you make better decisions, based on who you really are. You will feel happier and more at peace, with yourself and the world.

Edited by hasini009 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Dont know what to say

Just brilliant 👏👏👏

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Posted: 6 years ago
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i completely agree with you....i don't know what game is prerna playing?

she is pursuing two men...she wants to be mrs. bajaj as well as lover of anurag at the same time...anurag was hurt ..i know it's very bad but the way she have ran in the road and crying for anurag made me think like aren't you forgetting something like saath vachan n all with your hubby bajaj...now i am confused with everything ...what are the makers showing....

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Prerna has all the rights to talk to anurag, to listen to him out,to share her feelings with him......its all okay because its a women right that who she wants to talk to or not talk to ......no kind of marriage can stop a women from doing that. She is right until and unless she go physical with him which she will never go. She know her limits and is well within them. I dont feel she was guilty for being with anurag in kitchen, she just asked bajaj that if that is what is making him feel troubled but bajaj reassured her that it's not the case and thus she choosed not to talk about it, else she would have put her point of view in front. I dont feel she feels guilty of meeting anurag...that's no where wrong. And making tea or roti for somebody you are sharing a house with doesnt make you disloyal to your husband, especially when she hasn't asked her husband to shift to basu wadi in my opinion.

Regarding the expectation thing............yes bajaj had his expectations high when he thought she would let him hold her like that for a photograph......because its normal. Nothing is normal in this marriage for bajaj to expect that from prerna....she has always resisted the touch and he clearly knows that. He should have been careful, instead he got angry with her because he coudnt understand her. Prerna wasn't wrong. Though there has not been a contract shown this season, but hasn't prerna clearly told that she doesn't wishes to have physical intimacy in this marriage. She felt uncomfortable, so she removed his hand from her waist and she was right. Uncomfortable hain toh hain........this isnt a marriage where she is dying in love with bajaj.........on the contrary, she loves someone else and to an extent that she has sacrificed herself for him. She will obviously take time to be comfortable around him.......she is also a human afterall. I liked how she was not sorry for removing his hand but still understood his perspective and explained herself to him. Though it wasnt needed but she still clarified that she wasnt really disgusted with the touch and was not trying to save herself, was not doubting his intentions either but she is not wrong if she is uncomfortable and she will take her time to be comfortable around him.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Its her fault that both men are at war bajaj blames anurag anurag blames bajaj but in reality both men should blame prerna tyaag ki devi 😆

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